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What I've learned from my family.
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How one person changed my life
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8 June 2010: I've been an aunt on this site now for quite a while, at first I started as an anonymous, until I finally took the step to make an account and dare to be identified somewhat. As I've gotten to know a few people on here, albeit still strangers ...
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In a relationship and I don't want to cheat but I want to fool around with other people! Do other people feel this too?
Q. Hey everyone. So I love my boyfriend, we have been dating for almost 2 years and I'm pretty sure I'm gonna marry him when we get out of college and stuff (I'm 18, he's 20). But have any of you ever wanted to just fool around with other people? Just ...
A. 11 June 2012: Well.. personally I never had this problem. I don't find myself tempted by other men when I am in a relationship, because it's not an alternative in my mind to be tempted by them.
If I have opened up for that alternative though, it'd be differen... (read in full...)
Hungarian girl wanted me to 'sign documents' for her, I said no and she hasn't spoken to me since!
Q. I went for a drink with a Hungarian girl a couple of weeks ago, we went out, had a good time, I walked her back to her flat. We chat on Facebook Chat, everything was going well, until yesterday, when I got a Chat message asking if I could sign doc...
A. 3 May 2012: Her being a real person doesn't really make her incapable of lying. She is a stranger to you, no matter of physically real she is or how real her name is etc. I don't understand why you think her having a facebook profile somehow makes her legit. ... (read in full...)
Hungarian girl wanted me to 'sign documents' for her, I said no and she hasn't spoken to me since!
Q. I went for a drink with a Hungarian girl a couple of weeks ago, we went out, had a good time, I walked her back to her flat. We chat on Facebook Chat, everything was going well, until yesterday, when I got a Chat message asking if I could sign doc...
A. 3 May 2012: Are you having sex with her since you call her "my girl"? Are you in a relationship? Just because she hasn't asked you again doesn't take away the fact that she did ask you. It is still suspicious. And I wonder why you haven't even talked to her ... (read in full...)
Hungarian girl wanted me to 'sign documents' for her, I said no and she hasn't spoken to me since!
Q. I went for a drink with a Hungarian girl a couple of weeks ago, we went out, had a good time, I walked her back to her flat. We chat on Facebook Chat, everything was going well, until yesterday, when I got a Chat message asking if I could sign doc...
A. 25 April 2012: You don't know what the documents were about, they don't have to be related to citizenship (in which case what sorts of documents do you think YOU signing would mean she gets to stay in the country? It takes more than a piece of paper for that sort ... (read in full...)
Would you date someone who has done porn?
Q. I am going to do a photo shoot in a few weeks...a photo shoot for a pornographic magazine and website. My closest friends, the only ones who know about it, have said that it may affect future relationships that I have. But is that really true? ...
A. 25 April 2012: Ha, I get all my partners tested, whether they did porn or not. I learned my lesson when I trusted a boyfriend I once had. We were having sex without a condom (I was on the pill) and I thought he'd been tested! But as he revealed he had NEVER been ... (read in full...)
Would you date someone who has done porn?
Q. I am going to do a photo shoot in a few weeks...a photo shoot for a pornographic magazine and website. My closest friends, the only ones who know about it, have said that it may affect future relationships that I have. But is that really true? ...
A. 24 April 2012: Regarding your follow-up (didn't see it at first):
I don't think it's about the promiscuity. The porn thing is a different matter. There is a difference between keeping sex private and going public with it. You can have loads of sex, but that doe... (read in full...)
Would you date someone who has done porn?
Q. I am going to do a photo shoot in a few weeks...a photo shoot for a pornographic magazine and website. My closest friends, the only ones who know about it, have said that it may affect future relationships that I have. But is that really true? ...
A. 24 April 2012: I wouldn't mind. Im bisexual, btw, but I wouldn't mind no matter if you were a boy or girl. But I'm liberal that way. More conservative people will have a problem with you doing porn, so this is a question about what sort of man you're looking for. ... (read in full...)
Had web cam sex with a girl I've just met.....is this wrong?
Q. I just met this girl (last few days). Last night we were on skype video chatting, and one thing led to another and we ended up having mutual masturbation, cam sex or whatever you want to call it. Now I kinda regret doing it, I have never had s...
A. 24 April 2012: No it's not wrong. You're not going to get sued for it, and as long as the girl was of age then there's nothing to worry about.
