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writes:I am in the final days of my job and I have a BIG crush on my higher boss. For the pass few months I have been picking up on his body language. When in a whole staff meeting of about 70 staff he scans the room looking for me then stares. when I have a meeting with him he is really relaxed and chilled and looks me up and down. Once I caught him staring at my breasts. It made me feel a little uncomfortable.As we work in education, he has told me he will be in over the holidays if I need any help with anything. He has volunteered to keep in touch by mentoring me (my sugestion). I was a manager and feel I need help to continue in my career. I also thought it would be a good way to break down the ice a little now that we dont work together.I recently mentioned that I can read body language and he looked really uncomfortable working hard to hide his.He recently encourgaged me to leave as he could see I was suffering and was not happy. I have no job yet to go to but he is helping me with applications and suggestions.Can anyone advise me how to carry this forward. I would hate to lose a possible true love. I have hinted that I hope we can stay in touch. I was hoping he could ready between the lines.Thank you for your words of advice.
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 July 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI was a little confused by some of the Aunts responses. There are 100's of questioners on here and I was wondering whether you were muddling me up.
Thank you 11mud11, your response made me really think. Its not a sorfid affair and I am not easy. I am enjoying him chasing me and we'll see where it ends up. This guy is actually divorced and has been for over 2 years. I have reliable sources.
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reader, Miamine  +, writes (10 July 2010):
 Thanks Sis, the post didn't make any sense without that added information. She's over 40 and she has problems asking her boss out on a date???? Now I understand more about the situation.
I think I remember seeing the ring dream post... advice given... dreams mean nothing at all.
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reader, 11muds11  +, writes (10 July 2010):
The answer is in your question. He's volunteered to help you, get him to help you. Few things spur on male hormones more than helping a woman you're attracted to in need. It almost doesn't matter what need it is. But the fact that you actually need help is great. The more time you spend together, the better the chances that the inevitable will happen.
Don't just ask him out, out of the blue. Most men hate that unless it's for "just sex". Men like to chase.
And a "true love" doesn't oogle your breasts at work? That would mean about 5 of my friends who are married shouldn't be married. All are very happy with their "crass" but wonderful husbands. Jeesh. It just shows that your all around beauty is more powerful than his will power. It's a great sign as long as he also has romantic intentions. From what you've wrote, he does.
Get him to "help" you. Good luck.
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reader, Miamine +, writes (10 July 2010):
ah, understood, was a bit confused as you can tell... lol
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reader, Miamine +, writes (10 July 2010):
Just ask him out for coffee, best when you leave the job, because some companies ban romance between workers.
It's not love yet, just a harmless flirtation. Be direct, if the guy aint married just ask him out when you are free.
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