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30 October 2010: I have tried to keep my relationship problems away from this site as I do not want my advice to be assosiated to my own questions. However I have now learned an important lesson that I want to share with the rest of you, in the hopes that you will ...
What I've learned from my family.
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How one person changed my life
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8 June 2010: I've been an aunt on this site now for quite a while, at first I started as an anonymous, until I finally took the step to make an account and dare to be identified somewhat. As I've gotten to know a few people on here, albeit still strangers ...
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My girlfriend is pregnant, and her parents refuse to let us see each other! Can they do this?
Q. I could really use some advice on my current situation with my girl friend. My girlfriend and I have been dating for a year and half and we get along great. Her parents liked me for the most part. Her dad and I had a few issues with her being a ...
A. 19 June 2012: Until she is 18, well, sorry, but her parents decide over her legally. They can't force her to put her child to adoption though. But they can make her if she's not strong enough/willing to face the consequences, they might after all kick her out of ... (read in full...)
With a mobile is there a chance that your number may be set to private without you realising?
Q. I don't know whether people would know the answer to this one or not, but with a mobile is there a chance that your number may be set to private without you realising? Because this number has called me a few times and i reckon it's the guy who i ...
A. 19 June 2012: Im fairly certain you would know. You'd either have to get someone to set you up with a hidden number, or you'd have to enter all sorts of settings (given that your phone even has such an option). It's not something that happens if you accidentally ... (read in full...)
Ex and her family are acting wierd! Why me? Why, must I endure the confusion?
Q. Hi. I'm very confused in the behavior of my ex girlfriend and her family, in general. I stopped talking to her/being her friend, because I feel she isn't worth keeping in my life, any more. And, I also needed to do something for ME, so I could ...
A. 19 June 2012: Okay so she hurt you.. That still doesn't explain why you think her family is going to gang up on you and beat you. And it doesn't explain why you are so focused on how she treats you now, or why you care, or why you are dedicating your time and ... (read in full...)
I make excuses even to myself about my boyfriend!
Q. Hi, I'm new here and don't really know how this works but I really wish to talk to somebody about a problem I have, I'm so sad about it and I hope that someone on here can help me! :) I am seeing this guy, he's 33 and I'm 21. He said that he as ...
A. 19 June 2012: Making friends can take years. But some people just are not worth keeping in your life! You know? Even if they stick around. I had two boyfriends who up and left me, just changed their mind about whether they wanted to be with me or not. It was ... (read in full...)
Can you be more than in love with someone?
Q. Can you be more than in love with someone? for example"I'm more than in love with him/her?" also what are signs that you are just in lust and think your in love?...
A. 18 June 2012: Oh, and "more" in love doesn't exist. Being in love isn't a definite state, it fluctuates, and some are hit more heavily than others. Yet, loving someone isn't a "higher" state of being in love, loving someone is a different sort of feeling really. ... (read in full...)
Can you be more than in love with someone?
Q. Can you be more than in love with someone? for example"I'm more than in love with him/her?" also what are signs that you are just in lust and think your in love?...
A. 18 June 2012: "in lust" is a fad. Not a real state of mind or anything. It just means you are attracted to someone, that's all! Nothing special of fancy, you just think they are hot. If you're in love with someone then you miss them, your heart skips a beat when ... (read in full...)
Ex and her family are acting wierd! Why me? Why, must I endure the confusion?
Q. Hi. I'm very confused in the behavior of my ex girlfriend and her family, in general. I stopped talking to her/being her friend, because I feel she isn't worth keeping in my life, any more. And, I also needed to do something for ME, so I could ...
A. 18 June 2012: You sound like you want drama. Being dumped by text isn't dramatic. Maybe you need to have some real drama happen before you understand that this is not dramatic at all. An sms is the least dramatic way anyone can get dumped. A face to face lash out ... (read in full...)
I make excuses even to myself about my boyfriend!
Q. Hi, I'm new here and don't really know how this works but I really wish to talk to somebody about a problem I have, I'm so sad about it and I hope that someone on here can help me! :) I am seeing this guy, he's 33 and I'm 21. He said that he as ...
A. 18 June 2012: "And something that hurt me was when I bought him a cellphone for his birthday he said that he didn't need one right to my face. And after a few days his phone died on him and he started using the one I bought and then he started complaining about ... (read in full...)
Should I tell my friend what I really think about her wedding dress?
