Is it normal for my boyfriend to check out his sisters?
Q. I am 19 years old and my boyfriend is 22. We have been dating for four years he has younger sisters one is my age and the other is 17. Anyway when me and my boyfriend first started going out we would always go out with them and i would notice him ...
A. 7 July 2011: He's Probably just thinking how much he hates his little sisters dressing like that. He's looking and thinking what other guys will be thinking. And if he's the usual kind of big brother he will absolutely hate the thought of it. ... (read in full...)
How do I keep my past from ruining my future?
Q. So Ive dated every type of man out there.. the hopeless romantic, the badboy, the future urban outdoorsman, the vain, and the abusive. But if you were to ask me to conduct a relationship with a "geek", I wouldnt know where to begin. To make a l...
A. 27 June 2011: The kind of relationship you've just got out of, I'd say needs more than 4 months to get over. (From experience).
Try getting to know him as a friend first whilst you rebuild everything which your ex took from you. Ask for help/therapy if nece... (read in full...)
How do I keep my past from ruining my future?
Q. So Ive dated every type of man out there.. the hopeless romantic, the badboy, the future urban outdoorsman, the vain, and the abusive. But if you were to ask me to conduct a relationship with a "geek", I wouldnt know where to begin. To make a l...
A. 27 June 2011: The kind of relationship you've just got out of, I'd say needs more than 4 months to get over. (From experience).
Try getting to know him as a friend first whilst you rebuild everything which your ex took from you. Ask for help/therapy if nece... (read in full...)
My BF doesn't want to go for my niece's christening and doesn't want me to go either. If I do, he would break up with me. What should I do?
Q. What would you do if you were me? Hello. Some advice please. I come from a very close family and we are not religious at all. My sister however has decided to get my niece christened. When my boyfriend found out about this he was totally against ...
A. 25 June 2011: Thanks for the advice guys, you've all pretty much said what I already know. The thing is, this has happened before and when I tried breaking up with him he began to make me feel guilty, like I was choosing my family over him, like he was right all ... (read in full...)
Is he lying? Am I over reacting? Or how could this problem happen with the phone?
Q. Hey Everyone, I have a serious problem ....Ok myself and my fiance are in love and we live together hes a great man I never once had him cheat on me or anything. but today I found something that really upset me and he says he didn't do it, what ...
A. 25 June 2011: So what If he was watching porn? If you try control him you will lose him. He may be in a relationship but he's not blind. ... (read in full...)
I want to keep the baby but he wants an abortion!
Q. Hello readers... I've recently found out that I am pregnant. I'm thrilled but really hurt at the same time. The father on the other hand is upset and want me to have an abortion. BIG PROBLEM, because I don't want to. I just don't understand how he ...
A. 20 June 2011: If you don't won't to, don't let him pressure you. Speaking from experience. You can always find another boyfriend but you can never ever take back a decision which you were not happy about in the first place. Feel free to message me as iv been ... (read in full...)
Why are men not unattracted to me even though I am tall and cute?
Q. I am 5 10, size 12, short red hair, long legs, 21 and cutish face. Although I have these things I feel so unattractive and that men dont fancy me, what am i doing wrong?...
A. 18 June 2011: If you learn to feel attractive it will show, confidence is attractive. ... (read in full...)
I'm afraid he'll become more than friends with his childhood pal
Q. Me and my bf have been together for 3 years, before our 2 years anniversary, a messed up situation occured between us and I know most relationships encounter this problem. It's not cheating, but we broke up and a friend of mine asked him to hang out ...
A. 30 May 2011: If your boyfriend cares he won't go. This guy maybe a childhood friend but he doesnt sound like a very good or close one. You said you two were broken up at the time so technically he didn't cheat but they still both betrayed you. Find someone ... (read in full...)
Why did my friend go ballistic on me after we slept together and I asked if we could more than friends?
Q. I slept with my very close friend of 7 years, and wondered if it was a start point to go further. I got the courage to ask and was expecting a sad no, hoping for an excited yes. I wasn't expecting the complete embarrassing rejection that i...
A. 27 May 2011: They why did you wait 5 years part makes it sound as though she might have felt something for you at one point. She's maybe scared Of getting involved incase she loses you as a friend as well as a lover. ... (read in full...)
Was he interested, in his strange way?
Q. It's going to be a very long post, so take a deep breath and dive in. I recently have finished my BA after a long delay. During the last semester I was studying with - lets call him D. He is a lecturer (in the country where I live we don't name the...
A. 19 May 2011: Sorry he doesn't sound interested in you at all. No more than a lecturer is interested in his students anyway. You sound to be kind of stalking him, which is not good. ... (read in full...)
Is this pushing the limits?
Q. It is starting to get warm now and us girls are starting to wear more comfortable clothing. But this one girl in our class is crossing the line, she wore a very short mini skirt to school and when she bent over to get her bag from her locker she had ...
