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What I've learned from my family.
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How one person changed my life
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Is my fear that he might be considering cheating going to unsettle our relationship?
Q. My bf signed up to dating site and now i am questioning every thing he has done in the past. I have always been insecure but he has stuck with me and been together three years, now have a beautiful baby girl together. We have been through so m...
A. 14 June 2012: Ask your doctor about post partum depression too. ... (read in full...)
I've never had an orgasm with my boyfriend and I cant keep faking it forever!
Q. Hey there ladies and gents. I am completely in love with my boyfriend. I'm 18, he's now 20. We've been dating for almost 2 years now. Physically he is very handsome, tall, and somewhat fit. Emotionally he is super sweet, a little sarcastic, loving, ...
A. 14 June 2012: "I don't necessarily fake orgasm, I rather embellish a little bit with moaning and what not (cuz a friend told me not to just be silent... to kinda get into the right mindset). So to me that's still somewhat faking, yeah?"
Moaning is a turn on ... (read in full...)
Would you find a 42 year-old Virgin Dateable?
Q. Now to be honest, I have average looks and am average size being a tall, typical bodied white male. The issues exist that I suffer from social anxiety and other disorders, limiting my social skills, which might not attract women right off the ba...
A. 14 June 2012: If you're not a person who naturally shows affection then you'll be better off with a woman who is also non-affectionate. Find a woman who is like you, that is.
Then again, until you've been in a relationship you DON'T know how affectio... (read in full...)
I can't get her 'number' out of my head!
Q. My girlfriend of about 9 months now just recently revealed her "number" to me not too long ago. She is 22, and has only been having sex for two and a half years. When she first told me, it was 9, and that I was her 10th. Then it got got brought up ...
A. 13 June 2012: I don't think this is your only problem with her. She had casual sex because of her values and morals. Without doubt she's going to have other more liberal sides of her, that also are a result of her values and morals, that are going to go against ... (read in full...)
Is my fear that he might be considering cheating going to unsettle our relationship?
Q. My bf signed up to dating site and now i am questioning every thing he has done in the past. I have always been insecure but he has stuck with me and been together three years, now have a beautiful baby girl together. We have been through so m...
A. 13 June 2012: Yes, one needs to always let the past be the past. That goes for any relationship, regardless of the issue. Either a thing is dealt with and done with, or you need to let it go. You can't keep bringing up the same old same old.
As for the live web... (read in full...)
Is my fear that he might be considering cheating going to unsettle our relationship?
Q. My bf signed up to dating site and now i am questioning every thing he has done in the past. I have always been insecure but he has stuck with me and been together three years, now have a beautiful baby girl together. We have been through so m...
A. 13 June 2012: What happened to you working on yourself and not assuming the worst or over-analyzing? You need to start today. And whatever happened in the past leave it be! Do not dig up the snow that fell last year. If you didn't resolve things a year ago, now ... (read in full...)
Is my fear that he might be considering cheating going to unsettle our relationship?
Q. My bf signed up to dating site and now i am questioning every thing he has done in the past. I have always been insecure but he has stuck with me and been together three years, now have a beautiful baby girl together. We have been through so m...
A. 12 June 2012: It was over a year ago, right? If so, and no other bite marks have appeared.. then no. I don't think you have a case. But you're actively looking for evidence to "nail" him on this. I mean if you are so sure he is cheating on you then break off the ... (read in full...)
Is there any way to correct the emotional damage I've caused her? I prefer plus size women, usually.
Q. I have met the most wonderful girl on the planet. Smart, funny, intellectual, but most of all she has a wonderful personality. She is even beautiful, which is where my dilemma begins. I am attracted to larger women and, regrettably, have confessed ...
A. 12 June 2012: Yeah I just want to throw this in here as well. A few years ago I was in a relationship with an overweight man. I don't "prefer" overweight men. But I liked him, and we were good together (at first anyway). So even though I can honestly say I prefer ... (read in full...)