Q. A good friend of mine is marrying my cousin...I have known her for 29 years and I am in the wedding party which is taking place in Cuba. I recently just returned from a destination wedding myself so I have a good idea as to what works and what d...
A. 18 June 2012: No need to get personal. Bondgirl has a right to her opinion as well, and I don't think there is a need to take offense from what she said. You do come off as a know it all claiming you know what is best for your friend (and better than she knows ... (read in full...)
Have you ever squirted or made anyone squirt?
Q. Hi, I was just wondering if any of you out there have, 'squirted' during sex, or made anyone squirt? ive never had an orgasam, with anyone ive ever been with. I do enjoy sex and do have a good sexlife with my boyfriend, but ive dont know anyone who ...
A. 18 June 2012: A boyfriend I once had claimed he made me squirt, in front of his friend. Just to show off. But nah, he's never made me squirt. No one has. I'm not a squirter. Not all women are. Some do it, some don't.
Squirting and having an orgasm aren't c... (read in full...)
Should I tell my friend what I really think about her wedding dress?
Q. A good friend of mine is marrying my cousin...I have known her for 29 years and I am in the wedding party which is taking place in Cuba. I recently just returned from a destination wedding myself so I have a good idea as to what works and what d...
A. 18 June 2012: Sounds like you already did your duty as a close friend and told her the other dress was better, yet she still wants this one. You could try to press the matter though and ask her if she doesn't want to go shopping again as there's still a lot of ... (read in full...)
I'm torn between my head- boyfriend, job, house and my heart- family,friends and moments I will never have again..and I don't know what to choose
Q. Hi, Im 20 been living with my boyfriend for 3 years now.i moved from a small town in scotland to a big city to be with him. Everythings been great we get on well and been through so much together. We both have okay jobs here and an okay house. ...
A. 18 June 2012: Statistically speaking, you're going to move back. Or you're going to move to a similar area as that one you grew up in. Once born on the quieter country side... well, it'll never leave you. It is rare really that those who move away don't want to ... (read in full...)
I've scared myself to death about this upcoming surgery!
Q. Hi all agony aunts, this isn't a relationship question, but I really need help. I'm really stressed out. :( I'm moving 6 hours away to college this upcoming Saturday. Yesterday, I went to the eye doctor to get some new contacts, and find out I h...
A. 18 June 2012: This is why I didn't go to medical school. I can't stand the sight of bloody messes and surgeries. It creeps me out just looking at it, and it creeps me out just thinking about it.
Good thing then that when you undergo surgery YOU wont see any ... (read in full...)
Should I tell my friend what I really think about her wedding dress?
Q. A good friend of mine is marrying my cousin...I have known her for 29 years and I am in the wedding party which is taking place in Cuba. I recently just returned from a destination wedding myself so I have a good idea as to what works and what d...
A. 18 June 2012: How good of a friend are you? You have two options: do a quick intervention under four eyes and tell her the truth, that she looked stunning in the first one and that she should consider. But this option is ONLY if you are best of friends and have ... (read in full...)
Ex and her family are acting wierd! Why me? Why, must I endure the confusion?
Q. Hi. I'm very confused in the behavior of my ex girlfriend and her family, in general. I stopped talking to her/being her friend, because I feel she isn't worth keeping in my life, any more. And, I also needed to do something for ME, so I could ...
A. 18 June 2012: Oh get over it. So you're not best friends with your ex, well who is. Is this your first break-up, by chance? Because this is how all exes are towards each other, in general. Has there been a big dramatic scene so far? No? Then what makes you think ... (read in full...)
I'm falling in love with someone who has hepatitis C. He's afraid to move forward with the relationship, but I'm not. What do I do?
Q. Hello.. i've recently met a guy who i really really like. We've been on a few dates in a very short time and we talked a lot. I even got (maybe stupid) the feeling that he's "the one", which is kind a big deal for me, because i'm very very picky ...
A. 18 June 2012: Eh, he recently got it. That's why he's in a fuzz about it. I was with a man who had Hepatitis B (chronic) and he told me on the first date even. But it was no biggie I felt, I went and got my vaccination and then we just used condoms. Sure, if he ... (read in full...)
Can feelings of love develop or should they already have?
Q. Hi, I've been with my boyfriend for 6 months and see him every couple of weeks due to distance and we've been on holidays together. We had a talk about feelings and he told me he has feelings for me but doesn't love me but wants us to stay toget...
