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Frank Kermit, MA is an Expert Relationship and Dating Coach. He is a Best Selling Author, educator, and regular media correspondent.

He teaches men and women about their emotional needs, how to address each others emotional needs, to be applied to ongoing loving relationships. In 2011, Frank completed an Advanced Certificate in Trauma Counseling and in 2014 completed a certificate in Hypnotherapy.

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Off Limits Dating

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18 September 2013: Is Someone Off Limits for Dating? By Frank Kermit ND, Relationships Mastering the art of dating requires a number of skills such as being socially calibrated, effective communication and knowing what you want. One of the areas that comes up for ...

How to Deal with a Toxic Person

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18 September 2013: The Best Way To Deal With Toxic People By Frank Kermit ND, Relationships Toxic people are defined in this article as people who lack the capacity to reason, or people have the capacity to reason but just do not want to reason with you. In t...

A Broken Engagement is Better Than A Happy Divorce

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31 August 2013: A Broken Engagement is Better Than A Happy Divorce By Frank Kermit ND, Relationships One of the ironies of couples counseling that I often find myself doing is taking the couple through the pre-marital coaching process when they may already be...

A Frank Comment on Miley Cyrus

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31 August 2013: A Frank Comment On Miley Cyrus By Frank Kermit ND, Relationships I do not normally comment on the antics of popular culture, as so much of what we see of movies and TV are fiction based romances and relationships. I tried my best to stay fo...

The Wedding Speech

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26 July 2013: The Wedding Speech Remember this day, your wedding day. Not for the dresses and suits, not for the extravagance, nor the dinner and dancing, but remember your wedding day because of the reasons you chose to marry your spouse. Remember who is it that...

Sexually Incompatible Couples

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19 July 2013: Sexually Incompatible Couples Sex is not the most important thing in a relationship. However, couples who love each other dearly and connect on so many levels, but whom are sexually incompatible tend to find that sex can be at the core of a numb...

Separation and Dating, Part 2 of 2

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28 June 2013: Separation and Dating, Part 2 of 2 Separation does not automatically lead to divorce unless you let it. It is up to you and your partner to put in the work so that it does not happen. In the event you are the only one trying to work on yourself and ...

Separation and Dating Part 1 of 2

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22 June 2013: Separation and Dating Part 1 of 2 One of the most damaging actions an individual can take is to start dating someone new when going through a separation with their serious long term partner (spouse, common-law partner or a defacto-union). When I use ...

The Frank Break Up Formula

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14 June 2013: The Frank Break Up Formula By Frank Kermit ND, Relationships Breaking up with someone is rarely an enjoyable or pleasant experience. In fact, there are those individuals who stay in less than satisfying relationships, and even can go all the ...

The Frank Romance Formula part 3 of 3

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8 June 2013: The Frank Romance Formula Part 3 By Frank Kermit ND, Relationships Continued from last article: The Frank Romance Formula is: A. (Stimulation of the 5 senses) + B. (Addressing the emotional needs of that person) + C. (Sensual/Sexual Contex...

The Frank Romance Formula Part 2 of 3

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3 June 2013: The Frank Romance Formula Part 2 By Frank Kermit ND, Relationships Continued from last article: The Frank Romance Formula is: A. (Stimulation of the 5 senses) + B. (Addressing the emotional needs of that person) + C. (Sensual/Sexual Contex...

The Secret Of Seduction is that it Happens in the Future

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3 May 2013: The Secret Of Seduction is that it Happens in the Future By Frank Kermit ND, Relationships The future is where actual seduction takes place. That is the key to seduction. It has very little to do with turning someone on when you see them. I...

The S.L.A.P. Theory Of Life Lessons

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27 April 2013: The S.L.A.P. Theory Of Life Lessons By Frank Kermit ND, Relationships Sometimes life will slap you down when it has a lesson to teach you. For some people, the slap may be a light swat, and for others the slap has to be a severe smack down. ...

