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writes:I'm in a very loving relationship with this girl, and have to ask for 2 pieces of advice here.1. She does not orgasm during intercourse. She says she has never been able to. Being a man, I look at this as a challenge, and am continually dissapointed when she doesnt. She does get pleasure out of it, she goes crazy but just doesnt orgasm. I know its not her fault and in no way whatsoever do I blame her, I just wish I could satisfy her in that way. We have tried loads of positions etc but nothing seems to do the trick!2. I want to go down on her, but ive never done it before, and need some tips!! As many as you can people! I want her to just melt and think shes in heaven!! I have spoken to her about this, (prempting any responses), but I'd like some other peoples POV's on what techniques etc to use.Thanks!
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 August 2007): I'm having the same problem so i can kind of understand this. I've tried everything and we've done loads of positions etc. We looked on the internet together to try to see if we could find the clitoris, and we realized that this was a problem. We did find it, but it was not easily stimulated and she felt no real sensation. It is a worry to her, and she has started to complain that 'she doesn't have one'. But she does, it's just really hard to stimulate. Maybe it's too small or something? Anyway, I've had a look around the net and I came to here and thought what I've found could come in handy for you. I came across a website that has details about having a 'hooded clitoris', here is a link: http://health.ivillage.com/gyno/gynovulva/0,,9gx,00.html Read the whole page as it is the answer that is most helpful. I hope you find this useful.
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reader, leonard j.Douglas  +, writes (7 August 2007):
To best answer your quetions, can best be done by giving the both of you some insight into her physiological make-up of her vagina It's a known fact that only one woman out of three can have an orgasm by Vaginal-Penile-Intercourse, She just may be one out of those two who don't have orgasm by Penile-Stroking, intercourse.There is a simple reason for her being non-orgasmic. A moman's clitoris,in most cases, needs to have direct stimulation to have an orgasm. And being as your penis isn't directly stroking her clitoris,with vaginal insertion,and stroking, she doesn't have an orgasm, it's as simple as that. Her vaginal opening an the location the the clitoris are some what spaced, with the clitoris at the upper junction of her vagina,where the vaginal lips come together, and the vaginal opening lower down. It is her clitoris that is the trigger to any, and all her orgasms, and as I have said, in most cases, it takes the direct stimulation of her clitoris to induce an orgasm. Lots of men, and also women, can and do hand stimulate the clitoris while the Penile-vaginal stroking is taking place. This is a good way to bring her to an orgasm,but be sure to use a good Lubricant,so her vagina doesn't become sore. As for oral sex, It's a nice way to tell a woman that you love her. You both might like to check out this Web-Site. It can be very helpful for beginners."How To Give A Woman Good Oral Sex".Do hope that this has been helpful to both of you.
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reader, love-him  +, writes (6 August 2007):
 Hey bbe,
When my boyfriend goes down on me, he fingers me at the same time, and when he is licking me, he rolls his tongue over my clit and sometimes even puts it into my hole.. sometimes he nibbles on it, not biting it, and you need to know if your girlfriend likes it because some people dont.. also when you are licking maybe like shake your face on her vagina because that feels good too..
Hope i could help,
Mail me if you would like to talk x
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reader, hlskitten +, writes (6 August 2007):
 HiFor starters, only 30% of women will orgasm through intercourse alone. Fact! Might be even less in fact.Most women need clitoral stimulation. Its nothing personal to you at all. If you can do both at the same time you might be onto a winner!Secondly, get your girlfriend to guide you on the oral, because what one woman likes, another might not.Its much the same for guys too isnt it.But really, DONT go stressing about the intercourse orgasms because they really are not very common!Good luckC xxxxx
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