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writes:I am really sad because Ive been seeing my boyfriend for 6 months and im terrified hes going to dump me. Im 16 and my last boyfriend dumped me after 6 months to the day! Im worried the same things going to happen again! Lately ive been a little more moany with my bf because we're both always so tired when we get to see each other (we've both started sixth form and live in different counties) We don't really see each other enough - its a bit all over the place at the moment, with work and various other committments etc. He hasn't said anything to suggest he doesnt like me as much, he still says he loves me, but i think hes been tired recently. I read star signs and stuff to try and find out whats going to happen to us - and its always bad news! Im really getting hurt and i dont know what to do! Do you think he will break up with me? How do i cope with it again? Reply to this Question
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reader, Zim +, writes (19 November 2006):
 Firstly, calm down. Just because your last boyfriend dumped you at 6 months does not mean that this one will. Tiredness affects people differently. I know when i'm tired, i'm generally down and not quite with it. Perhaps this is the case with your boyfriend? How often do you two see each other? I can understand how you are feeling. I was in a long distance relationship once too. Sixth form does require more time than lower school and perhaps you two need to adjust to your new lifestyles first.
Personally, and this is my own opinion so you can take it or not, I think star signs and stuff like that are complete rubbish. People will disagree with me. Often myself I have looked at them to try to see into my future and somehow they always seem to match what is happening. But if you look closely at the words and sentences they use, they seem to apply to everybody. Something can't be specific to you if it applies to everybody. What i'm trying to say is, don't rely on star signs. Go with what's in your heart.
Don't badger him too much about it. Just be the kind and loving girlfriend who supports him. He'll appreciate that. I hope that helps! Let us know what happens. Good luck!
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