Dating With Disabilities

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5 April 2013: Dating With Disabilities by Frank Kermit ND, Relationships I once went on a date with a woman that had severe food allergies. We went out to a movie and I wished she had told me ahead of time. Although she mentioned that she was deathly all...

Rejection: The Worst Best Thing That Can Ever Happen

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21 March 2013: Rejection: The Worst Best Thing That Can Ever Happen By Frank Kermit ND, Relationships Rejection is the worst best thing that can ever happen to you. Managing rejection is a necessary part in managing your love life. Over the course of your ...

Things they do not tell you about having kids

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15 March 2013: Things They Do Not Tell You About Having Kids By Frank Kermit ND, Relationships I always try to be very practical and realistic in my articles. This can come across very negative, given that my topic is Relationships (and all things relative...

When Friendship Is Meaningless

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8 March 2013: Friendship Is Meaningless Stop Hanging Out With Friends Who Sexually Reject You By Frank Kermit ND, Relationships Friendship is meaningless. There I said it. Now before you shoot one of your nasty emails to the editor, actually read this colum...

Who Cares What People Think? Depends...

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1 March 2013: How Much Should You Care About What Other People Think? By Frank Kermit ND, Relationships T here will be times when we want to do something in our lives that is meaningful to us. It could be a decision related to abandoning education, wh...

Learn How to Choose the Right Fights!

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21 February 2013: Pick And Choose Your Fights By Frank Kermit ND, Relationships Fighting in relationships is normal. The issue is not whether you fight. The issue is HOW a couple fights. Do they talk out their disagreements? Do they wait until they are alon...

Starting Over After V-day?

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14 February 2013: Starting Over? By Frank Kermit ND, Relationships Valentine’s day can be a day of reckoning for some people. Meaning, the events leading up to, on the day of, and afterwards can really wreck your life. This is one of the reasons I often refer to...

A Relationship is: Acceptance at the Worst, Loving at the Best

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6 February 2013: A Relationship is: Acceptance at the Worst, Loving at the Best By Frank Kermit, Relationships At my weekly relationship workshop last Saturday I issued one of my famous “Frankisms” that seemed to really resonate with the attendees. I was trying...

Asking Hard Questions

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1 February 2013: Asking Hard Questions By Frank Kermit ND, Relationships When trying to decide if you should be committed to someone, moving in with someone, getting engaged, and getting married, each new transition brings about the unpleasant task of askin...

Ex Lovers and Weddings Do Not Mix

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24 January 2013: Ex Lovers and Weddings Do Not Mix By Frank Kermit, Relationships If you ever had sex with someone that is about to get married, and have been invited to the wedding, do not go. This is especially true if the spouse-to-be feels uncomfortable havi...

Couples in Transition: Monogamy and Non-monogamy

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16 January 2013: Couples in Transition: Monogamy and Non-monogamy By Frank Kermit ND, Relationships Couples who are experiencing a transition in the status of their relationship may sometimes look to explore new ways of redefining their sex lives b...

Common Sense For Common Scents By Frank Kermit, Relationships

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13 December 2012: Common Sense For Common Scents By Frank Kermit, Relationships As the holiday season approaches, invitations begin to swarm in for get-togethers from family, friends and even office parties. It is a time of people coming together, and in some ca...

Couples in Transition

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29 November 2012: Couples in Transition By Frank Kermit, Relationships When a couple is going through a change in the status of their relationship they are a couple in transition. This includes couples that are transitioning from monogamy to non-monogamy, from no...

Your Home Is Your Seduction

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15 November 2012: Your Home Is Your Seduction By Frank Kermit, Relationships Your date is coming over to your place! You have seen each other a couple of times already, but this is different. This is YOUR PLACE, not some coffee shop or movie theatre or restaur...

The Movie Of Your Life’s Journey

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6 November 2012: The Movie Of Your Life’s Journey By Frank Kermit, Relationships The movie of your life is how we each envision our lives unfolding throughout our life span. This concept goes beyond simple fantasizing of what your life would be like. Writing ...