If you regret doing it just don't do it again. And try not to let this get to you or bother you, we all make mistakes... (read in full...)
Hungarian girl wanted me to 'sign documents' for her, I said no and she hasn't spoken to me since!
Q. I went for a drink with a Hungarian girl a couple of weeks ago, we went out, had a good time, I walked her back to her flat. We chat on Facebook Chat, everything was going well, until yesterday, when I got a Chat message asking if I could sign doc...
A. 24 April 2012: Random girl you don't know wants you to sign documents and then suggests you have sex with her? Sounds like a paid service if you ask me.
If she hasn't spoken to you again then just leave it be. Who knows what's up with that, but no matter w... (read in full...)
How did you meet your special someone?
Q. How did you guys/girls here meet your special someone, if you currently have someone, or did in the past? I've been attracted to many girls in my life and obsessed over a few, but never really pursued anyone. All of the ...
A. 23 April 2012: Well, before you know it a woman will pursue you so you wont have to face the dread. You might have to wait a while for that to happen though, unless it's already happening and you're just too inexperienced with flirting to pick up on it. My bet is: ... (read in full...)
My friend has become the perfect girl and I'm jealous!
Q. Dear aunts and uncles. So, this has to do with my best mate and my feelings of jealously over her. I'm 31 single and live in London. I met my mate (who's 29) 10 years ago at uni and we have been the best friends ever since, but recently it's al...
A. 23 April 2012: You're just jealous now because the roles have changed and you don't like it. You're not used to it, and as such you haven't learned how to deal with it. But you will learn, in time. You'll learn how to handle this and allow other people happiness ... (read in full...)
Could I just be turned off from my wife?
Q. Hello there. I need some opinion about my really disturbing problem. I have a ED , a few years ago. I went to the doctors, checked everything ,more than once, and Im perfectly healthy. So it does not make sense. But I never think of sex, not with ...
A. 23 April 2012: If you never think of sex then your sex drive just isn't there any longer, and it has nothing to do with your wife.
However, you need to understand the effects this has on your wife. A marriage needs intimacy and care, both physical and mental c... (read in full...)
It hurts when I have sex!
Q. I am 22 years old and it really really hurts every time I have sex with my boyfriend. We've been together for 2.5 years and its beginning to affect our relationship because he hates hurting me. Its gradually started hurting more and more since w...
A. 23 April 2012: Unless there is a medical reason for why it hurts then my bet is that you aren't fully lubricated. You need to use more lubricant, or get even wetter, and have lubricant on his penis as well, and use loads of it. Lubricants can dry up pretty fast, ... (read in full...)
What are the top reasons for cheating?
Q. hello, thanks for ansewering me... i appreciate all advices. one question. Why girls/woman cheat? What are top reasons? Thank you....
A. 23 April 2012: Lack of integrity. ... (read in full...)
What ways can a girl lie about her virginity?
Q. Hello to all, I'm new member in this site and i think it's very helpful and useful. I got a question, in which ways can a girl lie to her bf for her virginity.( i'm male, just asking 'cuz i'm curious)Thank you....
A. 23 April 2012: Same way boys can lie about their virginity. Either they lie, or they are honest. Virginity isn't something you can prove either way. Yes some girls bleed their first time, but many don't bleed. Yes for some women their first time hurts, but ... (read in full...)
How did you meet your special someone?
Q. How did you guys/girls here meet your special someone, if you currently have someone, or did in the past? I've been attracted to many girls in my life and obsessed over a few, but never really pursued anyone. All of the ...
A. 23 April 2012: Lets see...
Nr. 1 I met at work.
Nr. 2 I met at a party (public, not private)
Nr. 3 I met online and was long distance
Nr. 4 I met in high school and we've remained friends up through the years and then got together.
Other flings, or shor... (read in full...)
Why do women only want to do crazy things sexually with random people?
Q. When i first met my GF, we weren't serious (or committed) and we had the best sex ever. Since we've gotten serious, and are now in a committed relationship, it seems the erotic, no-holds-barred type of sex has now gone out the window. We've nev...
A. 21 April 2012: Your generalization is ridiculous. Women world wide do NOT feel like doing sexy crazy stuff with strangers only. I imagine most women would need a close and strong relationship before they feel comfortable doing anything sexually! If your theory is ... (read in full...)
Heart Vs. Brain?