A. 18 June 2012: Love can take it's time. I don't think 6 months is a very long time period, and especially if you are his first girlfriend it can take longer for him to get used to the new feelings and identify them. It's not easy to recognize love if you haven't ... (read in full...)
Nearing 25. Zero experience. Completely lost. Need all the advice I can get. Long rant.
Q. Okay, this is going to get a bit long but I have a lot to say and a whole lot more on my mind - been accumulating it for years now afterall ^^”… I would really appreciate anyone who reads this and offers up any similar experiences, advice, or any ...
A. 18 June 2012: You're welcome! It would be interesting to hear how things go.
*we call them threads... (read in full...)
I felt so warm dancing with him. Does he like me?
Q. I went to a wedding yesterday and this attractive boy came up to me and asked to to dance. I said yes and we danced...but as we danced he looked deep into my eyes and smiled the whole time. He kissed my hand afterwards and we hung out. Does he like ...
A. 17 June 2012: He doesn't like you. He doesn't know you. But I guess he was attracted to you at some level, since he asked you to dance. And he welcomed you, that is why it felt warm, or that's my guess anyway. Could be he had a fever and it was his body ... (read in full...)
How can I make him see that there is a difference between an accident and an intentional reaction?
Q. I accidently kicked my husband in the groin (he was standing behind me) as I was explaining to my older son that it was unacceptable to constantly thump my younger son. My husband suddenly ran and lunged at me with his thick MBT shoes on and kick...
A. 16 June 2012: Yes, he is a wife beater. No question about it, he intentionally hit his wife. The question is: is she innocent and is it possible to accidentally raise your foot backward to he height of a persons groin without realizing you did it? If she was ... (read in full...)
Is there a way for me to repair any damage that I may have done by sleeping with him too soon?
Q. I met a man on an Internet site. We talked that way for about a week before speaking on the phone. We got along great and after speaking several times a day on the phone decided to meet. A few days after our first date, I made the mistake of ...
A. 16 June 2012: Honestly, I think that if he was into you then he's still going to be into you. I mean you weren't the only one who had sex "too soon", he did as well. If he's serious about you then then is serious about you regardless of you and him having sex. ... (read in full...)
My husband of one year shows me no love or affection is it time to leave?
Q. my husband have been married for almost a year, our anniversary is in 2 months, and i think we are on the verge of a divorce. He shows me no love or affection, but only tells me he loves me when i bring it up. i cant even remember the last time he ...
A. 16 June 2012: Talk to him and tell him that if he refuses to talk to you he leaves you no other choice but to separate.
Then if he doesn't want to talk to you he has already told you "I don't care, divorce me". If he refuses to talk.. then yes, leaving him coul... (read in full...)
He doesn't think of me when he mastubates!
Q. Hi all, I have a problem some people may find strange, my boyfriend said he thinks about me when he masturbates but only sometimes, he then went onto say he thinks about me when sitting at his desk or playing a quiz and to him that's more important ...
A. 15 June 2012: It's not strange at all. It's normal. It is actually quite seldom that I hear about anyone who only thinks of their partner when they masturbate. I seldom hear about someone who thinks about their partner AT ALL when they masturbate, it's typical ... (read in full...)
My b/f has been posting naked pics of himself and interacting with other gay men but I cant even tell him I know this because I snooped into his phone and discovered this!
Q. Hello everyone, I am stuck in a desperate situation with my current boyfriend. We have been together for 3 years on and off but we have been stable for the last 8months and there months ago he moved in with me. we have always have issues with me ...
A. 15 June 2012: "We have always had issues" you said.. As if it is also HIS fault that YOU don't respect his privacy, or him for that matter. Oh no, that's entirely on you. You snoop = you are the one with the problem. Your relationship doesn't have this problem, ... (read in full...)
How can I make him see that there is a difference between an accident and an intentional reaction?
Q. I accidently kicked my husband in the groin (he was standing behind me) as I was explaining to my older son that it was unacceptable to constantly thump my younger son. My husband suddenly ran and lunged at me with his thick MBT shoes on and kick...
A. 15 June 2012: "All he says is move on. How can I make him see that there is a difference between an accident and an intentional reaction?"
You divorce him, that's how. Your husband is now a wife-beater and he sounds very aggressive in general. He's not stupid, ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend is too clingy!! Help!!
