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Archived questions from: January, 2011 (see latest in Trust issues category)

Trust issues: Help and advice

I think I deserve better than what I'm getting!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5043 days ago

31 January 2011 (F) - So my husband and I will be married for a year in March but we have been together for four years! We have a huge age difference! He is 40 while I am 23 mind you that he does not look a day over 30! My friends thought I was absolutely crazy but I was ...

Can a former party boy settle down?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3137 days ago

31 January 2011 (M) - Hi. I am a 44 year old man who fell in love with a 49 year old man. He has been in several long term relationships, but since the last one broke up 4 years ago, he has really fooled around a lot. I mean a lot. He's on all the hookup web sites...

I'm giving my girlfriend her fantasy to be with a former lover/friend. Will I regret it?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5046 days ago

31 January 2011 (M) - I would appreciate any help and comments on my situation. I met a wonderful woman last year and we had an immediate connection. Stronger than any I've known before and she said the same thing. On our third date we were talking openly about fan...

What are "the jealous rules"?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5047 days ago

31 January 2011 (F) - i always wondered what are the jealous rules when it comes to being in a relationship and having the opposite sex as friends?.. i mean is it ok to be with my bf and sometimes hang out with my guyfriends, is it okay to text them but only as friends ...

I know its wrong for me to snoop on him, but its wrong for him to be talking to other girls this way! Should I confront him?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5047 days ago

31 January 2011 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for a little over a year now. It has always been an issue for me to trust people. I have been trying very hard to trust him, but he talks to a lot of girls because he is in the entertainment business. Once he left his ...

I was unsure about trusting him, so he got fed up of waiting and left me! What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5046 days ago

31 January 2011 (F) - I REAALLY NEED HELP! I was dating this guy after i broke up with my boy friend...actually; he was the reason why I did break up...It was at a stage when my rel'ship with my ex was almost dead and i met him. At that point of time i was totally...

I feel like this girl is replacing me more and more each day....

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5046 days ago

31 January 2011 (F) - I have been going out with this boy for 6 months, I met through my friend and its been on and off as he moved over to Australia in November, but yet we are continuing to try stay together for him coming back this November. We argue quite a lot now ...

My fiance has online profile looking for discreet casual sex!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5046 days ago

31 January 2011 (F) - I have been with my Fiancee for 3 years. We are both in our 40's. A few months ago he was in a car accident and was house bound for three months. During that time, he got very upset with me for not giving him more time and attention while he ...

I lied about taking a pregnancy test, how do I get his trust back?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5047 days ago

31 January 2011 (F) - I recently lied to my fiancé about taking a pregnancy test, which I did but I didn't pee on it ..because days before he ask me to take one..he was telling me we are not ready for kids..so I decided to not take it cause I was scared to be and make ...

The wandering eye......

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5046 days ago

31 January 2011 (F) - My guy and I had a little spat in regards to the wandering eye and loyalty to me and the relationship. He says that my constant banter of telling him how upsetting it is to me to see him looking at other women and physically acting like he's not ...

I rejected him twice, now we're friends with benefits...and while I want a commitment, there's nothing from him!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5048 days ago

31 January 2011 (F) - Hello everyone:) Thanks in advance for reading this. I am dating this guy sort of, it has been 6 months about. He really pursued me hard, and I had let him know that I was not looking for a bf. I had been through a lot and didn't feel I was in the ...

I feel really betrayed that he'd get over me while we were in a relationship, talk to this girl who was his "friend" behind my back and then breakup with me after I tried really hard to change.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5048 days ago

31 January 2011 (F) - OK before i start i want to thank everyone for taking the time to answer my question. Ok my boyfriend for 10 months recently dumped me about a month ago. He said i was too controlling and i didnt trust him. Before this huge breakup i dumped h...

Boyfriend has a terrible reputation, is in and out of jail and I cheated with a married man....where does that leave us??