Q. Please tell me what should I do. I don’t really know what decision i should take since my heart and brain are battling. I have been dating with this guy for 2years. Then situations got really hard that we constantly fight. I always beg for his ...
A. 21 April 2012: It sounds like you're hanging on to him mainly because you are scared of being without him. And THAT isn't a reason to be with someone. You want to be with him because he is your first everything...? There are still tons of firsts out there for you ... (read in full...)
In a relationship and I don't want to cheat but I want to fool around with other people! Do other people feel this too?
Q. Hey everyone. So I love my boyfriend, we have been dating for almost 2 years and I'm pretty sure I'm gonna marry him when we get out of college and stuff (I'm 18, he's 20). But have any of you ever wanted to just fool around with other people? Just ...
A. 21 April 2012: You'll figure it out. ... (read in full...)
He's stopped going down on me! What can I do?
Q. Hey there! I've been with my fiancé for a year now and we will get married in the Fall. I love him deeply and so does he. One little thing is bothering me though... at the beginning of our relationship he went down on me a lot and then he stopped. ...
A. 20 April 2012: Well, this teaches all of us something about getting engaged before you really know the person. And then, it also teaches you something important about getting married: there are ups and downs and you can't expect someone to stay at a constant. ... (read in full...)
How can you feel more relaxed on a first date?
Q. I get really nervous on a first date and there fore lose my appetite. I feel so nervous that I don't eat a lot. Problem is that guys jump to conclusions about this. To complicate things I had a wisdom tooth cut out of my mouth recently. So it hurts ...
A. 20 April 2012: If they jump to conclusions then that says something about them, doesn't it? Don't let it worry you too much, let them think whatever they want. If they are decent people they'll not assume anything, but ask instead. And there's no shame in ... (read in full...)
We have been dating for over a year but still no sex!
Q. So I'm 24 and have been dating a man that is older than me, he is 40. He is the best guy any girl can have we have a really great connection. We have been dating for a little over a year now but we havent made it "official" we don't believe in ...
A. 20 April 2012: If he hasn't made any moves towards sex with you yet, after a year, then he's either incredibly shy, or he's not interested in sex with you. Perhaps he's impotent. Or perhaps he's very small and embarrassed to be seen naked. Or perhaps he is married ... (read in full...)
In a relationship and I don't want to cheat but I want to fool around with other people! Do other people feel this too?
Q. Hey everyone. So I love my boyfriend, we have been dating for almost 2 years and I'm pretty sure I'm gonna marry him when we get out of college and stuff (I'm 18, he's 20). But have any of you ever wanted to just fool around with other people? Just ...
A. 20 April 2012: It depends.. is this a sudden urge you've just got since you see other people doing it, or because you are in a certain mood lately? Or is this a constant feeling that's been there for the last months and isn't likely to go away?
Wait and see whic... (read in full...)
It seems someone has set up a profile on a dating site pretending to be me! Why would someone do this?
Q. Hey! I had something really odd happen recently, and would like some opinions on it. Basically, I woke up about a week ago to a text from a guy saying he was responding to a message I sent him on a dating site. I was very confused, because I haven't ...
A. 20 April 2012: Why would someone do this? Because they are bored and have nothing better to do. However, impersonating another person is illegal. It's just that people who are bored, and have access to a computer, don't really think too much about that. I suggest ... (read in full...)
My husband doesn't like my breasts and prefers smaller ones!
Q. My husband does not like my breasts. Whilst I am a dd cup he prefers smaller breasts. I am not prepared to undergo surgery however this is really undermining my self confidence with him as I feel self conscious. Knowing that he loves me and marr...
A. 20 April 2012: You need to start by accepting yourself. Whatever your husband thinks does not dictate what you should or should not look like! His preference doesn't matter!! He is not God, he's just a man who loves you. Start by loving yourself and accept that ... (read in full...)
He got another girl pregnant when he and I first started seeing each other
Q. Basically its a long story but I met this guy about 6 months ago now and at first i didnt think anything would happen. But as time passed I gradually fell for him. You could say we've got a "thing" going on. I probably like him much more than he ...
A. 19 April 2012: At your age.. there are lots of better fish in the sea. You are blinded by love for this guy, but take a closer look at him. He's irresponsible, had sex way too young and without precautions, he's not taking responsibility for his actions, he LIES ... (read in full...)
Are we going too fast?