Q. My boyfriend and I have been dating for two months or so now. During the school year he was fine until summer break was right around the corner. He became really clingy texting all the time and gushing about how much he loved and cared about me. Its ...
A. 14 June 2012: You should be direct with him. Guys are not good at taking subtle hints. You need to be direct and tell him how it is, take charge and be on control. Be blunt about it! ... (read in full...)
Have you ever said "I'll love you forever" and then changed your mind?
Q. Hi this is a question going out to all you ladies out there Just wondering if you have ever said ' i love you forever' or ' i want to be with you forever ' or ' i will always be your girl ' to someone you have been in love with? andddd wait for ...
A. 14 June 2012: Yes. I was engaged to a man once. He proposed to me. He got me the ring and everything. He asked his best friend to be his best man.
I thought I was to be with him forever. When I said yes to marrying him, I sort of in my heart said yes to be wi... (read in full...)
What makes girls like bastards?
Q. im a smart and honest guy about to be a sophmore:) But it seems like girls go after the asshole dumbass guys? im an average looking guy i wear collared shirts everyday because i like to have class. what makes girls like bastards?...
A. 14 June 2012: You know what? I'm an educated and stunning woman who has the body of a glamour model. Yet, it seems guys go for the fake boobs, fake blonde, fake tan girls! What makes guys want total fakes?
Right back at ya.
Truth is: they don't. Neither b... (read in full...)
Is my fear that he might be considering cheating going to unsettle our relationship?
Q. My bf signed up to dating site and now i am questioning every thing he has done in the past. I have always been insecure but he has stuck with me and been together three years, now have a beautiful baby girl together. We have been through so m...
A. 14 June 2012: Ask your doctor about post partum depression too. ... (read in full...)
I've never had an orgasm with my boyfriend and I cant keep faking it forever!
Q. Hey there ladies and gents. I am completely in love with my boyfriend. I'm 18, he's now 20. We've been dating for almost 2 years now. Physically he is very handsome, tall, and somewhat fit. Emotionally he is super sweet, a little sarcastic, loving, ...
A. 14 June 2012: "I don't necessarily fake orgasm, I rather embellish a little bit with moaning and what not (cuz a friend told me not to just be silent... to kinda get into the right mindset). So to me that's still somewhat faking, yeah?"
Moaning is a turn on ... (read in full...)
Would you find a 42 year-old Virgin Dateable?
Q. Now to be honest, I have average looks and am average size being a tall, typical bodied white male. The issues exist that I suffer from social anxiety and other disorders, limiting my social skills, which might not attract women right off the ba...
A. 14 June 2012: If you're not a person who naturally shows affection then you'll be better off with a woman who is also non-affectionate. Find a woman who is like you, that is.
Then again, until you've been in a relationship you DON'T know how affectio... (read in full...)
I'm 14, pregnant, my B/f has left me, my parents are druggies and I live in a foster home. What do I do now?
Q. Hi I'm fourteen. Me and my boyfriend have been trying to get pregnant for a while now! i finally got pregnant. But now my boyfriend (hes 16)left me. I really don't know what to do now. we were going to move in together and start a life. How should i ...
A. 14 June 2012: Think outside of yourself and outside of what you want. Think about what is the right thing to do. Think about what you can do, and what you can not do. Think about what your best options are, and what the best options for your unborn baby are. It's ... (read in full...)
A guy told me the other day . If I really love him, I must reduce my weight ? Why would someone say like that ??
Q. A guy told me the other day . If i really love him, I must reduce my weight ? Why would someone say like that ??...
A. 14 June 2012: It's called emotional blackmailing. It is what a person does to get control over another and use them to their pleasing, without showing care for that other person. ... (read in full...)
Nearing 25. Zero experience. Completely lost. Need all the advice I can get. Long rant.
Q. Okay, this is going to get a bit long but I have a lot to say and a whole lot more on my mind - been accumulating it for years now afterall ^^”… I would really appreciate anyone who reads this and offers up any similar experiences, advice, or any ...
A. 13 June 2012: PS. I perfectly matched the length of your post too, now that's just awesome.
... (read in full...)
Nearing 25. Zero experience. Completely lost. Need all the advice I can get. Long rant.
Q. Okay, this is going to get a bit long but I have a lot to say and a whole lot more on my mind - been accumulating it for years now afterall ^^”… I would really appreciate anyone who reads this and offers up any similar experiences, advice, or any ...
