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writes:I am 31 yrs old, I live with my g/f which is 26. we met on the internet almost a yr ago. We talked and emailed for a month, then I flew her to me in California. She stayed out here with me for 2 weeks. We had a great time. Then a month later I asked her to move in with me. She then moved from St Louis to California. Since then she has been here, this relationship has gone sour. But the big thing for me is I feel so strongly about her well being. I cant just tell her its over and kick her out, I make soo much more money than her, and I can barely make it out here on my own, much less her make it on her own out here with her paycheck. I would feel soo badly doing that to her. what should I do?
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (30 January 2008):
 Is there really no way you can be back on good terms again? Have you tried all your best?
If it is final, then you could send her back where she came from or you could allow her to stay at your place and just be friends unless she wants to leave you.
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reader, hlskitten  +, writes (29 January 2008):
 Tricky one. Learnt a lesson i expect, less speed more haste!
Meeting up more would of been good in the early days.
You took a big gamble moving in together after so little physical contact.
But i dont doubt whatever you're feeling at the mo, she is too. And you are both avoiding the obvious? Just a hunch.
Its awful having to break it off with someone, but you just want your life back i expect. Can she go back and live where she came from or who's she came from?
The fact is, you cant stay in something you dont want to be in. It will be cack! But come out n say it to her, bite the bullet and right the wrong. You will look back after and thank god you did.
C xxxx
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 January 2008): just have a sit down conversation and explain to her whats going on in your mind...ya she'll be hurt but at least you'll be breaking it down like a man and not leaving her like a coward would..i know it'll probably be hard but sometimes honesty is the best thing.
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