Q. This is going to sound really awkward so bare with me. Basically my best friend has been continually harassed throughout her relationship, having people tell her boyfriend she is cheating etc. One of the guys she was accused of cheating with is...
A. 19 April 2012: I think that when you aren't feeling comfortable with the speed then it IS too fast. People have their own ideas about what is too soon and too fast, and you always have to follow your own instincts. If you already feel that John is making moves ... (read in full...)
Is it fair that my family smoke around me when I'm pregnant?!
Q. Dear cupid aunts im 22. and pregnant. And have moved back.in with my parents because the babys dad left and as i was living.with him in a rented house i now cant afford the rent on a single wage. I love my parents and am grateful for all.they ...
A. 19 April 2012: If you pay rent then you should count this as your home as well. I was under the impression that you moved back home because you couldn't afford to pay rent (and that you werent paying rent at your parents house). As long as you contribute to the ... (read in full...)
I really hate being the first born!
Q. I've always hated my birth order. As the first born your parents always rule you with an iron fist. But with the younger siblings they ALWAYS treat them differently no matter what. As the first you always have to be responsible and cautious. Yet ...
A. 19 April 2012: Statistically, because of the way the first born is raised and always being put responsible for younger siblings, we also are the ones to get better paid jobs, leadership positions etc. We're the first to get it all, and we're often wealthier than ... (read in full...)
Why does my mother's voice irritate me so much?
Q. I love my mother. She's a wonderful person, and I'm glad she's around me, but only when she isn't talking. I hate my mother's voice, every time she opens her mouth and I hear her speak, I get this almost uncontrollable urge to hurt her. I've tried ...
A. 18 April 2012: It's because you are a teenager. Some times this annoyance lasts long into adulthood as well. I love my mother too, but some times she doesn't have to say anything wrong at all, her voice alone is enough to irritate me.
Rest assured though, ... (read in full...)
Is it fair that my family smoke around me when I'm pregnant?!
Q. Dear cupid aunts im 22. and pregnant. And have moved back.in with my parents because the babys dad left and as i was living.with him in a rented house i now cant afford the rent on a single wage. I love my parents and am grateful for all.they ...
A. 18 April 2012: Educate your family on the effects of smoking when pregnant. I don't see how this is about fair or not though. It is their house, they do live there, they didn't tell you you needed to get pregnant, that one is on you and your ex. It would be nice ... (read in full...)
Am I being too controlling here?
Q. My boyfriend likes to get attention for other women. I do also believe he fantasizes. However, It was a situation where I invited him to my friends’ party on a bar during St. Patrick’s Day. We lined up for an hour and we interchange some words with ...
A. 18 April 2012: How good is your relationship with your boyfriend aside from this?
This sounds like a case of calling one partner out on behaviour you yourself have. I mean that none of you like that the other person speaks to someone of the opposite gender, ... (read in full...)
Why would a guy who admits to being taken still ask me for naughty pictures and videos?
Q. Why, oh why would anyone who admits to being taken still ask for naughty pictures and videos? I have a male friend who I've known for a year. We met through a mutual friend; and so every time we see each other, we're in a group. Over time this g...
A. 18 April 2012: Once you get rid of people who aren't good to you you're opening up to include those who care for you. If you fill your life with people who bring you down then you'll not treasure, value, or see, the ones who actually do care. So if you want real, ... (read in full...)
Why would a guy who admits to being taken still ask me for naughty pictures and videos?
Q. Why, oh why would anyone who admits to being taken still ask for naughty pictures and videos? I have a male friend who I've known for a year. We met through a mutual friend; and so every time we see each other, we're in a group. Over time this g...
A. 18 April 2012: There is no friendship. He sure isn't respecting you as a friend anyway. So if anything, the friendship is one sided. You try to be his friend and not his source of free porn, whereas he sees you only as.. a source of free porn.
Look, if he actua... (read in full...)
Is it wrong to want to have safe-sex with as many beautiful people as possible?
Q. Is it wrong to want to have safe-sex with as many beautiful people as possible? Some background info before the women on here start calling me a 'player' etc.... I'm 23 years old and was a virgin up until last year. For most of my life, women...
A. 18 April 2012: "But finding a girl who's really into you body and soul and wants to give herself to you in that same way is about as close to heaven as one can get sexually."
Exactly. The men who have been with me have had no wish to explore other women. I... (read in full...)
