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writes:Hi everyone, here goes a complicated story. Posted before about meeting up with an ex boyfriend from years ago, I explained that I was unhappy in my marriage before I met this guy again, anyway, marriage has gotten much worse and I'm still having contact with this ex, he also has a girlfriend who I don't think he's very happy with. We get on very well, we text all the time and have met on a number of occasions. I know this is all wrong and I tried to speak to my husband about how I was feeling about our marriage but he became very nasty and argumentative. This other guy is going on holiday in a couple of weeks with his girlfriend and other friends, not sure what will happen when he comes home, he may decide he doesn't want to see me anymore, I really can't stop thinking about him, he's a really nice guy and I've got very close to him again after all this time. The problem is I'm the sort of person who puts their cards on the table, he knows how I feel, he isn't like that though, he plays his very close to his chest and I'm finding this very confusing, sometimes I have the impression he's very interested, other times I'm not so sure. Has anyone been in this situation who can advise me, please help, going crazy here, thanks xx
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reader, hlskitten  +, writes (16 August 2007):
 Hi
I cant help thinking the reason your marriage is getting worse is because you're seeing your ex. It would wouldnt it?
So you're cheating on your hubby & your ex is cheating on his girlfriend whom hes happy enough with to go on holiday with? Of course hes not happy, they never are. And they are never sleeping with their partners either. cough bull cough.
I reckon you should leave hubby if you're not happy & leave the ex to sort his own life out, if he leaves her then fair play. But maybe hes just having too much cake to leave her?
I dont know how any of you will be able to trust each other though. Because you know what you are both doing to the people in your lives at the moment.
But i hope it works out for you. Obviously you cant make him want you more than her.
C xxxxxx
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