I'm stuck at a crossroad- I want to be with my B/f but I'm not sure if I want kids.
Q. My boyfriend of 6 years has just given me an ultimatum. He wants to settle down, get married, buy a house together and have kids in the next few years. For the past year or so, I've been indecisive- I love him with all my heart, he is a wonderfu...
A. 12 June 2012: If you're not ready, and you don't sound ready, and he can't wait... Well, you should let him go then. You could always make a secret pact, say if he doesn't meet someone else and gets married within the next two years, and if you find yourself ... (read in full...)
Is my fear that he might be considering cheating going to unsettle our relationship?
Q. My bf signed up to dating site and now i am questioning every thing he has done in the past. I have always been insecure but he has stuck with me and been together three years, now have a beautiful baby girl together. We have been through so m...
A. 12 June 2012: Oh why do people write this or say that, but even better: why are you trying to pick this to pieces by analyzing every single word and sentence? I doubt he really put that much effort and thought into writing that text, so I doubt there really is ... (read in full...)
I can't get her 'number' out of my head!
Q. My girlfriend of about 9 months now just recently revealed her "number" to me not too long ago. She is 22, and has only been having sex for two and a half years. When she first told me, it was 9, and that I was her 10th. Then it got got brought up ...
A. 12 June 2012: Oh, and.. did you recently learn her "number"? If so then your reaction to this might just need some time. You might figure out ways to live with it if you just give yourself some time.
And for the future.. just don't go there. Don't ask a girls ... (read in full...)
I can't get her 'number' out of my head!
Q. My girlfriend of about 9 months now just recently revealed her "number" to me not too long ago. She is 22, and has only been having sex for two and a half years. When she first told me, it was 9, and that I was her 10th. Then it got got brought up ...
A. 12 June 2012: Well... Things aren't straight forward in most of life's situations. On the one hand.. there's nothing to "forgive", and I was following your story up until that point, but that's just provocative and uncalled for. So I hope you can see why ... (read in full...)
Is my fear that he might be considering cheating going to unsettle our relationship?
Q. My bf signed up to dating site and now i am questioning every thing he has done in the past. I have always been insecure but he has stuck with me and been together three years, now have a beautiful baby girl together. We have been through so m...
A. 12 June 2012: "It upset me he text her this as he had obviously wanted to go and meet her"
Uhm, he didn't want to meet HER, he wanted to give her a ride so he could earn his tax-free money on playing cab driver.
Look, it'd be more of a concern if he ga... (read in full...)
Is there any way to correct the emotional damage I've caused her? I prefer plus size women, usually.
Q. I have met the most wonderful girl on the planet. Smart, funny, intellectual, but most of all she has a wonderful personality. She is even beautiful, which is where my dilemma begins. I am attracted to larger women and, regrettably, have confessed ...
A. 12 June 2012: I don't think you've caused the damage really. She obviously didn't need much to start worrying, and I'm thinking that you only gave her a solid excuse for her to start her panicking. I think she'd have found something else to panic over eventually, ... (read in full...)
I'm worried about marrying her because she doesn't want sex anymore!
Q. My girlfriend and I have been going out for about 18 months, and we have been living together for six months. When we started the relationship, sex was very good and quite regular at least one or two times a week but over the last five months i...
A. 12 June 2012: Oh yeah, I tried the depo shot a few months back and it completely altered my sex drive. I couldn't get wet, and I didn't feel like having sex at all, I just wanted to go to sleep. I didn't like it at all though, but in my case it was such a ... (read in full...)
Are my anxious fears about my future ability, to satisfy her, valid or invalid?
Q. I'm 19 years old, and my girlfriend and I have been together for almost two years. She and I are both virgins, and we both want to wait until we are married to each other to make love together. My penis is 6 inches long when completely erect. S...
A. 12 June 2012: Nothing to worry about. Your penis isn't half as important to sex as you believe it to be. And what you've got reaches far enough, trust me. Women can be perfectly happy with the workings of just 3 inches.
