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writes:hi i just recently found out that my long term partner signed up to a dating wbsite i used to trust him but after this i think i no longer can we have 2kids together and he has been bringing up my other 2 children from a previous relationship. i asked him about it and he said he done it as a joke but i cant be sure. what do i do? Reply to this Question
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reader, TELLULAH +, writes (30 January 2008):
 I met Phil through this site, and he is lovely. We talk all the time, and I know his wifes name and we both know what each other looks like. She is not jealous of me and my partner is not jealous of Phil.
If I lived near Phil, I would sail with him all the time.
It is possible to make freinds on the strangest sites. Maybe your Guy was just looking for a bit of reasurance that he can still pull. Nothing more than that.
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reader, hlskitten +, writes (29 January 2008):
 Did you tell your current partner though uncle phil? just curious hehe.I have a great sense of humour to be honest, but im not sure joinging a dating site while with someone and when found out would say it was a joke, is something i would see as amusing. But hey, we are all different! No, i wouldnt be buying into that. But thats just me! C xxxxxx
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 January 2008): He is untrustworthy. A DATING site. What if you had done the same joke how would he feel. Take him to councelling if he refuses to go dump him.
Good luck
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reader, JBxoxo  +, writes (29 January 2008):
I had a similar experience. A couple of years ago my boyfriend left his myspace page open on the computer. I snuck a peak in his mail and in his outbox I found messages from him to girls saying they are cute and what is their email? Now looking back at it, I don't know why I stayed with him? That was a horrible thing of him to do behind my back. He said he did it because he was feeling insecure about himself and it made him feel better. It could very well be bullsh--! Well, that was a while ago now and I think he learned his lesson but I can't help but think he might do it again. Is he just now satisfied with me or is he a cheater? Sometimes people screw up so my advice is to let him know exactly how this made you feel and that if it happened again you would leave him. In the meantime, keep you eyes open and do not be afraid of checking the computer history or sneaking a peak in his email. Some people think it is an invasion of privacy but that is nothing compared to trying to find someone else online. Keep your eyes open!
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 January 2008): He may well have done. Only he knows the truth though.
I joined a dating site last week. In my profile I said I was not single/not looking. So why did I join? For an activity partner. I enjoy the company of women more than men. They're not so smelly. I thought I'd advertise for a quiet non-talkative woman to come sailing with me to watch the scenery go by, do a bit of cooking and make a fresh brew of tea once in a while while I'm doing the navigating and steering.
Only one match in my area who didn't get back to me once she found out I wasn't looking for romance, so I un-registered myself. And that's the truth, Your Honour!
Phil
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