Need help dealing with heavy periods
Q. Hey I'm 13 and I have really heavy periods which are usually accompanied by horrible cramps. My cycle lasts for 3-4 days; in a day I manage to get through 4 pads!? Is this normal? I don't wear tampons because they seem really unfomortable. Like when ...
A. 29 August 2014: Hopefully, as you are so young, this will settle down as you get older. As you still have all those hormones raging, periods can be a nightmare. Birth control pills can help lessen symptoms but do you really want all those hormones in your body at ... (read in full...)
I am still embaressed by my actions of two years ago.
Q. I'm normally pretty good and forgetting and getting over embarrassing moments. I normally don't really care and laugh it off but for some reason this is different..probably because this is the most embarrassing thing that has happened (or at the ...
A. 29 August 2014: You are not the first, and certainly won't be the last person to make a complete twat of yourself when being drunk. What happened you at your 18th happens me most weekends! Lol. He wasn't that good of a friend or he would have just laughed at ... (read in full...)
Where to meet new friends?
Q. Hi Okay so I am looking to meet new friends around my age group which is early 20s, has anyone got any suggestions of where I could go? I am really shy also which doesnt help! I am from the UK s preferably UK ideas. Many thanks ...
A. 16 August 2014: There are lots of things you can do to make new friends. You could join a gym, or an organisation that you are interested in, this will give you a chance to meet people with similar intrests to you, and you are more likely to make friends you have ... (read in full...)
Our religious views arent the same. Do I end things now?
Q. Hi guys, I'm hoping that someone can help me make sense and see things from an outside of the box perspective. I don't really have anyone to discuss these issues with an feel so alone trying to find a solution. Here goes.. I met this guy onlin...
A. 8 August 2014: Well my husband doesn't believe in the same religion as me. I am a Spiritualist, and he doesn't believe in life after death. It doesn't matter who you fall in love with, everyone is entitled to their own beliefs.
He shouldn't care that you beli... (read in full...)
Two different accusations of him "trying it on"
Q. My boyfriend is trying to drum up business for himself through facebook and he adds a lot of people that he knows (even if only just a little bit). Last night he added his friends girlfriend. He then got a text to say: why are you adding so-and-s...
A. 7 August 2014: Perhaps, if under the influence of alcohol, he may have got flirtier than he realised with his mate's girl, but if he's a decent guy I can't see him going as far as "trying it on " with her. Why would he intentionally risk a friendship and a ... (read in full...)
I love her, but she cheated?
Q. My girlfriend and I have been dating for 6 months and had a casual romantic relationship for several months before that. All in all we have been involved for about a year. Before we became officially a couple, there was a guy that constantly flirted ...
A. 6 August 2014: In my book, a hand-job and showing off her tits is cheating. She shouldn't have even been in bed with another bloke!!!
If the guy always flirted with her, she is bound to have known what going back to his house would lead to.
You'll not fo... (read in full...)
I'm worrying about my bf's possible behavior while on his vacation with single friends. Justified thoughts or not?
Q. Hello dear Uncles and Aunts, Thanks in advance for reading my story. I'm a little bit (perhaps a lot) insecure about the most stupid things ever and it's driving me crazy. is the next thing I'm going to tell you, justified on my part or....
A. 6 August 2014: Im guessing he's going to Shagaluf???(I worked there for 6 months) Lol You are just being a good g/f worrying about him, with the unlimited cheap booze and drugs, but this is all part of the experience. He is a grown lad and if he can't handle his... (read in full...)
Phone calls at 4am and her phone never leaves her side. Is she cheating?
Q. I just wanna get some opinions on if others think my girl could be cheating. We've been together about a year but before me she'd had a string of short term relationships. Things have been good but the last couple of months it's been up and down. A ...
A. 6 August 2014: I hate to be blunt, but yeah, it does sound really, really suspiscious. Why on earth would he be ringing her at that time. She is most certainly hiding something on that phone, her sneaky behaviour confirms this. Why would she act like this if she h... (read in full...)
I have a crush on my friend and she will never love me!
Q. I have a crush on this girl who is my friend and it is killing me. I love Sam so much and she found out and hated me 4 it. She was awful tome 4 weeks. I had had a crush on her 4 at least 3 months befor she found out an it was so painful. ...
A. 6 August 2014: You are rather young, and it's not uncommon to develop feelings for friends's at your age.
However, when they don't feel the same, or it makes them uncomfortable, it can hurt like hell. The fact that she thinks you could just turn your feelings... (read in full...)
How do I ask him to video chat without pressuring him too much or sounding needy?
Q. I have a friend that I like. I think he likes me back. He does and says stuff that is very endearing but doesn't really flirt. I have not met him but we have talked for eight years. He has given me his phone number which is great but I want to see ...
A. 5 August 2014: If you have been talking for so long and you really like him, just casually suggest video chatting and see if he's up for it. If he makes excuses not to, see if there is a valid reason why, such as he hasn't got a webcam, or it is broken? Or, he ... (read in full...)
Why do men prefer it shaved?
Q. My question might sound simple but why do so many men seem to like shaved vulva as opposed to a natural hairy one ? I found that the man I am with says he finds it much sexier and several men have said this before . I prefer to go natural as I get ...
A. 5 August 2014: Just do whatever you feel comfortable with.
I guess they just like it bare because it's the stereo-type porn star way.
If, however, you would like to try a way to have it the way he wants, then my advice is to avoid shaving. Waxing is the way f... (read in full...)