What Love Masks by Frank Kermit

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2 November 2012: What Love Masks By Frank Kermit, Relationships A mentor of mine taught me that love is not blind; it is just that categories are rigid. When you meet someone, you put that person in a category (lover, friend, temptation, fling, does-no...

The Chocolate Made It Too Much Work: An Article About EFT and Weight Loss

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2 November 2012: The Chocolate Made It Too Much Work An Article About EFT and Weight Loss I have a confession. I used to daydream about food. You know that point in the day when someone catches you; your head in your hands, that dreamy look on your face? If so...

Have You Tried NOT Dating Your Type?

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1 November 2012: Have You Tried NOT Dating Your Type? By Frank Kermit, Relationships We all have our “type”. By “type” I am referring to that type of person each of us is madly attracted too. Each of us has our preference of what we like, what turns us on, ...

Is there such a thing as Happily Single?

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19 October 2012: Is there such a thing as Happily Single? By Frank Kermit, Relationships Is being single really that bad? After all, when a person considers the amount of pain that a relationship or casual dating can cause, it may seem that just skipping the w...

Be Thankful For a Broken Heart

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11 October 2012: Be Thankful For A Broken Heart By Frank Kermit, Relationships Ok, I hate this. I really hate this part of the process. However, it is a necessary part of the process, and if I am expected to help encourage others to do it, first I have to demo...

Stop Talking About Your Ex On Dates!

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5 October 2012: Stop Talking So Much About Your Ex By Frank Kermit, Relationships So you are on a date with someone new. You are excited. You are nervous. You hope that this is finally going to be the one. You meet. So far, you both like what you see. This...

Dating in Social Circles

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29 September 2012: Dating In Social Circles By Frank Kermit, Relationships Dating can be tricky. Does the other person like you the way you think he or she might? Do you really like that person enough to get more serious, or do you want to keep it more casual a...

Frank Guide to Speed Dating

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21 September 2012: Frank Guide To Speed Dating By Frank Kermit, Relationships Every way to meet someone new is a good way. Though friends, through the Internet, blind dates, approaching someone you want to meet, at a workshop, matchmaking companies, business conv...

Relationship Goal Setting

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15 September 2012: Relationship Goal Setting By Frank Kermit, Relationships Setting goals in most areas of your life can be challenging. When it comes to relationships, there are even more challenges. Whereas in other areas of your life such as education, emplo...

Battling The Savior Complex in Relationships

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6 September 2012: Battling The Savior Complex By Frank Kermit, Relationships As children, many of us grew up on stories about the hero that saves a person, and in the process, earned the undying love and loyalty of the person saved so that the hero and that saved ...

Get Out Of Your Own Way!

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30 August 2012: Get Out Of Your Own Way By Frank Kermit, Relationships One of the biggest obstacles that a person can have as an obstruction on their path of finding happiness, peace and healing for their love life, is themselves. Although most people wou...

Your Choices Today Become The Past You Have To Share Tomorrow

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26 August 2012: Your Choices Today Become The Past You Have To Share Tomorrow By Frank Kermit, Relationships Young adults tend to discount how the choices they make today will impact their futures tomorrow. At least, when it comes to relationships. The bes...

Are You A Partner Or A Liability?

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17 August 2012: Are You A Partner Or A Liability? When it really is you and not them By Frank Kermit, Relationships “It’s not you, it’s me.” Have you ever heard that said to you when someone broke up with you? Have you ever been the one to use it when dump...

The 7 Weird Words That Help Define Relationships

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9 August 2012: The 7 Weird Words That Help Define Relationships By Frank Kermit, Relationships There are 7 certain words that catch many people off guard when it comes to relationships. They are: Lust, Love, Sex, Dating, Commitment, Marriage, and Monogamy. ...

Fear of Conflict Is Rooted in The Fear Of Loss.

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20 July 2012: Fear of Conflict Is Rooted in The Fear Of Loss By Frank Kermit, Relationships Are you too nice when it comes to relationships? Do you walk on eggshells because you do not want to upset your partner? Are you reluctant to enforce your bounda...

