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writes:I have a problem. I'm a single mom with 2 boys ages 12 and six, and just got back with my ex who they know but it seems that they don't like going to his house for some reason. My ex wants me to move back with him, do you think it's fair for me to drag my kids along eventhough, they feel that way towards him.
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reader, Uncle Trev  +, writes (7 August 2007):
I would be concerned as to why your children have such an objection about going back to the guys place.
In your shoes I would hang back and keep your independance. If your ex really genuinely loves you he will understand and he will not mind you hanging about and taking your time.
I would not let your children rule the roost so to say but it is important to give them the time to explain what their objections are - they may be trivial but then again it may be very serious so you need to give them time to explain why they feel the way that they do.
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reader, hlskitten +, writes (7 August 2007):
 HiIts hard to say because you haven't given much information about this situation, like why dont your children like him?So i would be surprised if anyone can give an opinion.I dont think its always a good idea to let your children live your life, but if for instance you spent a lot of time arguing in front of your children then i wouldnt think its a good move to get back with the guy.But like i say, not really enough info to go on.Good luckC xxxx
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