How can I ensure that losing my virginity is special, and not a one night stand, nor a joke for the guy?
Q. Guys, would you ever take a girls virginity then that's it, never speak to her again? I'm 16 and a virgin and although I sort of want to lose my virginity I'm terrified in case it's with the wrong guy. I don't want my first time to be a one nigh...
A. 12 November 2015: Short answer: Yes. Guys will do that. Guys are arseholes. There are guys who will take advantage of you like that and not even think twice about it. Tbh, I think the whole concept of losing virginity is way overplayed. I lost mine my freshman... (read in full...)
My ex has confused me. Why would he block me? Was he mad that I defriended him on FB?
Q. I would really appreciate it if I could get an outside perspective of this situation I'm going through. I'm really upset and don't understand what's wrong with this guy. I recently turned 20 and my ex is 21. I met him during the end of January (...
A. 17 September 2015: As a guy in an eerily similar set of circumstances as your guy, I want to give you one piece of advice:
A guy who is genuinely into you won't make the same mistake twice. A guy who dumps you, realizes what a terrible mistake he's made and is s... (read in full...)
My (platonic) date to a wedding had to cancel. Should I invite the girl I've just started dating?
Q. I have a wedding to go to this upcoming weekend with a plus one, and as I've never had to go to a wedding before, so I'm not sure about proper etiquette about these things. I haven't been seeing anyone steadily and I've been in medical grad sch...
A. 29 September 2014: In response to my relation to the bride/groom, they are my closest friends from home. Home is 100 miles away and I don't go home often (less than 4 times a year), but when I do, I always make time to see them. I was the first one who knew about the ... (read in full...)
I'm in love...but it’s just that I wasn't planning on finding myself here with my best girl friend who's engaged!
Q. I would estimate I’m joined by at least 65% of other college guys who don’t REALLY believe in love. What, with so many people coming and going in these brief 4 years, falling in love is just a liability. But then just like that, it snuck up on ...
A. 15 May 2014: Update: (If y'all are willing to stick with me) We've been spending massive amounts of time together... She came to the bar with me and my friends on my birthday at midnight, we went to the club later that night, we went out to the bar just by ... (read in full...)
I'm in love...but it’s just that I wasn't planning on finding myself here with my best girl friend who's engaged!
Q. I would estimate I’m joined by at least 65% of other college guys who don’t REALLY believe in love. What, with so many people coming and going in these brief 4 years, falling in love is just a liability. But then just like that, it snuck up on ...
A. 5 March 2014: Devont: Hahaha, thank you for the reassurance. I would agree that I'm not in "romantic" love with her. It is more, as you call it, a special friendship. I guess I just used "love" for lacking a better word, but nonetheless it is different tha... (read in full...)
I don't want our relationship to be all about sex, but I feel I am making it that way.
Q. Hey well I am a 20 year old male and I am dating a 22 year old virgin and I know she wants to wait and I do too. The problem is I've been wanting to have sex with her lately really bad. I have been pushing for it and feeling horrible. I love her and ...
A. 5 March 2014: Take my advice as advice coming from a guy who firmly believes in the sexual component of a relationship: You are not making the relationship all about sex. The only way you can actually make the relationship all about sex, is to actually have se... (read in full...)
I'm the 30 year old virgin and don't want to be the 40 year old!
Q. Dear Cupid, I'm 31 and still single and I don't want to be the 40 years old virgin. It's not like I haven't been trying. I took other people's advices, read books, I even tried using those cologne that makes a person likes you. But none of t...
A. 5 March 2014: Now OP, I wasn't going to say anything because the other Aunts have certainly covered a lot of material. But I did want to address something in your last response: "Because I went to College and found out how talentless I really am." I can al... (read in full...)
Should I tell her I'm studying so that I can avoid the 'nice neighbour' overdose?
Q. My landlady happens to be my neighbour too, so before Christmas I got her a nice snowflake to hang on her tree and a card...so a few days before I flew home, she invited me along with other expats to a lunch Christmas party...then after Christmas I ...
A. 5 March 2014: Lol, in all seriousness, if possible, I'd move. The whole bit about her watching you from the surveillance.. Ehh.. gives me shivers. In any case, no, I would not recommend telling her you're studying for an exam in June. First, because it's the... (read in full...)
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