Re-Establishing Trust in a Relationship Article

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12 July 2012: Broken Trust Takes More Than Time To Re-Establish By Frank Kermit, Relationships Trust is one of the most important components of a relationship. Love is a great start, but it takes more than loving someone, or being loved by someone, to make ...

Understanding Emotional Needs

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4 July 2012: Understanding Emotional Needs: What We Respond To Versus What We Should Like By Frank Kermit, Relationships Emotional needs are about what a person responds to. It has nothing to do with what a person should like. We all should be attracte...

Red Flags: What To Watch Out For On A Date

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29 June 2012: Red Flags: What To Watch Out For On A Date By Frank Kermit, Relationships When you are on a date, and the person you are getting to know says or does something that triggers a well-honed instinct that you need to stop dating that person, you hav...

The Art of Storytelling on a Date

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25 June 2012: Art of Storytelling: Make or Break A Relationship Happy Ending By Frank Kermit, Relationships One of the challenges that people face when they go on dates is that they may not factor in that others will not understand what they are trying ...

Swinger Beginner Advice

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25 June 2012: Swinger Beginners: Keep it Out of the Work Place By Frank Kermit, Relationships Dear Frank, My husband and I recently returned from a business trip/vacation where a few of my husband's co-workers also brought their wives. We really hit it o...

When your Ex becomes a symbol and you can't get over it

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13 June 2012: When Your Ex Becomes A Symbol Relationship Symbolism of Why You Are Still Hooked By Frank Kermit, Relationships We are surrounded by the power of symbols. A symbol is more than just a design we recognize; symbols are a means of making meaning. ...

Ally Vs Enemy: Understanding The Emotional Needs of Men

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9 June 2012: Is She His Ally or His Enemy? Understanding The Emotional Needs of Men By Frank Kermit, Relationships The best way I know how to teach people about the emotional needs of men is to break it down to absolute fundamentals. If people can und...

Dating After A Break Up - Just How Long Should You Wait?

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1 June 2012: Dating After Breaking Up? The Sooner The Better By Frank Kermit, Relationships “How much time should I wait before I start dating again?” is a common question that I get asked from someone that has just recently gotten dumped, and still sufferi...

Relationship Redemption: How To Forgive Yourself and Get Closure

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23 May 2012: Relationship Redemption How To Forgive Yourself and Get Closure By Frank Kermit, Relationships We all make mistakes in life. If you have ever tried to get into a relationship, are in a relationship, or are recovering from a relationship, ...

Finding The Meaning Of Your Life And Relationships

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15 May 2012: The Meaning of your Relationships Starts With The Meaning Of Your Life By Frank Kermit, Relationships Contemplate your death. No seriously. In order to make meanings of your relationships past, present and those you will have in the futur...

The Mother-Lover Theory Understanding The Emotional Needs of Women

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10 May 2012: The Mother-Lover Theory Understanding The Emotional Needs of Women By Frank Kermit, Relationships A woman can only play one of two roles in a man’s life. She is either his mother or his lover. She cannot be both. When a man addresses a wom...

Moving To The Next Level: Understanding The Hierarchy of Relationships

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1 May 2012: Moving To The Next Level Understanding The Hierarchy of Relationships By Frank Kermit, Relationships One of the biggest mistakes people make in relationships is to promote someone up the hierarchy of commitment that has not really earned it. I...

Beware Your Friends when it comes to love

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15 April 2012: Beware Your Friends They May Not Want You To Be Loved By Frank Kermit, Relationships Mistakes Singles Make # 6… Seeking the approval of friends that influences your love life choices. Love may come and go, but a friendship can last a lifetim...

Are Relationships Worth The Risk?

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8 April 2012: Relationships = Risk But is it really worth it? By Frank Kermit, Relationships Given that there is so much risk in getting involved in relationships, or having sex for that matter, is it at all worth it to even bother? After all, a broken hear...

Tattoos and Relationships

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24 March 2012: Beware The L-I-N-K Of (L)ove and (INK) By Frank Kermit, Relationships While at a coffee shop a few weeks ago, I met a tattoo artist. He had his son’s name tattooed on his hand, and being the ever-inquisitive one, I asked him about his profession...