A. 14 May 2011: I think it's upto her what she wears! Doesn't mean I'd wear it but it's her right to wear what she pleases. Don't like what you see then dont look! ... (read in full...)
Caught her in contact, again. Should I give her another chance? I miss her and her little girl a lot.
Q. Ill try keep this short. Ive caught my Gf of almost 3 years, in contact with another guy. This is the 2nd time. The 1st time was just over a year ago. Both of them work colleagues. Nothing physical happened in both instances. I had been watching her ...
A. 16 April 2011: She said their just friends, so maybe they are. Maybe she's so secretive because she knows you don't trust her and you would make an issue about it. Give her a bit of space, seriously if she want to chea shed let you walk out of her life I'm sure.... (read in full...)
I knew I was going to regret BJ from my GF, and I do. Please advise.
Q. I have always told my (first) girlfriend, that I never wanted a blowjob, because I knew I would regret it. About a month ago, she gave me one, and as I suspected, from back then to this very moment, I am regretting it in so many different ways. I ...
A. 4 April 2011: Let the thought of it remind you that it's something special you shared. Her mouth Is for you and you only.... (read in full...)
I knew I was going to regret BJ from my GF, and I do. Please advise.
Q. I have always told my (first) girlfriend, that I never wanted a blowjob, because I knew I would regret it. About a month ago, she gave me one, and as I suspected, from back then to this very moment, I am regretting it in so many different ways. I ...
A. 3 April 2011: Experimenting is a normal part of a relationship. You didn't like it so you don't have to do it again..... And romance can include sex if done properly!! ... (read in full...)
Guy friend is coming on to me and it is making me uncomfortable
Q. One of my best guy friends keeps telling me i look hot and I'm not very comfortable with it. I've known him since elementary school and he has never said anything like this before.....I'm not sure if he is just joking around or not because i got a ...
A. 29 March 2011: Telling someone their hot isn't actually coming on to them. I'm a straight female, have a boyfriend and am 22 years old. If I saw you and you were looking nice, I'd tell you. Am I coming on to you? Obviously not. Im just stating the truth, or maybe... (read in full...)
Wife had one brief sexual encounter before we married, why does it bother me so much?
Q. If you were a man who lost your virginity to your wife and your wife admitted to having one small sexual encounter for 1 mintute or so and told the man to stop and then was managomous to you for the rest of her life would you let it bother you? Idk ...
A. 22 March 2011: Well she was honest with you and told you about it so you should let it go. She's with you and loves you, and she could have hidden It, since she wasnt even with you at that time, but she respects you enough to be straight with you.... (read in full...)
Because of my husband's child from a previous marriage, my family hardly ever gets my husband for just OUR family time together...
Q. I am having a massive life crisis, and seem stuck in a rut I don’t know I want to be in. I have been with my husband for eight years, we have two children together and he has a child from a previous marriage. His other child lives 3 hours ...
A. 20 March 2011: He probably feels more guilty about his daughter since he does not live with her, i guess he wants to make it upto her. Talk to him, it sounds like you resent his daughter which is not fair at all, she will always be his daughter, his first born, ... (read in full...)
My friend's girlfriend has feelings for me
Q. I'm having some problem's with my friend's girlfriend. So about a year ago, my friend started dating this other girl and I met her shortly after. But he is a bad boyfriend, he hurts her, beats her from time to time and doesn't want to hug/kiss...
A. 19 March 2011: Stay well away. She's using you as a way out of her crap relationship. Help her leave your friend by all means, but don't get involved, your friend sounds like a nasty guy and if he doesn't hurt both of you, she definitely will. ... (read in full...)
I feel so competetive with him...
Q. Okay, so I've got this issue, but I don't really know how to explain it so I'll just try my best. My boyfriend and I have been together for a year and a half and these feelings have developed more and more over that time. We're both very clever ...
A. 21 February 2011: A little competition is healthy but it sounds like your suffering from low self esteem. Your clever, you dont have to be smarter than him everytime to keep him. You'll go far in life whether he occasionally scores better or not! And I'm sure there's ... (read in full...)
I was rejected because of my height
Q. A girl i liked rejected me because of my height, i am 5'7 and i never thought twice about my height, it hurt because i cant change how i was born.my question is are all girls that way? I was very good to this girl in every way....
A. 17 February 2011: Your height is about average for a male your age so dont let that bother you. Not all girls are shallow no, but some like a taller boyfriend to feel secure. You didnt state her height but She was maybe insecure about being taller than you as as far ... (read in full...)
195 pictures of porn stars in his phone!
Q. i am very saden with my baby's dad recently i wanted to surprise him to make a picture collage with the pictures that he had in his phone with my little girl and for my surprise he had 195 pictures of naked women specially with porn stars and i ...
