My best friend just died and I'm feeling depressed all the time and can't shake myself out of it.
Q. My best friend just died and it's like someone has just shot me, run me over and all that. I find it hard because we were so close and now I'm depressed and can't shake out of it like I did last time. Any ideas?...
A. 11 July 2007: I went through this same situation about 6 years ago. I lost my bestfriend in a car accident. It is hard but it DOES get better. I can talk about her now and not even shed a tear. I think about the good times, and I can tell funny stories about her. ... (read in full...)
She got pregnant on purpose but he left her anyways! How do I advise her on what the best thing is, to do?
Q. This is kind of a weird question but here it goes. One of my great friends was with this guy for about 3 months. He told her from the beginning that he didn't want anything serious with her and she was ok with that at first. Well she ended up slowly ...
A. 21 June 2007: Thank you all for the great advice! I rolled it all together and was stern but compassionate. Only time will tell how it works out. Keep the advice coming as I am sure I am still going to need it. I got a tough road ahead of me with helping her. ... (read in full...)
I am only 11, but I am two months pregant!
Q. (ok my original profile thing iz batman but i did something and made a new profile) alright well i am 11 and now 2 monthes pregnant! im really scared cuz me and my boyfriend r both ganna need to take care of this child 2gether and im still liv...
A. 20 June 2007: Wow, I honestly don't think you guys have thought this through. No matter how old you are it's still difficult raising a child, and that's with having a family, a college education, good paying job, and a home. At 11 you don't have anything. Maybe ... (read in full...)
Obsessed with taking my wife's 17 year old sister to bed!
Q. I am happily married,,my wife is 26yrs old and I am 46.The problem is that I have this obsession with my wife's sister,,she is 17yrs old I want to take her to bed and she seems to have feelings for me as well.What do I do?...
A. 18 June 2007: How can you say I'm happily married and want to sleep with a 17 year old in the same sentance? Don't do it, don't even think about it. If you are "happily married" then stay away from here, even if she does have feelings for you, you can't do that ... (read in full...)
Is it fair to ask him not to go to bars until I'm 21 aswell!?
Q. My boyfriend and I started dating when we were 17 and he has now just turned 21. I don't mind that he is able to drink and does when he can but I am concerned about him going to the bar. We made a promise to each other that we wouldn't go to bars ...
A. 15 June 2007: I just wanted to thank everyone for the advice. I'm glad everyone can be so honest and that is what I wanted. But I wanted to clear things up because I feel I may have not been specific enough. We aren't visiting here, we live here. We moved here ... (read in full...)
For 3 years I have lied to him about my age and surname! Should I tell him the truth?
Q. can someone help me? Not only have i lied about my age, i lied about my name.. i'm so ashamed of this... so can someone please help me!? Well i met my boyfriend 3 years ago when i was 17 turning 18, he asked me how old i was and i told him that ...
A. 14 June 2007: I was just reading over this and I was wondering how it went. please let me know!... (read in full...)
I am athletic, kind and smart! so why doesn't anyone like me?
Q. I was checking out my crush's myspace... and I found out that he has a girlfriend. I was disappointed, but actually, I'm always disappointed because I never get ANY guys. I'm not sure why no one likes me... I'm smart, kind, and athletic. Help?!?...
A. 14 June 2007: Guys at your age don't care about smarts and kindness sweetie. Don't beat yourself up over it. I'm sure there are guys out there that do like you, there just also the kind and smart ones. Maybe your just looking at the wrong guys. ... (read in full...)
Would it hurt to lose my virginity when I'm drunk?
Q. I'm almost 17 and am ready to have sex. I'm going to be honest, I'm gorgeous and a party girl - so boys date me under the impression we'll have sex. Of course once they find out I'm a virgin they run. If I have never done anything beyond making out ...
A. 14 June 2007: At this point I feel like there should be a lecture but since you are old enough to make your own decisions I'll just leave it at that. It could hurt either way. Some girls claim that their first time they don't feel a thing. Others claim that they ... (read in full...)
Is it bad I lack experience, sex wise... never done anything with boys
Q. Im 16 and i have Never had a boy finger me or me do anything for a boy.. seems like everyone else has and i feel embarresed to say that ''i lack in sexual experience'' when personally i dont care but when people ask me.. i get ambarresed.. is this ...
A. 14 June 2007: In no way is this a bad thing. To be honest it gets really tiring to hear about these 13 year old girls having babies. It's refreshing to know that some young girls still have a brain. Stay pure sweetie. I know you've probably heard it before but ... (read in full...)
Should a guy go back to his pregnant ex, even if he loves someone else?
Q. Tell me something, if a man breaks up with someone, decides to move on, finds a new girlfriend and they are both happy, and then suddenly the ex says that she is pregnant with his child does he have to leave this new love and go back to the other ...
A. 14 June 2007: People assume now adays that when you have a baby your supposed to get married and stay together. As great as that would be it's not reality. Because you have a child doesn't mean you need to be together. Friends yes, but parters no. If you love ... (read in full...)
Marriend and looking for extramarital sex with no strings
Q. How do I find a discreet sensual partner without ties? I am a mature man with longstanding domestic committments but with a still strong sexual interest. My partner has had no interest in lovemaking for a long time and I am very frustrated. I ha...
A. 14 June 2007: As wrong as this question actually is I would assume you could just go to a bar.... (read in full...)
Why is this relationship making feel like a wreck?
Q. I think I'm expressing symptoms of codependency, and they have really damaged my relationship of 8 months. Everything in my relationship seemed peachy--I really feel like I made her genuinely happy. But recently, I've been probing for validations of ...
A. 14 June 2007: Every girl likes a little mystery, if she's telling you that she wants out of the norm and something different then listen. It doesn't mean you have to completely change but do things differently. Don't assume that since she loves you she is going ... (read in full...)
He beat me after I cheated... can I fix this or should I leave?
Q. my boyfriend and i have been dating for 4 months i know that doesn't sound long but in that time i cheated on him three times he found out and cheated on me i don't know how many times and beat the hell out of me then hit me a few times after the ...
A. 12 June 2007: If you two really cared for each other you wouldn't have cheated. But besides that you should never want to be with someone who would put their hands on you in anyway you didn't feel right. That does for a man or a woman. You shouldn't have to ask ... (read in full...)
I hate my girlfriend's tats!
Q. My girlfriend has two tattoos, both of which i hate, and she has plans for more. i dont know if i will be able to cope with them. Has anybody got any suggestions? ...
A. 12 June 2007: Tell her how you feel. If you have never stated to her that you don't like her tatoos then maybe you could approach it a little differently. Tell her you just wouldn't like anymore. My boyfriend has 3, one on his neck and two on his arms. He always ... (read in full...)
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