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writes: am i a slag for giving a guy a blowjob and swallowing even if i only met this guy 4 times? and is cum good 4 u? thanks xx
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reader, DrPsych  +, writes (20 November 2006):
 I suspect you are quite young by what you post...'slag' is the rubbish found on coal tips and a word used by not-so intelligent men to belittle sexually liberated women...do you think you are rubbish? I don't think anyone can rightly tell you what you have done is right or wrong (provided you are over the age of consent) but this is really not about how everyone else feels about what you have done? How do you feel about it? If it makes you feel bad about yourself then learn by your mistake and don't do it again. If you don't mind then other people's opinion is irrelevant. As for the nutritional content of semen...it contains zinc which is good for your skin...but honestly, I think I would rather stick to nivea as my first choice of face pack!
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reader, Sonworshipper +, writes (19 November 2006):
Anyone who trully cares for you wouldn't expect you to do something that you're not comfortable with.
Remember that there is freedom in love & that you can't be or give everything to someone, it's never worked, we were never made to carry that responsibility.
You can only give or recieve that which's been earned - through trust.
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reader, Yos  +, writes (19 November 2006):
 Everyone has a different definition of what a 'slag' is. Some people don't think you should ever use the word.
Personally I don't think it has anything to do with what you do with someone... it has everything to do with your connection to that person. If you met the guy four times but you two really like each other and both think your relationship could grow into something more... then great! But if you don't care about him (or he doesn't care about you) then I don't think its a good thing to be doing.
Sex is much much better between two people who care about each other.
You sound young, so don't expect to find 'the one' right now, or expect to be with your boy for the rest of your life. But do look after yourself and be with boys that care about you and treat you well. The word is 'respect'.
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 November 2006): Define good.
If you are a youth; teenager...then having sex and giving blow jobs is not good for you period.
I say this as, as much of so many youth believe they know what is best for them or that they are of an age where they know what will bring them happiness- you don't.
If you had wisdom then you would know that engaging in sexual activities at a young age and with someone who is not your Husband/Wife is not morally, spiritually, mentally good for you.
Yes I am a Mother and yes I do recall being a teenager.
I also recall being blessed with good, loving parents who were actively involved in my life and who were so wise and understanding that they knew before I did that when I was going to make a decision that would bring me harm or hurt me in some way...they would instruct me on what would make me happy.
Popularity is not happiness. Popularity at the expense of sacrificing your body, your reputation, your integrity will NEVER bring anyone happiness.
Such things as popularity or being "liked" by another or "accepted" is not worth it if you have to engage in sexual activities. Your reptutation and integrity are what matters more than the short life span of an intrest of some young man.
Ten years from now where will he be? Even a year from now where will he be?
Stop doing this and turn to your parents and good, reliable sources of happiness.
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