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writes:is it stupid to be scared of the man who sexually molested you for years and stopped a few months ago? hes my moms bf and im really scared whenever im around him, i just cant help it but i also feel that im being stupid that im scared.. Reply to this Question
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reader, RIKI93dw  +, writes (4 September 2010):
Sorry at the end I mean it's NOT stupid I forgot the word sorry so sorry
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reader, RIKI93dw +, writes (4 September 2010):
Your not stupid it's perfectly reasonable for you to feel this way And of course your gonna be scared or atleast worried when your with him but surely you should tell your mother if you havnt already, what he's done if she's so close to him. If you think about it if he did it once then he could just as easy start again you should tell her and I understand this will be difficult but she deserves to know what this monster has done to you and who could do again to you or to her if he's that bad. But yeah to your question your stupid to be scared of this man it's natural you have nothing to feel stupid about.
I hope this helps
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reader, Miamine +, writes (4 September 2010):
 You keep on posting... hasn't any of the advice you've been given managed to help you yet? I know your scared to tell your mum... have you tried to frighten this man.. tell him if he touches you again, you will tell the whole world about him and his nasty ways.
As long as you stay scared he has power over you. You must fight, you must scream, you must make him frightened of you.
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reader, Phoebe Halliwell +, writes (4 September 2010):
 It's not stupid that you're scared AT ALL. You have a reason to be scared, he did a terrible thing to you. You have to tell your Mum, he's not only abused you physically but probably also mentally. You're her daughter, and your needs should come before her boyfriend. What's happened is affecting you, and it wasn't fair. You shouldn't have to go on being scared in your own home. Talk privately with your Mum and tell her everything, if you keep it bottled up inside you it'll eat away at you, and if eventually your Mum finds out she'll wonder why you didn't tell her sooner. She needs to know, at least then you'll have someone to talk to this about. You're not being stupid, you're a victim of a sick man, and you need to speak out.
Be brave,
xxx
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 September 2010): It is not at all stupid, of course you are scared he will do it again. Tell your mom what he's been up to and im sure she will understand.x
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reader, DearMe +, writes (4 September 2010):
Of course your not being stupid being scared around him, he made you that way! Does your mum know what he did? Im guessing not. You should tell her. Get him out of your's and your mum's life! Honestly! Tell some one! Get him done, for what he has done to you! Good luck xx
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