A. 13 June 2012: I usually comment while reading through, so I'll copy and paste the first sentence of the section I am commenting on.
"If I had to *try* to briefly summarize myself from a social perspective… Oh boy… " This entire section tells me that you don'... (read in full...)
I can't get her 'number' out of my head!
Q. My girlfriend of about 9 months now just recently revealed her "number" to me not too long ago. She is 22, and has only been having sex for two and a half years. When she first told me, it was 9, and that I was her 10th. Then it got got brought up ...
A. 13 June 2012: I don't think this is your only problem with her. She had casual sex because of her values and morals. Without doubt she's going to have other more liberal sides of her, that also are a result of her values and morals, that are going to go against ... (read in full...)
Is my fear that he might be considering cheating going to unsettle our relationship?
Q. My bf signed up to dating site and now i am questioning every thing he has done in the past. I have always been insecure but he has stuck with me and been together three years, now have a beautiful baby girl together. We have been through so m...
A. 13 June 2012: Yes, one needs to always let the past be the past. That goes for any relationship, regardless of the issue. Either a thing is dealt with and done with, or you need to let it go. You can't keep bringing up the same old same old.
As for the live web... (read in full...)
Is my fear that he might be considering cheating going to unsettle our relationship?
Q. My bf signed up to dating site and now i am questioning every thing he has done in the past. I have always been insecure but he has stuck with me and been together three years, now have a beautiful baby girl together. We have been through so m...
A. 13 June 2012: What happened to you working on yourself and not assuming the worst or over-analyzing? You need to start today. And whatever happened in the past leave it be! Do not dig up the snow that fell last year. If you didn't resolve things a year ago, now ... (read in full...)
Is my fear that he might be considering cheating going to unsettle our relationship?
Q. My bf signed up to dating site and now i am questioning every thing he has done in the past. I have always been insecure but he has stuck with me and been together three years, now have a beautiful baby girl together. We have been through so m...
A. 12 June 2012: It was over a year ago, right? If so, and no other bite marks have appeared.. then no. I don't think you have a case. But you're actively looking for evidence to "nail" him on this. I mean if you are so sure he is cheating on you then break off the ... (read in full...)
Is there any way to correct the emotional damage I've caused her? I prefer plus size women, usually.
Q. I have met the most wonderful girl on the planet. Smart, funny, intellectual, but most of all she has a wonderful personality. She is even beautiful, which is where my dilemma begins. I am attracted to larger women and, regrettably, have confessed ...
A. 12 June 2012: Yeah I just want to throw this in here as well. A few years ago I was in a relationship with an overweight man. I don't "prefer" overweight men. But I liked him, and we were good together (at first anyway). So even though I can honestly say I prefer ... (read in full...)
I'm stuck at a crossroad- I want to be with my B/f but I'm not sure if I want kids.
Q. My boyfriend of 6 years has just given me an ultimatum. He wants to settle down, get married, buy a house together and have kids in the next few years. For the past year or so, I've been indecisive- I love him with all my heart, he is a wonderfu...
A. 12 June 2012: If you're not ready, and you don't sound ready, and he can't wait... Well, you should let him go then. You could always make a secret pact, say if he doesn't meet someone else and gets married within the next two years, and if you find yourself ... (read in full...)
Is my fear that he might be considering cheating going to unsettle our relationship?
Q. My bf signed up to dating site and now i am questioning every thing he has done in the past. I have always been insecure but he has stuck with me and been together three years, now have a beautiful baby girl together. We have been through so m...
A. 12 June 2012: Oh why do people write this or say that, but even better: why are you trying to pick this to pieces by analyzing every single word and sentence? I doubt he really put that much effort and thought into writing that text, so I doubt there really is ... (read in full...)
I can't get her 'number' out of my head!
Q. My girlfriend of about 9 months now just recently revealed her "number" to me not too long ago. She is 22, and has only been having sex for two and a half years. When she first told me, it was 9, and that I was her 10th. Then it got got brought up ...
A. 12 June 2012: Oh, and.. did you recently learn her "number"? If so then your reaction to this might just need some time. You might figure out ways to live with it if you just give yourself some time.
And for the future.. just don't go there. Don't ask a girls ... (read in full...)
I can't get her 'number' out of my head!
Q. My girlfriend of about 9 months now just recently revealed her "number" to me not too long ago. She is 22, and has only been having sex for two and a half years. When she first told me, it was 9, and that I was her 10th. Then it got got brought up ...
