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writes: i have this very close friend. she trusts me with everything, and comes to me whenever she's upset. we are really good friends. i'm beginning to like her. in fact i'm always thinkin about her. she was upset a few days ago and she text me to go to her house. i went in her room and she was crying. she was in my arms for 2hours. but i'm missing that now because now she's not in my arms. she has a 9month boyfriend. we are 16years old. she isn't too happy with her boyfriend. what should i do? shall i hint her? wait? please tell me i'm crazy about her
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 December 2006): I feel so much for you..but i agree you need to wait ..and if you are meant to be together you will....it will happen if it is meant to be. I can totally relate to what you are going through because I feel the same. I'm in love with me best friend and he has a girlfriend so I know how it tears you apart. I hope it works out for you.
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reader, Thomas17  +, writes (19 November 2006):
 Hello,
you might have a crisis there if you suddenly pop the question in the middle of a problem between her and her current boyfriend.. id say you wait and see what happens. i know you like her alot.. but taking this for your advantage makes you mean.. she will know your motive trust me and might break off from you because of this.
i'd say wait it out. good luck though :)
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reader, zhang +, writes (19 November 2006):
Be her shoulder to cry on for now. She may be going through rough times with her relationship and her mind might be all confused. Tell her that you love her when shes calm and not depressed, because she might answer "yes", but only on rebound. Always be there for her now, though it breaks your heart. That is the sign that you truly love her.
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reader, des16  +, writes (19 November 2006):
 if you are as close as you say you are then it could just be that you feelings are getting mixed, you want to be there for her but sometimes if a friend gets too close they could be seen as a threat.
if you friend is not happy with her situation right now stand back, give her space to make up her own mind. let herknow that you are there for her.
as much as it may hurt you to read this i know its the best thing for her. she needs to make up her own mind about her boyfriend first, you will only confuse her, it may meen for you to be patient.
if she feels the same way she will come to you,
good luck and i hope i have helped you
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