Are these signs my girlfriend is cheating?
Q. I really need outside insight on my relationship. All advice is appreciated. I'm a lesbian in a relationship with another woman. We just rekindled in June after not being together for a year. We had dated 3 years before I left in 2013. Anyways my ...
A. 5 August 2014: Heya, It honestly sounds to me like she's just become good friends with this woman. She can still form close friendships with other females, can't she? I get where you are coming from about your gf banging on about this other girl, but surely... (read in full...)
Why do I feel guilty even though I didn't cheat?
Q. I am married to a lovely man who I love dearly. I would never intentionally hurt him. Anyway, last week I was at a party at my friends house. No one knew each other, and there was a bit of an awkward silence. I noticed the guy sitting next to ...
A. 5 August 2014: I was alone at the party because my wedding vows said to be faithful to my husband, but I never vowed I couldn't go to parties with my friend's or drink without him.
You guys have been great, I feel much better now, and I'm gonna be much more car... (read in full...)
Why do I feel guilty even though I didn't cheat?
Q. I am married to a lovely man who I love dearly. I would never intentionally hurt him. Anyway, last week I was at a party at my friends house. No one knew each other, and there was a bit of an awkward silence. I noticed the guy sitting next to ...
A. 5 August 2014: Thanks very much guys, I feel a lot better now:)... (read in full...)
It's like I can't live without her texting me! Why am I feeling this way?
Q. my best and are together for an year now. we dont live in same city so only had met like 2 times and mostly chat over the phone. it is really great and she made clear from the first day that she only likes me as a friend and doesnt want any ...
A. 5 August 2014: It may be that you are just feeling a bit insecure that she's moved on with her life and you haven't just yet. Being unemployed and being at home is very difficult, especially when you're friends are doing well. But her moving on with her life do... (read in full...)
I worked for a business for one month and then I quit. How can I get the wages I am owed for that one month I worked there?
Q. I worked for a fashion retailer for only a month. It was not the most organized or functional place to be. I ended up quitting after working there part time for a month, and want to know if I can still get paid even though I was there for a short ...
A. 5 August 2014: I'm not sure what the legal regulations and rules are in the US, but where I live, you would definitely legally be entitled to your wages for the work you did complete. I once quit a job after just one day, and still was paid for it!
You could ph... (read in full...)
The feelings of anger and resentment are starting to creep in after my break-up. I don't want to feel this way, please help me...
Q. I'm going through a breakup with my ex. We split up less than a week ago. At first, I harbored no anger or resentment. In fact, I felt very at peace in my heart about it. I was hurt and sad, but I understood and felt okay and calm. I felt thi...
A. 5 August 2014: What you are feeling is perfectly natural:) We all ask ourselves these questions after a break up, and it's because no matter what the cirumstances, its always a bruise to the ego when someone breaks it off with you. I think when you feel your... (read in full...)
What's the deal with my B/f and his co-worker? And how do I rekindle the communication between us?
Q. Hi Everyone, I need some advice. Recently, I went to visit my boyfriend at work, and one of this co-workers made it obvious that she likes him. I became frustrated with her giggling and cut my visit short. After I left his job our communication ...
A. 5 August 2014: If I were you, I'd visit some more, and see if her behaviour really isn't just a one off. If she's still as obvious around him, and you know its definitely not your imagination, then you need to confront him.
It sounds like this job was the glue... (read in full...)
It's like he's given up on the relationship
Q. Where do I even begin.. My boyfriend and I used to be so happy together. We'd go out a lot, we'd have fun, we would do all sorts of things. And then one day, it just stopped all together. I feel like he's bored with me. Like I'm a bother to him mo...
A. 5 August 2014: Part of growing up is realising people change over time, and so will you. Some people grow more mature, while others will grow cocky and arrogant. It may be that the guy you fell in love with isn't there any more. If this is the case, as hard as it ... (read in full...)
I think my girlfriend was flirting with my best friend!
Q. Well I'm a 20 year old male and I had a bit of a shock last night. I've been going out with my girlfriend for about 2 years now and we're both very happy together. However last night I had a bit of a shock. We went on holiday with her friend and my ...
A. 4 August 2014: I would'nt read too much in to it! When you confronted her, the fact that she didn't deny flirting with him shows that she probably really WAS doing it to get your attention. If she was flirting with him because she fancied him, she probably... (read in full...)
His porn preference is for larger women, I am slim, should I worry?
Q. My boyfriend is into big girls who are pretty, but I am slim - he does love me and find me sexy but it makes me insecure. I know he is into lots of types of girls, but his porn preference is BBW. Do I need to worry? He wants to marry me and buy a ...
A. 4 August 2014: Hi hun! I've had a similar issue myself! I am a slim size 2 and, when I was looking on FB at my boyfriends exes (we've all done it!) lol they all had one thing in common: They were all huge! They were still beautiful in their own way (not insulting ... (read in full...)
Haven't conceived after 18 months of trying ...
Q. Hi guys, I'm feeling really low today and I just need to get this out. I'm 31 (and a half) and my husband and I have been trying to conceive for about 18 months. It took a long time before he felt ready for a family and then if only we'd known ...
A. 4 August 2014: I am in a similar situation myself. The first thing I will tell you is not to give up hope. I know lots of couples who have managed to concieve after YEARS of trying, some with help some without. I guess some people just have to wait that bit ... (read in full...)
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