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writes: Been talking to my ex over the internet, and I really want to get back with him. we broke up a while ago, but were sex buddies until he got himself a new girlfriend, but they broke up a few days ago. He says we should meet up, and that he'll call me some time soon. However I quote the following things that he wrote:*I promised myself I wouldn't get back with you again*Being sex buddies was really bad for our relationship*I'm lonely and thinking about sex*You still have beautiful eyes*You have great tits *My ex means nothing to me anymore*I miss you*We had REALLY good sex*noone does oral as well as youSo what does he want from me? He's sending some seriously mixed messages. Had he not said the first 2 I would have thought he would try to convince me to become his sex buddy again, but I'm not sure. Any interpretation welcome....
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reader, Yos  +, writes (19 November 2006):
 I agree with rhythmandblues. Sounds like he's angling for some no-strings sex. And it sounds like you're willing to offer that to him... which I don't think you should, but thats between you and him.
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 November 2006): It sounds to me like your ex is missing the sex you had together, but that being sex buddies is not what he really wants out of a relationship...I think he may be losing respect for you.
If you want something more out of this relationship, I think you should demand that this guy step up to the plate.
Stop offering sex for sex's sake....be busy in your own life, do not be available for bootie calls, date other men, (I don't mean sleep around) and see if he does not return with renewed passion for you and want a real relationship with you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 November 2006): well I think that he feels like he misses having sex with you. He said that being sex buddies was bad for your relationship, well maybe he's trying to say that he wants to have sex with you again but he wants to be in something more serious this time than just sex buddies. I think he still likes you and might be trying to get back with you. It's obvious that one of the reasons he misses you is because of the sex you guys used to have. Talk to him! ask him what he wants from you!
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