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writes:Me and my boyfriend have been going out for two years. I lost my virginity to him when I was 13 and we've had sex about. . . . Um let's just say we lost count. But we do it a lot and I'm scared my (thing) will get loose.... and I don't want to stop doing it because I like it and maybe he mite leave me....
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 August 2007): So young to have sex! If you are worried about your vaginal opening and the amount of sex you are having then maybe you should stop having the sex.
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 August 2007): Pardon me? You are 13-15 and you fear 'losing this guy' if your vagina gets looser? Please, please, please believe in yourself and fully realize that you are very capable of offering so much more to this relationship than the condition of your vagina, hun. If you are worried about this, I have to ask...why? Did he say something or is this your thoughts alone. And where are you getting this idea from? I imagine you are a bright, loveable, nice, caring person and have lovely qualities that make you an awesome. If anyone ever makes you feel less, because you don't have a 'vagina' to satisfy them, then that is important information for you to take note of and what of character a guy you have sex with, might possess. If this is 'just' your issue...then work on your self-esteem more before dating guys, because the issue of your vagina's looseness should not even be a factor in a decent, fun relationship with another with a guy, where he respects you just for who you are.. He takes you as is, hun..plain and simple. If he treats you like his 'sex toy'..then dump him and fast. That will make you feel worse about yourself, over the long run.
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 August 2007): It will certainly will, if you have a baby, my wife did all the pelvic exercises and she is not like she was before. Please don't have one yet!
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reader, hlskitten  +, writes (16 August 2007):
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No it wont. Not even if you have children eventually. As long as you do your pelvic floor exercises!
C xxxxx
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 August 2007): Hi, no honey it won't loosen! If you are in a committed relationship with your boyfriend then theres absolutely no reason why you cant keep having sex with him.Don't worry
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