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5047 days ago

31 January 2011 (F) - Ok here goes.... my boyfriend of almost 3 years, spent 1 year of it in jail.I messed up I cheated on him with a married man..I broke it off before he came home, told him what i did and how sorry i was. He has forgave me he says ,I dont think so. It ...

He left me to have a good time with his ex, and now that she's out, he wants me back again!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5048 days ago

30 January 2011 (F) - I've had many trust issues with my boyfriend. Most with his ex girlfriend. Many issues in general, including: When they first broke up he started talking to me a couple weeks after.. then we started 'talking'. Before I left for Mexico in the summ...

My boyfriend wants my hand in marriage, but he won't stop flirting with other girls!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5048 days ago

30 January 2011 (F) - Okay, so I've been with this guy for about 2 years now, and I loved him for 2 years before that. We know that we are everything we want in each other and would like to get married. But, because of finances and age we can't. He has struggled with ...

Can't figure this guy out! What is going on?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5048 days ago

30 January 2011 (F) - I met this guy back in November and we were hanging out a few times a week, having a great time, and it lead to me sleeping over when I would see him. Every since I met him I questioned if he was a player.... his cell always being off when I am ...

My boyfriend's mother hates me and refuses to see our child because I told her he was bisexual! How can I clear the air?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5047 days ago

30 January 2011 (F) - I really need help. I've been with my boyfriend 4 years, (were 18) and we have a 14 month old daughter together. The problem is that his mother hates me because I once told her my boyfriend was bisexual (which is true). He cheated on me 3 times wi...

Fell in love, married, had children, & struggled with monogamy. Now the wife wants to leave. Why are we doing this to our kids?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5026 days ago

30 January 2011 (M) - Is "male nature" setting us back again? No where in the animal kingdom do we see monogamy more prominent as we see it in human nature. Or is monogamy just something woman have come to believe as true? I, like most men, fell in love with a beautifu...

How do we trust our friend who bailed on us?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5048 days ago

30 January 2011 (F) - Hi, last night my 3 friends and I decided we were all gonna get dressed and ready for winterball together. But at the last minute one of them bailed and went with other girls, even though we had been planing for weeks. So my other friend and I get ...

The eternal triangle strikes again. How can I solve it amicably guys?

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30 January 2011 (F) - Hey guys, I'm 17 and for the past year I've become best friends with a group of guys.(I have girlfriends too but I prefer hanging with guys tbh). I love them to pieces. For the past month or so me and one of the guys, Z, have developed feel...

He's a nice friendly guy. But have I been reading too much into his nice friendly texts?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5048 days ago

30 January 2011 (F) - I have been having a nice friendly? relationship with this single guy. He has been very warm and friendly all through. Sometimes I really doubted it he liked me romantically. But I know I was not worthy of him and never bothered. But I did imagine ...

Sms didn't work. I really like her, but don't want to look needy. What's the best way to arrange our first date?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5048 days ago

30 January 2011 (M) - Hey, I Would like to ask you a question or post my " problem ". There is this girl i'm attracted,to her,to her personality .... I got to know her on New Year's eve, got her number. My cousin speaks with her sister , they have a serious re...

I want to break up my friendship because he's rude, but how do I tell him and break up?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5046 days ago

30 January 2011 (F) - I have a male friend who's 16 and I am 15. He loves me and i love him too, but am not yet ready for a relationship. Sometimes when we talk he's rude, sometimes he's caring. Anytime i tell him he's rude, he says, 'dats d way he is'. I hate rude ...

I'm worried my husband will cheat on his business trip. How can I learn to trust him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5048 days ago

30 January 2011 (F) - My husband had sex with a prostitute while on a business trip, and once he returned he confessed to me and said he is guity. However, I cannot come to terms with this yet. It's been 2 years, he has been avoiding going to business trips, but now he c...

My confusion and lack of trust had made my husband consider leaving me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5048 days ago

30 January 2011 (F) - I've been with my husband for nearly 22 years, most of those perfectly happy. He changed careers which meant I saw him less (works most weekends) and he had less money which meant I took over a lot of bills. The job has made him come out of himself ...