Guys, you know porn is fake, right?
Q. Okay, so this is another porn question. I know I know, this seems to be a rather popular topic But I am straight up just curious. Obviously a lot of men like porn and a lot of women as well. This is a question for men, both single and in a ...
A. 18 April 2012: Some guys think it is real, but that really depends on their maturity and intelligence/experience with a real life woman. Virgin men who brag about sex they've never had and who are insecure will probably more often make comments like that. Real men ... (read in full...)
Is it wrong to want to have safe-sex with as many beautiful people as possible?
Q. Is it wrong to want to have safe-sex with as many beautiful people as possible? Some background info before the women on here start calling me a 'player' etc.... I'm 23 years old and was a virgin up until last year. For most of my life, women...
A. 18 April 2012: You said it! Most girls do want sex only in a committed relationship!
If you want sex on a regular basis your safest bet is actually having a steady girlfriend. Not a lot of great sex is found in one night stands, and casual relation... (read in full...)
Despite a new love she can't get her 'first' out of her mind
Q. emergency!! Basically friend A is in love with friend B but friend A lost her virginity a few months ago to another guy (she was not with friend B at this time). She is deeply in love with B but can't help but think of this guy now and again. She ...
A. 18 April 2012: Don't over-analyze this. She's still thinking about A because it was just a few months ago that she was with him. People tend to take longer time to get over someone and she shouldn't push herself to get over someone before she is actually over ... (read in full...)
Do impersonal sex and lack of intimacy cause depression?
Q. So about 2 years ago i became the roommate of a now 29 year old woman who is beautiful by all accounts. Men are constantly flocking to her. She is charming too, very magnetic personality. Except she has never had a real boyfriend. Why? She prefers ...
A. 18 April 2012: Having a depression is a mental health problem. Not necessarily (and rarely) a result of a depressive life situation. Her depression might very well be the reason she does not seek long term relationships. I doubt her depression is caused by her ... (read in full...)
Guys what do you do to try show her you like her ?
Q. What are the signs a boy likes you? Guys what do you do to try show her you like her ?...
A. 18 April 2012: In my experience when a teenage boy likes you he will try to avoid you as much as possible. So the guy who likes you is most probably the guy you rarely if ever speak to, and he'll move away when you come close, and ignore you if you are in a group ... (read in full...)
Am I being too controlling here?
Q. My boyfriend likes to get attention for other women. I do also believe he fantasizes. However, It was a situation where I invited him to my friends’ party on a bar during St. Patrick’s Day. We lined up for an hour and we interchange some words with ...
A. 18 April 2012: I have to agree with Wisdom. It was your friends there, or your friends party anyway, even though your friend's friends weren't familiar to you. Your boyfriend knew no one, and I don't think him talking to this girl makes much of a difference to him ... (read in full...)
Are women losing their skills in "traditional" roles?
Q. Are women losing skills in roles they traditionally did like cooking and housekeeping? If so, what skills are they gaining instead? Let me first say that I love my wife, but I was shocked at how little she is able to do. She is an excellent ...
A. 17 April 2012: My perspective is that if anything women are becoming just as helpless as men. Or that men are actually becoming more helpless than women, once you lift your gaze and take a look at the society at large and not just your group of friends. If ... (read in full...)
How can you sustain a romantic relationship when the guy isn't into your looks, or is only attracted to you based on your personality?
Q. I've never been much of a romantic; I don't really believe in love at first sight, or soul mates, and far prefer my relationship to be based on practical criteria over emotions (we have common interests, we have good conversations, we have a similar ...
A. 17 April 2012: Oh I have to say, you need to find a man who is a giver. A giver will compliment you often, show his attraction towards you, let you know how wanted and desired you, and wont hide his passion for you.
A modest man will be few with words, maybe sh... (read in full...)
How can you sustain a romantic relationship when the guy isn't into your looks, or is only attracted to you based on your personality?
Q. I've never been much of a romantic; I don't really believe in love at first sight, or soul mates, and far prefer my relationship to be based on practical criteria over emotions (we have common interests, we have good conversations, we have a similar ...
A. 17 April 2012: "But I have a lot of insecurities about how I look"
And because of your insecurities you also translate what the men are telling you into something negative. It doesn't have to be interpreted as "not attracted to my looks" when a man says he didn'... (read in full...)
