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writes:I live in a very samll town, so when my ex split up with me for another girl last year, everybody knew about it. I loved him so, so, so much and I could not accept what was happening so I wouldnt leave him alone. I begged him, cried to him, cried to his friends, hit his new girlfriend and just generally made myself look like an idiot. At the time, I really couldnt see how I was behaving. Now I look back and Im so embarressed and its taking over my life.Him and his gf live together now and they are really happy. I am no longer in love with him but it is still tormenting me. When we were together, he treated me like shit. He treats his new gf like gold and everyone knows how much he loves her and its really awkward for me because they also remember how much I loved him so they look at me with pity. Whats worse though is that I found out that he was really nasty about me to his friends, saying I was nothing to him and that he wishes he never met me.Thats fine by me, I dont care what he thinks, just what everybody else thinks. How can I get on with my life or get another boyfriend - nobody wont want to go near me. Im so embarressed and so ashamed and still angry with myself for the way I handled the situation. I know Im the butt of his jokes and that him and his friends laugh at my expense. Im beginning to hate myself for it. How can I put all this behind me and make people see that Im not some bitter, desperate girl and how do I come to terms with the fact that I loved someone so much and they treated me like dirt and his new gf like a princess??! Its driving me mad.
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reader, flower girl +, writes (19 November 2006):
 unfortuanetly babe some relationships are like that but they are not all like that, we all do silly things when we have been hurt but you really should not be embarrased by that we all have very different ways of dealing with rejection what you need to do now is pick yourself up dust yourself off and get on with your life and for gods sake please dont let it show that it is bothering you why should you care what he, his new girlfriend, and their friends think. Just show people that you are better than that and you have learnt from your mistakes if thats what you think they are, everyone will soon forget and you will meet someone that will treat you like royalty soon.
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