Satisfying her comes from way more tha... (read in full...)
Is he now officially my boyfriend?
Q. So last night I was with this guy that I've been seeing for a little over 2 months and Ive been wondering what we are exactly but I've been too scared to bring up the "what are we" talk so I've been keeping quiet. Well we finished having sex and we ...
A. 12 June 2012: I don't understand why it is problematic to just ask him. Being direct and honest with each other is a much better foundation for a relationship, than a relationship founded on one person running and asking complete strangers what they think.
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Is my fear that he might be considering cheating going to unsettle our relationship?
Q. My bf signed up to dating site and now i am questioning every thing he has done in the past. I have always been insecure but he has stuck with me and been together three years, now have a beautiful baby girl together. We have been through so m...
A. 12 June 2012: "As he hasnt emailed anyone and didnt pay for anything just put his details in do you think i should let it go this time and realise my paranoia pushed him to register? "
Yes. I also think you should consider working on yourself and figure o... (read in full...)
Would you find a 42 year-old Virgin Dateable?
Q. Now to be honest, I have average looks and am average size being a tall, typical bodied white male. The issues exist that I suffer from social anxiety and other disorders, limiting my social skills, which might not attract women right off the ba...
A. 12 June 2012: We are suggesting you don't tell the women you date that you are a virgin, not because it is BAD that you are a virgin. But because talking about your sex-life, whether you have one or not, is NOT first date material. You shouldn't discuss sex at ... (read in full...)
I've never had an orgasm with my boyfriend and I cant keep faking it forever!
Q. Hey there ladies and gents. I am completely in love with my boyfriend. I'm 18, he's now 20. We've been dating for almost 2 years now. Physically he is very handsome, tall, and somewhat fit. Emotionally he is super sweet, a little sarcastic, loving, ...
A. 12 June 2012: .. Why are you faking it? Sheez, tons of women have problems reaching an orgasm, it isn't exactly a big secret. Quit lying to your boyfriend, I get that you do it out of love for him or whatnot, but lying is still lying.
Get a real orgasm w... (read in full...)
I'm starting to hate my best friend! Help!
Q. Dear Cupid, I have a big problem and I have no idea as to how I should deal with it. The problem is my best friend. Let’s call her “Madison”. Madison and I have been friends for some time now about 5 years maybe, but we’ve been best friend s...
A. 11 June 2012: I dunno. But I am in somewhat the same boat. I have a friend who lately is nagging and arguing with me on everything, or absolutely HAS to make a smart ass comment on things. It really does get you fed up! So I see where you are coming from, with ... (read in full...)
Why is sex such a problem for me?
Q. I tried having sex for the first time two years ago, however the guy couldn't seem to fit it in and gave up. A year later I tried again with someone else and the same thing happened, we had done a lot of foreplay first and when then when it came to ...
A. 11 June 2012: Try smaller objects and work your way up to penis-size. For starters, use your finger. Or his for that matter. You can use tampons, right?
Then work your way up, either on your own or together with "this guy" you are seeing. Maybe a clue is that ... (read in full...)
I'm worried about marrying her because she doesn't want sex anymore!
Q. My girlfriend and I have been going out for about 18 months, and we have been living together for six months. When we started the relationship, sex was very good and quite regular at least one or two times a week but over the last five months i...
A. 11 June 2012: You are about to get married, yet you are unable to discuss something so important with her. I think that is more worrisome than your sex-life! Talk to her about your fears and concerns, and talk to her about how she makes you feel when she ... (read in full...)
Is he willing to lie to me to avoid conflict?
Q. I've been with my current boyfriend for nearly a year. I love him, and he tells me he loves me. He treats me very well, and I have little to complain about. But one day in conversation, he mentioned that an old female friend of his drunkenly kissed ...