Open Relationships and Infidelity

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17 March 2012: Open Relationships Do Not Always Stave Off Infidelity By Frank Kermit, Relationships Some people believe that one of the surest ways to guarantee fidelity is to only do open relationships. The premise is that people only cheat in monogamous ...

What is a Relationship?

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10 March 2012: What is a Relationship? Is best defined by what it’s NOT By Frank Kermit, Relationships Over the years, I have been asked a number of times “What is a Relationship?” This is a harder question to answer than most people think. In my experience,...

Engaged! Now what?

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19 February 2012: Pre Marital Disclosure What you don’t know, you must know By Frank Kermit, Relationships Valentines day has come and gone. Some relationships have started. Some relationships have ended, and some relationships have proceeded to the next le...

Making Monogamy Work

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5 February 2012: Making Monogamy Work By Frank Kermit, Relationships Monogamy is easier than open relationships, because the rules are simpler...but the application of the rules of monogamy is not as easy. Monogamy works for monogamous people...however...

Single Parent Dating, Not Just a Single Issue

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3 February 2012: Single Parent Dating – More Than Just A Single Issue By Frank Kermit At least 40% of marriages end in divorce. Depending on the study you read, the percentage can be higher. Even though the break down of families continues, the drive that ma...

I feel sick about what I've done! I just want him back..what should I do?

Q.   this is a really lobg story but i need to get the point across im 19 yrs of age just last summer i was going out with this guy (20), he was nothing but nice to me he treated me like a princess and made me laugh every day and i treated him really ...

A.   19 October 2006: hey, thanks for the response. If you can learn something from this, then this experience happened the way it did for a reason. I hope your healing continues. take care. -Frank B Kermit... (read in full...)

I want some tips on making our sex life more enjoyable!!

Q.   Hiya! im wonderin if anyone can help me (again) im in a long term relationship and my bf and i have had some problems which are now sorted thankfully but i want to make our sex life more enjoyable i dont think handcuffs, whips or blindfolds are for ...

A.   17 October 2006: Hi There, This is an exerpt from my book: Everything Out of Her Mouth is a Test www.franktalks.com Remember it was written for a male audience The Best Kind of Lover, Virgin or Not I've had them all... want to know what is the real se... (read in full...)

He keeps talking about other girls and I'm not sure if he is doing this to push me away or get a reaction!!

Q.   I am trying to understand why my boyfriend is acting a certain way given that he was the one who pursued me so actively. We got together a month ago having been very close friends for 9 months. 3 months before we got together he stated that he ...

A.   17 October 2006: They guys sounds like a moron, and I beleive that your interpretations of him trying to intimate you are right on correct. He does not realise how much throwing it in your face is working against making you feel unique to him. It is not that he ... (read in full...)

I feel sick about what I've done! I just want him back..what should I do?

Q.   this is a really lobg story but i need to get the point across im 19 yrs of age just last summer i was going out with this guy (20), he was nothing but nice to me he treated me like a princess and made me laugh every day and i treated him really ...

A.   17 October 2006: If you are really serious bout mending things with him, the dating his friend (even if it is nothing serious) is not going to help prove your sincerity, given how badly you wrecked it for yourself. Drop the drama you are creating. You need it,... (read in full...)

Im really shy so how can I get her interested in me ?

Q.   hi, ill keep this short and simple. theres a girl i like in year 11, im in year9. i only have a year to get her to like me. she dosent really know me that much yet, because im to shy to talk to her. my time is running out. please help me!!!!!!!...

A.   17 October 2006: Hey Dude, I was where you are now. I got stood up at my prom, lost my exfiance, and even went 5 years with NO sex. That all changed when I learned to address a woman's emotional needs. I got my ex back, had 5 girlfriends at the same ... (read in full...)

We've been together 9 years! He doesn't want a baby, he doesn't want to marry and he goes out till all hours of the night. What should I do?

