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writes:Should I be concerned that my boyfriend of 6 years views porn every time he is by himself (3-5 times a week)??
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reader, hlskitten  +, writes (16 August 2007):
 I agree with rjgirl saying thats down to you.
Once upon a time that would of really upset me, but not these days. But im older than you.
If it really bothers you, then i dont think porn is something in life thats essential & your guy should respect that.
All the best.
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 August 2007): In my opinion, it is entirely up to you whether or not to be concerned. Many men and women have many, many different viewpoints on pornography, and I am not one to go around preaching what I believe to others. It is up to you to decide. Does it bother you that he looks at pornography this often? Based on the fact that you asked this question, I think you're already concerned. Talk to your boyfriend about it. Tell him what bothers you. Find out why he looks at pornography in the first place. You may find yourself on a whole new level with your relationship. You also have the right to set up some boundaries in regards to what's okay and what's not. Maybe you'll find that you both enjoy sharing the viewing of porn together, or maybe you'll decide to let that be his alone time, or maybe you'll tell him to boot it all together. Whatever the case, it's up to you to decide where your comfort levels lie. Just talk to him about it, and see if you can come to an agreement. I wish you the best of luck.
-RJGirl
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