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*hely2294
writes:Im going out with this GORGEOUS guy and i love him loads im only 17 and im still a virgin, on the other hand, there is this guy at college he's is always dead nice to me and he brilliant, and i fancy him alot but im going out with this guy and i feel really bad but the guy that i like, his ex mate fancies me and i dont feel the same, and they have fallen out over me i dont know what to do, But me and my boyfriend we never see each other and i feel so unfaithful, can you please please, please help me!
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reader, realguy +, writes (20 November 2006):
This is a simple one. You are SEVENTEEN ! You are not married. This is the time in your life to find out who you are as a woman before committing to one person for life. I would suggest to be honest with you 'regular' boyfried, that you love him, care about him but are interested in dating other guys at school. If he truly loves you, he will be a little hurt but will appreciate your honesty and could possibly strengthen your bond but be prepared that he might want the same. If you both are not meant for each other, then it will fade, which it would have anyway with you missing out on several fantastic 17 year old experiences you were supposed to enjoy and learn from. Honesty is the way to go here, both with yourself and your boyfriend. Just be careful out there and as for your virginity, carefully choose the when, who and why but for god's sake, have some fun as you must be very attractive to have several GORGEOUS guys interested in you. Just don't lead them all on, that would be very bad. This is coming from a guy by the way :)
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