I cant trust my current BF because of the way I was played in the past...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5049 days ago

30 January 2011 (F) - dear readers im looking for advice, when i was younger i was with this guy who always cheated on me and played me round like i was nothing, and i dont think i ever was to him. now im in a rewarding relationship but i find it hard to trust my boyf...

Was naked with my ex...should I tell my girlfriend?

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 5048 days ago

30 January 2011 (M) - So last night was my ex's 22nd birthday, so since we're still on good terms I went out with her and some of my old mutual friends. The night started off fairly well but as the night progressed I got more and more drunk (more so than I've gotten in ...

Boyfriend lied and the trust is gone

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5019 days ago

29 January 2011 (F) - So my boyfriend lied to me and now the trust is gone. Long story short, last friday he went out with his friends and I went out with mine and he phoned me afterwards (after I phoned him to say goodnight) to say he had a good night at a local pub. ...

Should I ask him why he doesn't speak to me at school?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5049 days ago

29 January 2011 (F) - There is a guy i talk to every day, and who goes to my school. I have sooo much in common with him. He likes me, i think he's two years younger than me, he never used to talk to me before, he's sooo shy at school. it's like i dont exist and everyone...

I'm always there for him and I'm a good mother to his kids...then why doesn't he trust me and love me back the way I do for him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5049 days ago

29 January 2011 (F) - hi i am an OFW, im in a long distance relationship, he is 10 years older than me, we are together for 7 years, and we have 2 kids. i love my partner a lot as if i cant see my future without him, though we are not married yet because of some ...

How would I suggest we have a FWB relationship? And is it a good idea?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5049 days ago

29 January 2011 (F) - Okay so, me and this guy "D" were dating for about a week before I found out he had been cheating on me with two girls. This happened around 6 months ago. ''D'' and I really haven't talked much since then until a couple days ago when I decided to a...

What's the best way to handle my 'Grumpy Old Man'?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5049 days ago

29 January 2011 (F) - I see my boyfriend at week-ends, as he lives an hour's drive away. It annoys me because he likes to stay up until 2-3 am during the week and by Saturday is not up to much. He likes to sleep in until mid day. I like to be up and about and not to...

How do people determine the right age for them to have sex for the first time?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5049 days ago

29 January 2011 (F) - i'm asking the readers this, male and female, young and old, to answer the age old question of how old is the right age to have sex? is it based on how you feel about your partner? the legal age? Your religion? please answer for all the many rea...

Our four year relationship has stagnated. Could it be reinvigorated? And how?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5049 days ago

29 January 2011 (M) - We are in our early twenties. We have been dating nearly four years (having met in high school). Things were passionate but have died down steadily. I truly love her personality (at least the positive part of it). But there are things that have been...

I messed around with two women...now I want the second one who loved me but I ended up hurting...

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5049 days ago

29 January 2011 (M) - Before anyone starts throwing rocks at me pls hold off and hear me out. I fell in love with 2 different women (woman A and woman B). I fell in love with woman A first and boy did I fall hard. The complication was she wanted an open relations...

Request for any ideas on how to spice things up please?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5049 days ago

29 January 2011 (F) - How to "Spice" it up? My boyfriend said he wanted to experiment, do new things. He is tired of the same ole same ole. We will do anything but actual full on intercourse, we are waiting on that one. Well we are kind of out of ideas. We tried the ...

My lesbian friend suggested we have sex before I can be her gf. Is this how it operates?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5043 days ago

29 January 2011 (F) - I'm a virgin and a lesbian. There's this girl who goes to the same college as me and she's also a lesbian. We met in our history lecture and have become tight. She's been out for 6 years and has had lots of girlfriends. She keeps telling me that...