Should I be an asshole to get girls? Or be the nice guy? Or just give up and save myself the hassle?
Q. Im 19 and have aspbergers disorder (autism). tragicly for me, im a super nice guy. I dont think im ugly or that it had to do with my looks sense ive seen way gnarly looking asshole guys get handful's of women. I want to know if its better to be...
A. 17 April 2012: I think you need to just give yourself some more time before you draw any conclusions on what you need to do, or how you should be, to get a girl.
You are only 19, you are so young, and you have barely gotten to the age where most people begin to... (read in full...)
Really unhappy in this relationship, is it just me? Or is he actually treating me badly?
Q. So ive been with my current bf a year and this is my first serious relationship and we live together. He however is a divorcee who has been in several committed realtionships. (He is a decade older than me.) Ive been seriously debating whether...
A. 17 April 2012: Here, read these for a look at other people in a similar situation to yours financially:
http://www.dearcupid.org/question/my-boyfriend-is-financially-dependent-on-me-will.html
http://www.de... (read in full...)
Really unhappy in this relationship, is it just me? Or is he actually treating me badly?
Q. So ive been with my current bf a year and this is my first serious relationship and we live together. He however is a divorcee who has been in several committed realtionships. (He is a decade older than me.) Ive been seriously debating whether...
A. 17 April 2012: I find it hard to believe that the majority of you think the girl in a relationship has a right to expect her boyfriend pays her way when she is not working. And to demand pocket money as well. That is called free riding. I don't think this girl has ... (read in full...)
Really unhappy in this relationship, is it just me? Or is he actually treating me badly?
Q. So ive been with my current bf a year and this is my first serious relationship and we live together. He however is a divorcee who has been in several committed realtionships. (He is a decade older than me.) Ive been seriously debating whether...
A. 16 April 2012: "its not the age difference that bothers me, its just the way he patronizes me and says I dont really understand what a relationship is really about, as I am younger and this is my first serious relationship."
Correction: it IS the age differen... (read in full...)
Are women losing their skills in "traditional" roles?
Q. Are women losing skills in roles they traditionally did like cooking and housekeeping? If so, what skills are they gaining instead? Let me first say that I love my wife, but I was shocked at how little she is able to do. She is an excellent ...
A. 16 April 2012: "Every single day I see married people coming to work with McDonald and Burger King bags and their wives sitting on the sofa watching TV. I.. myself cannot not figure out what has gone wrong." Yup, they should have learned to make their own lunch,... (read in full...)
Are women losing their skills in "traditional" roles?
Q. Are women losing skills in roles they traditionally did like cooking and housekeeping? If so, what skills are they gaining instead? Let me first say that I love my wife, but I was shocked at how little she is able to do. She is an excellent ...
A. 13 April 2012: About buttons and gender roles.. I have to pitch in something that I found provocative to be honest. Here in Norway there's a clothing store for men that has a "button guarantee". The buttons are guaranteed to not fall off. If they happen to fall ... (read in full...)
Are women losing their skills in "traditional" roles?
Q. Are women losing skills in roles they traditionally did like cooking and housekeeping? If so, what skills are they gaining instead? Let me first say that I love my wife, but I was shocked at how little she is able to do. She is an excellent ...
A. 13 April 2012: Oh Cerberus, I want to live in your house. It sounds lovely to just press a button and have the floors automatically washed...... (read in full...)
Are women losing their skills in "traditional" roles?
Q. Are women losing skills in roles they traditionally did like cooking and housekeeping? If so, what skills are they gaining instead? Let me first say that I love my wife, but I was shocked at how little she is able to do. She is an excellent ...
A. 12 April 2012: Continuing the list of things now available that disposes of the "traditional" roles:
Kinder Gardens
Car Service
Shopping Malls
Pre-made foods
Take-away
Swiffer
Laundry machines
Dish washers
Higher Education for both genders
PS. mo... (read in full...)
Are women losing their skills in "traditional" roles?
Q. Are women losing skills in roles they traditionally did like cooking and housekeeping? If so, what skills are they gaining instead? Let me first say that I love my wife, but I was shocked at how little she is able to do. She is an excellent ...
A. 12 April 2012: "Are women losing skills in roles they traditionally did like cooking and housekeeping? If so, what skills are they gaining instead?"
I understand what you are getting at, but really, this is a silly question. It sort of inclines that women ar... (read in full...)
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