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male
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:Hi, Me and my girlfriend have been going out for nearly a year and a half. I moved in with her a few months back due to situations at home. Her mum lets us slep together because she trusts us and she's known me all my life and me and her daughter have always been close friends so she knows I would never hurt her or anything. She's the first girlfriend I've had and hopefully the only one. We recently lost our virginty to each other about a month ago after our first attempt failed about a month before that. We have had sex about 4 times since and really want to be able to do it more especially regularly at night like normal couples do. The thing is we don't want her parents to know or hear what we are doing, we feel really awkward doing it when they are there and in the past have had to wait until they have gone out which isn't always convienient as we may want to do other things or may not feel like it. But we find at night is one of the best times and this past couple of weeks it's been getting hard to resist. We can't afford to start going to hotels and we don't want to as it's as if we are sneaking off and her mum would probably guess. We are both going to college in a few weeks so there's no chance of us getting a place of our own and my girlfriend wouldn't be ready as she is very close to her mum and dad and I like it there. Is there anything we can try to keep it as discreet as possible and how do we stop feeling awkward about it? It's not as if her mum would walk in in the middle of the night but we can't help it.Are there any positions or anything that would make it less obviously as I'm normally on top. Please help it's really getting hard to not do it as we both really want to but daren't!
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reader, hlskitten +, writes (17 August 2007):
 Hi
Stick a sock in your girlfriends mouth! hehe
Well her mum knows you are having sex. She let you move in! But i know what you mean. Many moons ago my hubby moved in, when i was 16. I cant remember what we did to be honest! But go slower! & the spoons thing sounds a good idea!
Good luck.
C xxxxx
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reader, supersquirrel +, writes (16 August 2007):
 i found it was more discreet for us to lie on our sides, my back towards him. then it can be hidden as a cuddle, and you don't have to completely remove any clothing.
maybe the fact that her parents let you sleep together shows that maybe they've accepted that you will have sex?
has your girlfriend spoken to her mum about having sex? maybe if she told her mum that she thinks she's ready to have sex with you, to get it out in the open? and she can then ask about birth control, to show that you're thinking maturely and safely.
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reader, girlwhoneedshelp +, writes (16 August 2007):
 yes there are! my favourite position for this type of situation is spooning. you both lie on your side, the man lies behind the woman and you both face the same direction. basically you slide your penis in from the back angle, she may have to be a little higher up in bed than you are. if anyone did happen to walk in, you could just stop the thrusting and it would look just like you were sleeping!
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