A. 11 June 2012: Contrary to you I don't think this qualifies as cheating or lying. I'm siding with your boyfriend. He can't be to blame for someone ELSE and THEIR decision. It wasn't his decision to kiss that female friend. She kissed him, and he pushed her away. ... (read in full...)
Do you have to be physically attracted to someone to have sex with them?
Q. I think I worded a question wrong the other day, but what I really wanted to know is do men sleep with women that they aren't physically attracted to, especially more than once. I think my suggested question title got changed and people basicall...
A. 11 June 2012: Men can have sex with women they are not physically attracted to, yes. As can women. I doubt those who marry 90-year old millionaires find the 90-year olds "hot and sexy", to put it that way. ... (read in full...)
What do birth control pills do? Effects and side effects?
Q. What are the effects and side effects of birth control pills? My friend takes them for birth control, my sister takes them to regulate her period, and my cousin takes them to help her acne. So the only thing I know about them is that they lessen ...
A. 11 June 2012: People react in different ways. There are also different amounts of hormones in the different types of pills. Some have the same amount in all the pills, some have different amounts for the different weeks. Some have higher values and some have ... (read in full...)
In a relationship and I don't want to cheat but I want to fool around with other people! Do other people feel this too?
Q. Hey everyone. So I love my boyfriend, we have been dating for almost 2 years and I'm pretty sure I'm gonna marry him when we get out of college and stuff (I'm 18, he's 20). But have any of you ever wanted to just fool around with other people? Just ...
A. 11 June 2012: Well.. personally I never had this problem. I don't find myself tempted by other men when I am in a relationship, because it's not an alternative in my mind to be tempted by them.
If I have opened up for that alternative though, it'd be differen... (read in full...)
What are some things about a guy that a teenage girl likes?
Q. what are some things about a guy that a teenage girl likes? I am an awesome artist, or at least im told so, and i am quiet, smart, but make stupid choices sometimes. my grades are good and I got a high overall average last quarter. im only 14...
A. 11 June 2012: Girls your age don't care about your grades, because they're not thinking marriage and future just yet. Girls your age are immature (same as guys your age) and want what most teenagers want: to be cool, fit in, and be popular. They want what their ... (read in full...)
After seeing her ex, she called me his name during sex and now I'm very upset
Q. Ok... hopefully i can get some good advice on this and not people making fun. I have been seeing the most lovely girl for the past few months. Before she was with me, she was in a 4 year relationship with the most awful guy - he hit her, put her...
A. 11 June 2012: My advice is to let it drop. Saying the wrong name is a common mistake, it happens, and it has no hidden meanings. I understand that it was hurtful, when having sex you are at your most exposed and fragile, so such a mistake would hurt more than it ... (read in full...)
In love with two men...and my boyfriend doesn't know!!
Q. Hello I need help or advice with a problem I created for about 6 years. Im in love with two people and my boyfriend doesnt know about the other man. I met my boyfriend now father of my two year son about 6 years old. We were both young and we had m...
A. 11 June 2012: Who's arms do you want to sleep in at night? That's the one you will go for.
Don't stay with your baby's dad just for the sake of your child, if that man can't make you happy.
But in all honesty, of you love BOTH just as much then maybe you s... (read in full...)
It's only on nights out when we drink we confess we love each other. Do drunken thoughts speak sober minds?
Q. I think I may be falling for my best friend (P) I have never felt like this about anyone. I'm scared of how I feel even P has said he is. I recently broke up with my boyfriend. P let me know about my ex cheating on me twice. But my ex denied...
A. 11 June 2012: Ask him out on a proper date, with no alcohol.
I think he does feel the same way about you as you feel about him, but you are both worried of being the first one to openly SAY it, in case the other one backs out.
I don't understand what ... (read in full...)
CAN SOULMATES OVERCOME THEIR OBSTACLES
Q. Does a soulmate relationship ever overcome the obstacles placed before it?...
A. 10 June 2012: Yes, but not always in the way you think, or want to yourself. If you believe in soul mates you also believer in a higher power, that has brought the two of you together. Much like with God, such a higher power can impact you in ways you don't ... (read in full...)
