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writes: me and my boyfriend split up a few weeks back, he says hes confused bout how he feels..we have been together around 3 years now, and hes not sure whether he sees me as a best mate or as a partner. he has recently gone 2 see a friend of his, who lives far away for a few weeks, this has really upset me, because i have been seein him since we split up and im going to miss him so much. i really do love him and want to get back together with him, do you think him going away will make him realise how he really feels about me- (in a good way or a bad)? sometimes i think were going to get back together and sometimes i dont, i did ask him how he feels but he says im being too pushy because i am telling him i love him all the time.. i cant help it. what shall i do?
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 November 2006): Your ex is telling you that you are too pushy and telling him that you love him all of the time (because you do) is not making him want to be back together with you.
Unfortuneatley, just because we love someone very much does not mean that we are meant to be or that he will return our feelings, you have to respect where he is right now and meet him there on that level if you want things to progress.
Give him his space, he is physically leaving for a few weeks, this is me time for both of you.
Go get a makeover, eat better, get a hobby, work out, what ever you like to do, do it and forget about thinking about him daily and stressing over the what ifs of your relationship.
You are broken up, use this time to be alone with yourself and learn to enjoy your own company, you will feel renewed and more positive about yourself and your ex will notice and who knows begin to wonder what you are up to and hey she does not need me, she is fine without me.
No one ever knows for sure about love or how it will turn out until it does, but in the mean time, don't wait for this fellow, date around, make friends, get back to you, you deserve it, you are fabulous with or without him, aren't you?
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