Q.   i'm 40 years old. i have a bf and he's 35 we've lived together for over 9 years now. we both live in my parents house but my parents have moved to another village 5 years ago. now it's just me and him and his parents now living with us. he comes ...

A.   17 October 2006: Ouch. Look, I think you are wasting your time. Really. You really want children, and to get married, but he is not interested? Then why are you sticking around? Does he own the house, or do you? If you do, kick him and his parents out of there... (read in full...)

My periods are bad...will the pill help me?

Q.   I've heard that if you go on the pill, it tricks your body into thinking your pregnant, and you won't get your period. I have really bad periods, bad bloating, unbelievable pain, terrible moodswings, constant tiredness, etc.etc., would going on t...

A.   17 October 2006: Hi Girl, I am not a woman, but have known alot of them. According to women that have taken the pill, yes it does make the pain of your period more manageable. It does not stop your period to my knowledge, but it does help with the pain. The... (read in full...)

I know I'm straight but I can't get this girl out of my mind!!

Q.   im so confused!!!! i know im stright cause iv always liked boys! but last year on holiday i met a girl (just friends like nothing happend) but its odd i still think about her all the time and i think i fance her wats wrong with me? and we havnt kept ...

A.   17 October 2006: Hey Confused, There is nothing wrong with you. You are a normal healthy woman and you are experimenting with the boundaries of your sexuality. You might very well be straight, and just experienced attraction for another woman. I have been ... (read in full...)

We are sex buddies for now but I want to give it another go! Should I tell him?

Q.   So my bf and I broke up a week or two ago. We've been on and off for a year, and we really did love eachother. Then life fell apart for both of us and we both neglected the relationship without even realising it for a good month or so. We're still ...

A.   17 October 2006: Hey Sex-Buddy, One of the hardest things in being a sex-buddy is that emotions do come into play, within the physical stuff for some people. If you tell him directly, he might reject it. If he is an average guy, he is not going to feel goo... (read in full...)

He went away with his buddies and came back...acting cold toward me! What should I do?

Q.   Dear Cupid, im 28,I need some advice, my boyfriend whos 27 ended our relationship just over a week ago and im totally devestated. We have known each other for years, and was going out for 3 months. He was totally smitten with me, told me he loved...

A.   17 October 2006: Hey 28, Whoa, my heart goes out to you. My guess is that something happened on that trip with the lads. Perhaps he cheated on you, and rather than tell you, he just figures that he messed up, and would just walk away. Assuming he was not very ... (read in full...)

He went away with his buddies and came back...acting cold toward me! What should I do?

Q.   Dear Cupid, im 28,I need some advice, my boyfriend whos 27 ended our relationship just over a week ago and im totally devestated. We have known each other for years, and was going out for 3 months. He was totally smitten with me, told me he loved...

A.   17 October 2006: Hey 28, Whoa, my heart goes out to you. My guess is that something happened on that trip with the lads. Perhaps he cheated on you, and rather than tell you, he just figures that he messed up, and would just walk away. Assuming he was not very ... (read in full...)

I think my freind is 'addicted' to this guy who is no good for her! Any advice on how she can get over him?

Q.   My best friend has been in a difficult relationship cycle for two years. There is a guy at her college that she is somewhat attracted to; he apparently has feelings for her, and is quite open about it. However, she feels strongly that he is not ...

A.   17 October 2006: Hey, It sounds like your friend is addicted to the drama of this relationship. She has to get closure on the future she built up with him in her head. I wrote a book on Women's Emotional Needs. It sounds to me like his actions address her emot... (read in full...)

How do I show him that I want to be more than just friends/ And..do you think he likes me?

Q.   So like, I've known this guy for 3 years now cause we're always in the same classes and I've always had this thing with him since I first met him really, but it's only just grown on me now. I sit next to him in one of my classes this year and we get ...

A.   17 October 2006: Hi There, I sould suggest that you arrange for him and you to do something in a different venue. Being in school is difficult. Everyone is watching, and reputations are most important. Start off by getting him to talk about stuff he likes t... (read in full...)

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