Trust issues! What help do I need to overcome my paranoia and fear of of being used by women?
Q. I'm at a very distressing time in my life and its because I'm so paranoid of Women. It started as I was little and in kindergarten. I always noticed how the girls in class would act towards guys. After each grade I would notice random things but i...
A. 10 June 2012: "I tried to get dates but I would notice when a girl would lie, or try to get something from me. "
This comes from your paranoia, I will guess. You put too high value on things that in your mind, as you said, fit together. But that in the real wor... (read in full...)
It takes forever for him to orgasm
Q. So my bf and i have been together for a little over a month now and whenever we partake in sexual activites it takes him 45mins or longer to ejaculate and orgasm. my problem is that i'm usaully done after 20 mins. i can turn him on just fine, he can ...
A. 10 June 2012: As long as doing handjobs work for him why put pressure on him to come faster? A man can still enjoy sex without an orgasm, same as with women. Do YOU come every single time you have sex? No? I sure don't. And I'm fine with it, and I've never had a ... (read in full...)
He is gone, and I can't find joy in my daily life!
Q. Ok, here it goes. I have been with "J" for four years. He has helped me raise my children (none of which are biologically his) pulled me from a dark place i was headed down and showed me what a hood relationship could offer. The first year wasnt ...
A. 10 June 2012: Are you currently in treatment for your depression? Do you go to therapy? If not then this would be a great time for you to start, because you need to talk through your emotions and let them out in a healthy and productive way. Getting desperate, ... (read in full...)
21 and want pay a prostitute to take my virginity. Is this illegal?
Q. I'm 21 and I want to lose my virginity soon, I don't want to drift into my mid-late 20's early 30's and still be a virgin. I am aware of the protection needed and please don't try and sell me any of the disneyland wait for the right girl and l...
A. 9 June 2012: "Secondly don't worry about what future women think just tell them you lost it on a drunken one night stand, you're not proud of it and you don't even remember her name."
Sure, OP, you could lie. And then start off every relationship you ever hav... (read in full...)
Three months after our breakup and she's already with another guy!
Q. So my ex of now 3 months told me when we were together that i was the one and that she wanted to marry me in the future and she was in love with me but then its 3 months later and she is already with another person. Is it wrong to feel hurt by ...
A. 9 June 2012: So, she told you she wanted to marry you, when you were together. Then you split up. So, it seems to me, the issue isn't that she is with someone else. The issue is that she broke up with you, right? If you were the one and only she wouldn't have ... (read in full...)
Baggage from the break-up is getting in the way with new guys
Q. My boyfriend and i split up 8 months ago but he wont stop texting me abusive texts, leaving abusive messages (still after this long)etc. He calls me such horrible names and makes me feel like its my fault that he got depressed because i broke up ...
A. 9 June 2012: Change your phone number, and report your ex to the police for harassment. This is a serious issue. He got physical with you? You got witnesses? Report and have a restricting order on him so he's not allowed to contact you or get near you. ... (read in full...)
Did I blow my chances by having sex on the fourth date?
Q. I need help, I have been dating this guy for a couple of weeks and I am interested in him, however on our fourth date we had sex and now I am worried that I have gone from the potential girlfriend to just the good time girl without a future. Afterw...
A. 9 June 2012: I'm with SVC. Having sex, in itself, doesn't really say much. It's the context of things that say it all. He still wanted to hang out with you, he wanted to go out for ice cream. If you went, and I hope you did, that sounds lovely, then I wouldn't ... (read in full...)
Last night I cheated on my boyfriend of 1.5 years...what do I do now?
Q. Last night I cheated on my boyfriend of 1.5 years. By cheating, I mean that I met up with a new friend for coffee. We were sitting in the car drinking our coffee and he suddenly leaned in and kissed me. When he did this I automatically pulled away, ...
