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I am an author on relationships and I teach a weekly relationships class. I studied under Frank B Kermit and have made it my life's work to help those that I am able in order to make the world a better place than when I came into it.
Through study, experimentation and hard work, I have changed from the guy who used to be shunned by women to the guy who always seemed to be dating someone. I was able to do this by gaining an understanding of the principles of attraction and I believe that this can be done by anyone who is willing to put in the work. |
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How much rejection must I go through before striking gold?
Q. I'm beginning to think I suck when it comes to dealing with women. Lately, i feel like every time I show any interest in a woman it never works out. Which is odd to me considering how everyone always tells me I'm funny and good looking. So inspired ...
A. 8 October 2009: I completely emphasize with how you feel because I used to have the same issue. The language of attraction is a mysterious one to most people, but it's one that's pretty straightforward once you understand it. I set out to learn about attra... (read in full...)
Am I wrong for pursuing her?
Q. Weird situation I guess. There are two girls involved. I shall refer to them as just A and B. A I am very close with, and I once started pursuing her as a possible romantic interest which just wasn't to be. B I have started to really like, and...
A. 30 September 2009: Anonymous, You can have feelings for more than one person because our feelings are simply reactions. Your feelings for A should not prevent you from exploring other possibilities. As you said, you feel for A but you know that nothing can ever... (read in full...)
Is it normal to feel dirty after fooling around?
Q. I recently started dating a guy. This is my first relationship. He was my first kiss, etc etc. We haven't had sex yet but we've been slowly moving forward. A few days ago, we were messing around, to the point where i took off my shirt. I was...
A. 30 September 2009: In my opinion, it is not. I have known some women to become anxious or somewhat insecure after sexually experimenting or having sex but feeling dirty or as though you've done something wrong is not as common amongst most women, unless drugs or ... (read in full...)
Am I being selfish or is there something missing in my relationship?
Q. I have a boyfriend and we have been together for a year and a half. We just moved in together in July. We have good times and bad times, like any couple. We are incredibly attracted to each other, and have an awesome sex life. A few months a...
A. 17 September 2009: It's possible to be attracted to more than one person. Such is the facts of life. Just like a man and look at any number of women and say "She's hot" a woman can interact with any number of men and say "He's sexy." Attraction is about how you feel ... (read in full...)
Do you think she regrets "settling" while she was so young?
Q. I fear this may be a long post as I have a lot on my mind at the moment. My situation is as follows: I have been happily married to my wonderful wife for the past 7 years but our relationship dynamics have changed drastically over this ti...
A. 17 September 2009: What exactly has changed in terms of the dynamics in your relationship that makes you think that she is no longer happy? You have given a lot of background information but you have cited none of the issues which make you think that she may reg... (read in full...)
I feel second best to her ex!
Q. My girlfriend and I are in a long distance relationship; in November, we will have been together for two years. She started grad school recently, and she says that she wants a change of scenery because she's been sitting around the house lately ...
A. 17 September 2009: From the way it sounds, it seems as though you do not feel like your girlfriend is appreciating the relationship that you have with her. She is visiting this man, who she used to be involved with, with suspicious frequency. The fact of the matt... (read in full...)
I worship her like God but she's married!
Q. I am in love with a married woman. She is one of our teaching staff in our college. I don't know when it started but now I can feel that. At First I was thinking that its just an infatuation,and will go out of mind after some time. But it didn't. I ...
A. 17 September 2009: Love is something that must be built over time and through getting to know someone.
The fact of the matter is, you don't know what she is like in a relationship because you have never dated her. The person that you look at and occasion... (read in full...)
Should I stay for the sake of our child and lose my sanity or go?
Q. I'm married to an older man who I don't love, and probably never have. He kept throwing perks in my face and I took the bait. Now eight years later and a three year old I find myself depressed and wanting out. I sometimes feel like I'de rather be ...
A. 17 September 2009: A child learns what it is to love by observing the relationship of his or her parents.
If you stay and remain miserable, that is what your child will learn and come to think of as the "normal" dynamic of a relationship. If you do not think th... (read in full...)
We're both married, having an affair, living in different countries..how do I make this work?
Q. I am married and I have three young kids. Over the last six months I have been having affair with a woman abroad. I have known this woman for almost 20 years, going back to College. Since our affair began, we have seen each other three times. The ...
A. 17 September 2009: If you are going to leave your wife, leave her because you deem that it is the best thing to do, and do not do it because you want to be with another woman. A marriage is about two people wanting to build a life together and if you no longer wish to ... (read in full...)
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