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writes: hi.i have been gay since i was 13 however for a long time now the thought has been on my mind that i may be bi. My feelings aren't just physical but emotional as well. I havn't done anything about following up how i feel purely because i don't know how to.I need to consider peoples feelings especially when spending time with other people as i wouldn't want people to feel like i am spending time with them to experiment because thats the last thing im trying to do. Does anyone have any suggestions about how i can begin to work out this problem Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 February 2007): hay whats up. ryan coming at cha. so my anser.
im gay and when i was 15 i figuerd out i was gay.
when i was 14 i first had sex with a girl.
i was not satafied. [slang] so i got help.
i found i was gay.
see ya
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 January 2007): Hey,
MY STORY:
Well i've been bi since i was 9. i know a REALLY young age for the last almost 15 years i've struggled to tell my friend's when's the RITE time / place and who is the rite person to tell??? are my feelings just something stupid or is it for real??? it's so weird but i've come to love who i am i AM bi, although i choose my friends cafefully it's difficult to sometimes live with what ppl say and do but it's who u r and it's worth it...
MY SUGGESTION IS:
1) think about it
2) Talk with a friend or maybe write down some things on how u feel (helped me)
3) go out with a guy and see how u feel (remember u don't have to do anything u don't want to, usually the hard part when trying to find yourself- i KNOW)
4) Live life and have fun see where the road takes u usually the path that u want is infront of u, it just takes awhile for it to open sometimes.
Good Luck and Hope this Helps !!!
From A.H.
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 December 2006): hi...I would suggest that you go out with a guy and if you feel that you do feel something for him and for women...than you are a bi...cuz am one to since I waz 11 and right now am 15..well good luck on finding your real self...
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reader, lboy  +, writes (21 November 2006):
 hi reader,
i am going through the same kind of situation but in reverse. i thought i was bi but now i think that i may be gay, the best way to tell is to see if both sex's appeal to you both physically and emotionally. however, if you only have a physical attraction to one sex then it is most likely to be a phase and will surely pass, but if you feel both physically and emotionally towards one or both sex's then you are likely to be gay or bi.
good luck
lboy
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 November 2006): well i wouldn't worry about people thinking you are using them to experiment. It happens all the time, if you think people wouldnt mind you using them or if you had real feelings for them then go for it. I think that wasting your time pissing about worrying is silly. be productive and get over your insecurities, get out there and go for it! joy is around the corner. if you want to risk your friendships then go for it. I did that in the past and even when it doesn't work true friends wont disappear. god knows the amount of my friends i come on to its a surpirse i still have any but the reason is that sex means very litlle most of the time and having someone come on to you is mostly a compliment not an isult, except when they're very drunk and being skanky on speed. anyway get your cock out and see what barnacles grab hold, shake off the ones that look mangky and youve solved your problems (the secret is stop caring)
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reader, davie  +, writes (20 November 2006):
You should be able to indentify your feelings simply by the way you look at and feel about men/women or boys/girls.
Emotional attraction doesn't really define whether you are straight, gay or bi. It all comes down to physical/sexual attraction.
If a goodlooking girl catches your eye, or makes you head turn, and you find her really attractive - then you may well be bi. But if it is only boys that catch your eye then you are likely gay. Could you imagine kissing or being intimate with a girl, or just with boys?
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