A. 9 June 2012: My first concern is: who is this "friend"? He sounds like a very selfish friend if anything. No real friend would kiss, for of all kissing isn't "friendly". You allowed this.. so, who is he? He can not possibly be just a friend, in that case none of ... (read in full...)
I believe I am God's match for her
Q. I am in love wih my best friend (female) and I'm pretty sure she hasn't thought of me in a romantic way. I honestly love everything about her. I'm nothing special but I do feel that I am God's match for her. What do I do? How do I go about it? Any ...
A. 9 June 2012: You need to court her the way every other man/or boy who is interested in her will have to. Just because you THINK you are a fit, doesn't mean you ARE. Keep that in mind. You only know her at a certain level, but people have many levels, and they ... (read in full...)
Would you date a guy that's 14 years old if you are 17 years old?
Q. Hey everyone... I just wanna ask this question. Would you date a guy that's 14 year old but he's almost 15 and you are 17 year old? And he's also in the 7th grade and you are in the 11th grade in school. Thanks, I'm just asking....
A. 8 June 2012: Sorry, no I wouldn't. But I know of others who would. ... (read in full...)
21 and want pay a prostitute to take my virginity. Is this illegal?
Q. I'm 21 and I want to lose my virginity soon, I don't want to drift into my mid-late 20's early 30's and still be a virgin. I am aware of the protection needed and please don't try and sell me any of the disneyland wait for the right girl and l...
A. 8 June 2012: "please don't try and sell me any of the disneyland wait for the right girl and lose it on your wedding night stuff."
Fine, I wont sell you any of that. I'll just say it so you don't go into some dreamland fantasy of your own: no woman will eve... (read in full...)
What is more important animal attraction or someone who can treat you like a queen?
Q. I am out a long bad relationship. About 6 months now. I have met this super nice guy. He is loving caring and will go anything for me but I'm not sure if I am attracted to him, although we have only have had 5 dates. I can see he is really into me ...
A. 8 June 2012: I'd not settle for anything less than both. Animal attraction usually does go hand in hand with treating you like a queen, in my experience.. So I don't see why I should have to choose. If the man worships you and adores you, well, he's naturally ... (read in full...)
Was I wrong for letting my 17 year old daughter sleep in the same bed as her male best friend?
Q. I let my daughter's male best friend sleep in her bed with her - am I a bad mother? My daughter and her best friend are 17 and I completely trust my daughter's trust in him. I know she wouldn't do anything because she's too insecure for anything ...
A. 6 June 2012: But at what point isn't this her choice to make? I get that this is a taboo if you are highly religious, or if sex before the age of 18, or 20, or pre-marital sex is illegal. But at 17, in Ireland (and correct me if I am wrong, but she's at the age ... (read in full...)
Was I wrong for letting my 17 year old daughter sleep in the same bed as her male best friend?
Q. I let my daughter's male best friend sleep in her bed with her - am I a bad mother? My daughter and her best friend are 17 and I completely trust my daughter's trust in him. I know she wouldn't do anything because she's too insecure for anything ...
A. 6 June 2012: Oh, and if they are determined to have sex, trust me, keeping them in separate rooms wont prevent it. They could just as easily go elsewhere to have sex if that's what they wanted... People are naive if they think teenagers wont have sex as long as ... (read in full...)
Was I wrong for letting my 17 year old daughter sleep in the same bed as her male best friend?
Q. I let my daughter's male best friend sleep in her bed with her - am I a bad mother? My daughter and her best friend are 17 and I completely trust my daughter's trust in him. I know she wouldn't do anything because she's too insecure for anything ...
A. 6 June 2012: I don't think that makes you a bad mother at all. As long as your daughter is a good girl she's keep her hands to herself and know how to speak up if her best friend tried something she wasn't comfortable with.
I think this shows her that you... (read in full...)
