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What do I do when I give her oral sex?

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Question - (19 November 2006) 7 Answers - (Newest, 23 November 2006)
A male United States, anonymous writes:

HI!!!

i hope u all can help me out on this one (especially guys and lesbians!!! :D):

What am i doing when im down there by her crotch licking it??? advice? (sorry to put it so oddly phrased and child-like, but still, help?)

thank you!

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A reader, anonymous, writes (23 November 2006):

I loved the second advice, personally. Girls (like guys) are all very unique when it comes to this kind of thing. I would avoid any advice that is too specific (such as "GENTLY place her clit between ur teeth" - some girls would HATE this) and just get a basic understanding of what areas do what things, and then find out as many different techniques, stories, problems as you can.

Guys perhaps have it a little harder (pun acknowledged) because there is a little more to the female sex organ, I think, generally speaking, it is easier to turn a guy on.

As the second advice quite rightly said, "Research, communicate, practice." (find out what to do, talk to your partner about what they like, practise it) If you are with the right person, it won't take long at all for you both to learn how you like to turn each other on. Enjoy :)

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A male reader, inkhead +, writes (23 November 2006):

hiya,

i think if your now considering exploring the nether regions of your ladies body you must not show your hesitation this then gives you the little extra on the situation. Now bear in mind most guys have been in this situation.

you will firstly find thwe following bullets helpful

1. use your fingers to get the mood going.

2. set the rhythm.

3. slowly approach the area continuously teasing.

4. spread her.

5. then slowly massage the clitoris with your finger till you know shes happy.

6. start to add your tongue.

7. keep the same motion

8. now here comes the fun part

9. when she gets excited be a little harder with your tongue but keep same rhythm

10. explore with you fingers cos you will know when shes not happy, as her mood will change according to the situation(you will know according to your partner.

11. just be paitent and watch the juices flow and enjoy the feast.

12. enjoy hearing her moan and cum.

13. hey presto mission accomplished

Good Night Guys

The Inkhead

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A female reader, jabey United Kingdom +, writes (23 November 2006):

definately, finger her whilst licking and to add that extra excitment finger her bumhole that feels great. also if you dont mind add a vibrato into the equation this can be fantastic guarenteened orgasm with that!!

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A female reader, littlelostgirl +, writes (23 November 2006):

i definatly agree with the one of your answers i love it when i guy moans while he is doing it, it is sometimes awkward but shows your appriciation and puts you at ease. as for technigue i cant tell you what exactly to do because i aint never done it but you will know by how she reacts if she likes it, start of slowly my biggest tip is to tease ! tease for a while so by the time you do it she will be begging for it !

im sure you will be fine atleast you have sought advice instead of being all macho man and going at it like a bull at a gate ! then again if she likes that approach ........ ah forget it, relax and enjoy yourself babes good luck.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (19 November 2006):

ask her what she likes is the only way! its better to be to gentle than too rough! its a delicate area all women are built completely different that tooth thing mentioned there sounds like torture to me! go in gently and ask how it is 4 her if you should go harder or softer or faster etc! remember short, nails always llick your fingers unless ur sure shes wet the fact your willing to leasrn is brilliANT!

dont get frustrated some girls dont play with themselves are not that experienced and dont know what they likje so just play aroung and see what works for them.

but remember too gentle is better than to rough. not feeling it is better than being in pain anyday!

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (19 November 2006):

Research, communicate, practice. Research, communicate, practice. Research, communicate, practice.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (19 November 2006):

Well,

The best "eaten out job" Ive ever gotten, was when u GENTLY place her clit between ur teeth. Then move ur toungs quicley up and down with her clit GENTLEY between ur two front teeth.

And another tip I can give for you is this...

When you are licking her clit, finger her at the same time, really hard, and moan as well, And to make it even more exciting, while licking and fingering, Use your hands to play with her boobs. ( more around the nipple area )

Hope I helped you out. I wish you the best of luck :)~

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