We work together, we slept together, I wasted so many awesome blowjobs on him....just to realize now he was married all along!!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5049 days ago

29 January 2011 (F) - My heart is broken. I've been seeing this guy for a year now. He pursued me, but I saw evidence in his car and at his office that he was involved with someone so I said no thanks, friends! He swore up and down that he was single. Eventually I starte...

I can't tolerate porn due to a horrible experience in my past!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5050 days ago

28 January 2011 (F) - My problem is that I hate porn. It dates back to many years ago when I had an awful experience and I have explained this to my partner and how it reminds me of a horrible time in my life which I have sought profession help to overcome. I told him ...

He tells me he still loves me, but he still doesn't want to be with me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5048 days ago

28 January 2011 (F) - I met a guy 3yrs ago, and we fell in love. I have serious trust issues with men, purely based on being cheated on in previous relationships and the main reason being because in my family, all the men have cheated, and betrayed the women they wer...

Did I do the right thing to break up with her? I feel bad for hurting her, but she hurt me so many times.....

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5048 days ago

28 January 2011 (M) - Hi, hope you are fine and doing well. I am really really sorry it will be very long for you to read, but please read it and give your kind advice and comments on this. i have a sad story and now am confused if i did well broke up with her in fear ...

My loyalty to him is in conflict with what my friends think of my actions. I'm in a panic. What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5050 days ago

28 January 2011 (F) - i'm in a panic, because my best friend has moved to another area, and i want to go too. i get on really well with him and this is why i'm in a panic, because a few times i've rowed with him, over silly stuff. And at the time confided in my two clos...

Should I enough them to break up by telling him about his Gf's cheating?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5050 days ago

28 January 2011 (F) - This guy started talking to me back in march of '10. I never gave him the time of day, but gradually he started to like me. I only saw him as a friend. Then I started to realize how cool a person he is and how he's been trying to get with me for ...

I think my boyfriend has an obsession with the internet? HELP?!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5050 days ago

28 January 2011 (F) - Okay. Where to start.. I'm a mature 20 year old and I was seeing my boyfriend for 9 months until last week. After a couple months of our relationship, I found him on the internet talking to different people about our relationship, nothing too bad, ...

Should I continue waiting for my married lover, or am I being taken for a ride?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5048 days ago

27 January 2011 (M) - Greetings All! I have worked with this person for two years and have always had a mutual great feeling. We began an active relationship last year. I was in process of a divorce, but the feelings for her were very real and true. She put forth the ...

If my boyfriend had intentions to cheat with an old hookup, would he tell me whenever she contacted him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5051 days ago

27 January 2011 (F) - I just have a quick question. I've been with my boyfriend for 6 months and we love each other very much. Recently, a girl he has hooked up with in the past has been trying to get back with him. He tells her no, but I guess she's just desperate. M...

But I love him

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5051 days ago

27 January 2011 (F) - Dear Cupid, I was dating my boyfriend for 11 months and we got into an argument and he said he needed space, but would date me again in two months. A month has passed and this space has been agonizing me. He said he still loves me and wants to be ...

My boyfriend goes out of his way for a woman he is not even good friends with. Is he interested in her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5051 days ago

27 January 2011 (F) - Hi. My boyfriend of 1 year avoids me often, and says he is busy at work. He takes extreme measures to help a girl whom he is not close friends with, but when I asked him for a favour (which will not take more than 15 mins for him to do) he said he ...

I love him, but has his love for me died? What should I do?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5051 days ago

27 January 2011 (F) - He's doing it again! He's saying I've broken his heart more than once... HOW??? I've been faithful throughout this relationship, while he was out doing God know's what from 6pm-1am! I love him dearly but sometimes it does my head in to HAVE TO ...

I was fine with my girlfriend being an escort ...but now her proximity to a certain client is really bothering me...

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 5050 days ago

27 January 2011 (M) - I came across this blog and read a couple of them.I am a boyfriend of a escort, I have been her boyfriend for 6 years, she has been a escort for almost 3 years. I am fine with it, She did it for the bills of course.Now We just came into a situation ...