A. 17 February 2011: He maybe had them before he met you and never got round to deleting them. If it makes you uncomfortable tell him. Explain to him your not trying to control him but it makes you unhappy and you'd appreciate it if he deleted them. Men do look at ... (read in full...)
What do I do? He's a tranny porn lover!
Q. I am in a relatonship of 6 months and I am getting ready to make the big leap and move in with this special someone. Sounds great, right? Well ...he recently divulged that once a month he has an incredible urge to look at shemale porn and he just ...
A. 17 February 2011: I wouldn't say watching every month was an addiction, he was honest with you which was a very good sign. If it reaches a point where the porn turna him on but you don't, then it's a problem. ... (read in full...)
How can I find out if boyfriend is watching porn?
Q. Other than the history, how can you find out if porn is being viewed on the internet? or webcams being viewed? boyfriend vows that he hasn't been watching it anymore, but how can I be sure? He lives with me and uses my computers, I have thought ...
A. 17 February 2011: Leave him alone to watch porn if he wants to. Seriously you want to install tracking software. Why not just lock him in a cage for the rest of his life. Oh and blindfold him lest he see any other women. ... (read in full...)
Boyfriend broke up with me because he thinks I had sex with someone else
Q. I broken up with my boyfriend. He's thing is that he thinks that I had sex with another guy Friday. He texted me and I didn't reply because I was mad with him. He refused my explanation and terminated the relationship. I really want him back. ...
A. 15 February 2011: It sounds abit strange, why would he automatically assume that you were having sex with another guy If you didn't text him back. I mean wouldn't he try and call you? Or assume your busy or something?? Or have you done this before whilst having sex ... (read in full...)
Where can I get her some flowers at such short notice???
Q. I went to Tesco to buy my girlfriend some roses for tomorrow, but they were all dried up and didn't look very nice. Obviously all the good ones were sold out. They had some others that cost £20 that looked nice but I couldn't afford that. This i...
A. 14 February 2011: Go to the local flower shop? Buy a plastic one from the card shop? Pick her one from a garden?? Or just forget the flowers and go for a Teddy bear and chocolates!! ... (read in full...)
Why does he always have to be an idiot? I want him to feel guilty!
Q. Wow, I just read most of these responses to columns about boyfriends who forget their girl's birthdays. I have to admit, my boyfriend isn't that much of an asshole. I guess reading these responses makes me feel better about my situation. It's 4:12...
A. 14 February 2011: Sorry if I sounded a bit harsh in my previous answer, but my initial response was you were being a bit spoiled!!.... However I do realize that us girls sometimes over analyze things. My advice is still pretty much the same, however; you've got a go... (read in full...)
Am I just holding her back from accomplishing what she wants out of life because I'm selfish?
Q. My girlfriend and I have been in a relationship for 10 months. She is 28 and I'm 23. We moved in together about 3 months ago and we do everything together now. She has all these plans for her future about marriage and kids and all that stuff and I ...
A. 13 February 2011: So this is you as well right? http://www.dearcupid.org/question/my-boyfriend-is-perpetually-undecided-and-has-no.html I find it hard to believe both of you posted on here with the same issue at the same time, just from different points of view!!... (read in full...)
My roommate keeps breaking "house rules"! How can I approach her about this?
Q. Hi everyone!! I hate it when people take the Mickey! I am a student in my 3rd year at uni. I live with my boyfriend and another couple who we were friends with last year. We all live in a flat that my parents bought and we rent from them. Ever sinc...
A. 12 February 2011: Your being unreasonable. If she pays rent then it's her home as much as yours whether you rent from your parents or a stranger. She's got a right to bring friends into what she should be able to consider her home.... (read in full...)
I want sex toys but I have to ask my mom
Q. I would like to ask my mum about getting sex toys but need her to buy them since I am only 15 and can't buy online. But I have know idea how to ask her since she is not so open about these things ...
A. 8 February 2011: Just go into an Anne Summers shop there in most cities, nobody will look at you twice. X... (read in full...)
He said he would and he did! I feel very hurt now...
Q. My boyfriend and I have been together for over 3 years now. Last night he was clearly drunk and he told me he was going to walk to the store to get smokes. I told him I would take him 5 times he said he and his brother were going to walk. He knows ...
A. 8 February 2011: I understand fully what you mean. Once you've been lied to, about anything, you can never fully trust that person again right?
You know your boyfriend, and you know whether he's truly sorry or not, and whether he's cabable of lying about other matt... (read in full...)
Time of the month she turns into someone else.
Q. Hey everybody, Really need your help so here goes. Thanks in advance. I've been dating this girl for a couple of months now and everything was going well up until a week ago. It's the time of the month and I don't want to sound like just a ...