Nice guy, or overbearing?
Q. Hi all... I hope this isn't too long but im at work and not sure what to do, so hopefully this will give me some clarity. I have been dating the most wonderful girl for the past 3 months. Her ex boyfiend was a nasty peice of work and used to ...
A. 6 June 2012: Nice guy.. or overbearing? They are two different things you know. You can still be nice, without that meaning you're on her back like the secret service.
Maybe this other "friend" of yours is a creep. Well, tell her so then. Tell her he's pro... (read in full...)
Boyfriend will be away for 2 weeks and I don't think I can cope with it
Q. Hi, My boyfriend of over 2 years is away to Europe for the next 2 weeks due to work commitments. We are extremely close, and best friends as well as a couple. This means that we see each other literally all the time and enjoy each other's constant...
A. 6 June 2012: I'm not judging your relationship. I am simply say that what you are currently doing is not healthy, nor is it good for your relationship. That doesn't equal judging. It simply means that you have the option now: smother this relationship into an ... (read in full...)
Boyfriend will be away for 2 weeks and I don't think I can cope with it
Q. Hi, My boyfriend of over 2 years is away to Europe for the next 2 weeks due to work commitments. We are extremely close, and best friends as well as a couple. This means that we see each other literally all the time and enjoy each other's constant...
A. 5 June 2012: This experience is GOOD for you and good for your relationship. It's not good for the relationship, or for your own mental health, to be so dependent on someone else. You might think your relationship works just fine being together 24/7, but it's ... (read in full...)
Would you find a 42 year-old Virgin Dateable?
Q. Now to be honest, I have average looks and am average size being a tall, typical bodied white male. The issues exist that I suffer from social anxiety and other disorders, limiting my social skills, which might not attract women right off the ba...
A. 20 May 2012: Why do you think a woman you date will have her first date with you in bed? By the time you and her get intimate you will, hopefully, already have gone beyond the clumsy and insecure levels and gotten to know each other, be comfortable with each ... (read in full...)
Would you find a 42 year-old Virgin Dateable?
Q. Now to be honest, I have average looks and am average size being a tall, typical bodied white male. The issues exist that I suffer from social anxiety and other disorders, limiting my social skills, which might not attract women right off the ba...
A. 19 May 2012: "Are there any lines anyone might suggest that I approach her with? "
Be honest about your situation, but ease into it. I think that would be the best policy. The woman you date/are interested in doesn't need to hear your life story on the firs... (read in full...)
Would you find a 42 year-old Virgin Dateable?
Q. Now to be honest, I have average looks and am average size being a tall, typical bodied white male. The issues exist that I suffer from social anxiety and other disorders, limiting my social skills, which might not attract women right off the ba...
A. 13 May 2012: At 26 I don't think I'd find a 42-year old man date-able for me, regardless of anything else. So I am probably not the best one to answer this. However, say you were 25-32 instead and my answer would be: sure. Based on the information you gave me I ... (read in full...)
In a relationship and I don't want to cheat but I want to fool around with other people! Do other people feel this too?
Q. Hey everyone. So I love my boyfriend, we have been dating for almost 2 years and I'm pretty sure I'm gonna marry him when we get out of college and stuff (I'm 18, he's 20). But have any of you ever wanted to just fool around with other people? Just ...
A. 21 April 2012: You'll figure it out. ... (read in full...)
In a relationship and I don't want to cheat but I want to fool around with other people! Do other people feel this too?
Q. Hey everyone. So I love my boyfriend, we have been dating for almost 2 years and I'm pretty sure I'm gonna marry him when we get out of college and stuff (I'm 18, he's 20). But have any of you ever wanted to just fool around with other people? Just ...
A. 20 April 2012: It depends.. is this a sudden urge you've just got since you see other people doing it, or because you are in a certain mood lately? Or is this a constant feeling that's been there for the last months and isn't likely to go away?
Wait and see whic... (read in full...)
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