A. 12 June 2012: Well... Things aren't straight forward in most of life's situations. On the one hand.. there's nothing to "forgive", and I was following your story up until that point, but that's just provocative and uncalled for. So I hope you can see why ... (read in full...)
Is my fear that he might be considering cheating going to unsettle our relationship?
Q. My bf signed up to dating site and now i am questioning every thing he has done in the past. I have always been insecure but he has stuck with me and been together three years, now have a beautiful baby girl together. We have been through so m...
A. 12 June 2012: "It upset me he text her this as he had obviously wanted to go and meet her"
Uhm, he didn't want to meet HER, he wanted to give her a ride so he could earn his tax-free money on playing cab driver.
Look, it'd be more of a concern if he ga... (read in full...)
Is there any way to correct the emotional damage I've caused her? I prefer plus size women, usually.
Q. I have met the most wonderful girl on the planet. Smart, funny, intellectual, but most of all she has a wonderful personality. She is even beautiful, which is where my dilemma begins. I am attracted to larger women and, regrettably, have confessed ...
A. 12 June 2012: I don't think you've caused the damage really. She obviously didn't need much to start worrying, and I'm thinking that you only gave her a solid excuse for her to start her panicking. I think she'd have found something else to panic over eventually, ... (read in full...)
Is my fear that he might be considering cheating going to unsettle our relationship?
Q. My bf signed up to dating site and now i am questioning every thing he has done in the past. I have always been insecure but he has stuck with me and been together three years, now have a beautiful baby girl together. We have been through so m...
A. 12 June 2012: "As he hasnt emailed anyone and didnt pay for anything just put his details in do you think i should let it go this time and realise my paranoia pushed him to register? "
Yes. I also think you should consider working on yourself and figure o... (read in full...)
Would you find a 42 year-old Virgin Dateable?
Q. Now to be honest, I have average looks and am average size being a tall, typical bodied white male. The issues exist that I suffer from social anxiety and other disorders, limiting my social skills, which might not attract women right off the ba...
A. 12 June 2012: We are suggesting you don't tell the women you date that you are a virgin, not because it is BAD that you are a virgin. But because talking about your sex-life, whether you have one or not, is NOT first date material. You shouldn't discuss sex at ... (read in full...)
I've never had an orgasm with my boyfriend and I cant keep faking it forever!
Q. Hey there ladies and gents. I am completely in love with my boyfriend. I'm 18, he's now 20. We've been dating for almost 2 years now. Physically he is very handsome, tall, and somewhat fit. Emotionally he is super sweet, a little sarcastic, loving, ...
A. 12 June 2012: .. Why are you faking it? Sheez, tons of women have problems reaching an orgasm, it isn't exactly a big secret. Quit lying to your boyfriend, I get that you do it out of love for him or whatnot, but lying is still lying.
Get a real orgasm w... (read in full...)
Would you find a 42 year-old Virgin Dateable?
Q. Now to be honest, I have average looks and am average size being a tall, typical bodied white male. The issues exist that I suffer from social anxiety and other disorders, limiting my social skills, which might not attract women right off the ba...
A. 20 May 2012: Why do you think a woman you date will have her first date with you in bed? By the time you and her get intimate you will, hopefully, already have gone beyond the clumsy and insecure levels and gotten to know each other, be comfortable with each ... (read in full...)
Would you find a 42 year-old Virgin Dateable?
Q. Now to be honest, I have average looks and am average size being a tall, typical bodied white male. The issues exist that I suffer from social anxiety and other disorders, limiting my social skills, which might not attract women right off the ba...
A. 19 May 2012: "Are there any lines anyone might suggest that I approach her with? "
Be honest about your situation, but ease into it. I think that would be the best policy. The woman you date/are interested in doesn't need to hear your life story on the firs... (read in full...)
Would you find a 42 year-old Virgin Dateable?
Q. Now to be honest, I have average looks and am average size being a tall, typical bodied white male. The issues exist that I suffer from social anxiety and other disorders, limiting my social skills, which might not attract women right off the ba...
A. 13 May 2012: At 26 I don't think I'd find a 42-year old man date-able for me, regardless of anything else. So I am probably not the best one to answer this. However, say you were 25-32 instead and my answer would be: sure. Based on the information you gave me I ... (read in full...)
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