A. 29 January 2011: Buy her lots of chocolate, magazines, make her cups of tea, tell her she's looking beautiful... (I always feel bloated and ugly when I'm on my period). All in all just try cheer her up abit, however, there are limits.. I get very moody on my period ... (read in full...)
I'm trying to make this guy want me!
Q. I am trying to make this guy in my class to want me. We are taking a law and security course, and have been getting along great.When we have physical fitness classes in the gym, I will wear my short running shorts and when we have swimming...
A. 29 January 2011: Well it depends what you mean... If you want him to view you simply as some eye candy and want you sexually then carry on.
But if you like him then he's unlikely to be thinking of you as girlfriend material in those circumstances. Try getting to k... (read in full...)
I had sex a year back, will my future husband know that I'm not a virgin?
Q. I had sex last year, but my bf ditched me.. Ima going to get married next year to someone else and I don't want my husband to know that i'm not a virgin. That was the only time I had sex, tilll now i dint get physical with anyone. All I want to know ...
A. 25 January 2011: You should just be honest with him, it's kind of disrespectful to start the marriage on a lie and it's sure to bounce back in your face.
If he can't accept the fact your not a virgin, then maybe he doesn't love you as much as you thought.
But t... (read in full...)
Is it wrong for me to date other races?
Q. Hey peeps, Is it wrong for me to date other races?? I'm black and my friends always talkin about sticking to our own culture but I find white and chinese boys SERIOUSLY attractive :s. I also want to know if dating other cultures last long ...
A. 25 January 2011: It depends on the couple.
It can be an amazing eye opener, experiencing a culture which is new and you will find yourself wishing you'd experienced parts of that culture earlier! On the other hand there may be aspects of that culture you find hard... (read in full...)
My ex is trying to sabotage my new relationship & my new bf is backing off. WHY?
Q. I have found a new man... all is going great. We went on holiday together and got on well. I posted some pics up of our vacation as I was so happy. Anyway, my ex bf is still on my page, which I totally forgot about. He is now trying to get me back ...
A. 25 January 2011: Uh you could just delete you ex from Facebook. That would make sense, and would be the respectful thing to do.
Your new bf is distant because he doesn't trust you, and why would he you clearly don't know what you want and it looks like your enjo... (read in full...)
Everyone is blaming me for her failed relationship, but her boyfriend had a part to play too!
Q. Hello aunts and uncles! A few months ago I posted a question saying I couldn't bear to leave a guy who was attached. Well, I finally did and I was happy with life until 2 days ago. Now, his girlfriend and her umbrage of popular friends are mad at me ...
A. 17 January 2011: No Iv been through this. It's impossible to "steal" someone. Like when you were a kid and youd cry that so and so had "stolen" ypir best friend. If it wasn't you he cheated with it would have been somebody else. Girls tend to get the blame in ... (read in full...)
Can't get over the past
Q. I'm having a hard time forgetting and getting over the past when my boyfriend and I broke up for a year. We have been together for over 6 years now and this situation happened almost 3 years ago yet I keep thinking about it. My boyfriend and I have ...
A. 4 January 2011: Hi, you need to let it go before it destroys your relationship. I think you can trust this guy as he's been honest with you that he saw somebody. It might hurt but you were broken up at the time. Focus on the present, he's back with you so obviously ... (read in full...)
I don't want to lose my boyfriend by telling him I'm pregnant with his twins, but I don't want to give them up or have an abortion either!
Q. Hello, I found out I'm pregnant at 17 and to make it even bigger its twins! I am so scared to tell my boyfriend. We both noticed I was gaining weight but I stopped working out the past few weeks because it was too time consuming. I don't want to ...
A. 1 January 2011: Hey hunni, I think you should do what's in your heart. I don't see why you would lose your boyfriend because your pregnant. My belief is that If he's man enough to have sex then he should accept the possible consequences. Do not let anyone or ... (read in full...)
How do I earn my boyfriend's trust back?
Q. How can I earn my boyfriend's trust back? I didn't physically cheat on him. I'm going through a VERY hard time right now. I recently lost my family. We were separated with foster families. The reasons don't matter, the point is that I went to a town ...
A. 1 January 2011: Well I'm not suprised he doesn't trust you but we all make mistakes. The best way to try and get his trust back is to be 100% open with him about absolutely everything for a while. Whether it's who you're talking to, or where you're going. Show him ... (read in full...)
How do I date this cute guy, I really like?
Q. Hey, So I obviously have a problem. There is this guy. He is so sweet,caring, and majorly cute. I'm not positive but I think that he might like me. But I don't want to feel stupid and ask him and it turns out that he doesn't like me... What should I ...
A. 21 November 2010: Try getting to know him as a friend first, see what you have in common etc. If you get on really well, you could invite him to see some movie/ band you both like, and if he takes it as a date, so be it! And if he doesn't, you don't lose any face cos ... (read in full...)
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