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writes: i have been married 28 years i recently discovered my husband was having internet sex with web cam. he said he was looking at chat line and was very excited by what women would show him he bought a camera because they expected something in returnwe have sex an average of 5-5 times a week and i don't feel like this behavior is exceptable. Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, xapathyxrebornx +, writes (4 February 2008):
you need to talk with him and let him know it hurts you and your not happy with it
if you want to talk message me x
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 February 2008): Hi Hunny,I belive what collaroy has said to be right love, This must be hurting you, I dont belive a little porn in a relationship to be a bad thing but like this is as well as having sex with another its personal. You will have to tell him how very hurtfull this is and explain your feelings how would he like it if the tables were turned hun TAKE CARE WITH LOVE N HUGS MANDY xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
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reader, hlskitten +, writes (4 February 2008):
All what Collaroy said to be honest!
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reader, Laura1318 +, writes (4 February 2008):
You can convey to him your feelings about this issue and hope that he will agree and respect your feelings.You may watch him but will you be able to watch him 7/24? He may surf when you are not around. You cannot police him all the time.
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reader, pyan +, writes (4 February 2008):
Himy wife caught me doing that a few years ago and boy did she go off. i don't think she spoke to me for a month. if you are up for it ask him is it ok for you to do it on the net. that what my wife did to show me how much she was hurt by it. i expect there is no reason he can give you for doing it. good luck, let me know how you go
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reader, Collaroy +, writes (4 February 2008):
Hi ,While I have no problem with a bit of porn to spice things up between couples, I think actively engaging in web cam sex is a very thin line between out and out infidelity. Internet porn can be very addictive, but I can never understand why guys turn down their wives/girlfriends when the offer is there instead of the internet.Tell him to stop it now or he can flirt all he likes with these girls as a Single Man.Good luck.
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