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Archived questions from: 9 January, 2011 (see latest in Trust issues category)

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Trust issues: Help and advice

He wouldn't tell me about her texts if he was planning to cheat right?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5102 days ago

9 January 2011 (F) - So me and my boyfriend have been together for 5 months and we love each other a lot. About a month or 2 ago, a girl from his past (not ex, just hooked up) contacted him asking to hook up again. He told her he had a girlfriend but she continued to ...

After reading the messages I don't trust him at all!!! What should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5102 days ago

9 January 2011 (F) - ok so i had one of my friends message my boyfriend on myspace to mess with him to see if he would cheat or anything cause i really wanted to know. so she sent him a message and said hey you seem pretty cool and i wanna get to know you better. my ...

Is it ok to hold a grudge for that long?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5102 days ago

9 January 2011 (F) - Alright, this girl i knew a 3 years ago is trying to get in contact with me. She use to be my bestfriend till one day i found out she had sex with my boyfriend at the time when the 3 of us were hanging out at another friends house. Even though i ...

What is this respect thing about?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5102 days ago

9 January 2011 (F) - I have been dating a guy for a while now. We sat down to have a talk because things are not going so hot. I have always been supportive and warm towards him. During the conversation he said that I would have to earn his respect and he did not trust ...

I can't trust my boyfriend after I saw him hugging these girls!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5102 days ago

9 January 2011 (F) - In college, i saw my boyfriend and he hugged this girl saw me and walked off, then while me and my bestfriend went to get some lunch and he was pressing himself up againist these two girls, and he spends alot of time with these two girls, i know he ...

Do I really like her for who she really is?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5102 days ago

9 January 2011 (M) - right, ive been with a girl for nearly 6 months now. we're both 17, she's 4 months older than me, and we go to the same school though she is in the year above. The way we started going out is a bit strange really, she just started talking to me ...

Despite our different domestic situations, what is he revealing on his thoughts about me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5101 days ago

9 January 2011 (F) - We are adults. We are not friends. But we share a nice friendly relationship since a year. We are friends on a social networking site too. And I have noticed that of late he visits it daily even when he doesn't do anything there. I really like ...

Am I addicted to him or is it me who is wrong?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5101 days ago

9 January 2011 (F) - Sorry, but this is a long rant because I am exasperated by my relationship. To put it into context, I was brought up in an abusive family situation which involved, along with many other negatives, my mother being extremely emotionally neglectful ...

My girl has me, but she has also gone with a boy. Why couldn't she put our relationship first? How do I cope?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5102 days ago

9 January 2011 (F) - A normal girl in love with another. Something I would have thought impossible for me, until over a year ago. I have been in love with her for a long time, I don't know why or how, but I am. On new years of last year she went the extra mile and kiss...

Our mother in law was offended and her reaction has hurt our sister in law. How can we help?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5102 days ago

9 January 2011 (F) - My brother-in-law(BIL) has been married for a year and a half. For both of them, it's their second marriage. Both of them were very close and used to spend hours talking with each other. After marriage since they were working in different places, ...

What are the signs that a relationship is likely to end? Even it all looks OK now?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5102 days ago

9 January 2011 (F) - Hey everyone, From your experience, when you were in a long-term relationship with an ex-boyfriend (or ex-gf), did you ever have a feeling (or signs) that you guys will eventually break up? (it's my first relationship and it happens to be lo...

Having doubts about a partner? Is it normal at the start of a relationship?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5102 days ago

9 January 2011 (F) - Is it true we all have doubts about each other at the beginning of the relationship? Could that break or build further the relationship? I've had this awkward conversation (can't call it a fight, because it wasn't) with my boyfriend - (we'...

I don't know if I should agree to what he's asked nor if he truly loves me

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5103 days ago

9 January 2011 (F) - i love my boyfriend , and he loves me too. we have been in a relationship for 1year.but my nature is very suspious . how will i come to know that he truly loves me? he is asking me for oral sex, what do u think , i should say yes or no?...

He told me from the start he didn't want a relationship, but now I have feelings for him. Should I break-up to just be friends?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5102 days ago

9 January 2011 (F) - there is this guy i have been good friends with for ages. He just moved back to his home town, where i am. We started hooking up. He has told me from the start that he didn't want a relationship and I didn't want one either. Now I have developed ...

Are guys losing respect for girls today than in the past?

This question has 23 answers - newest was posted 5101 days ago

9 January 2011 (F) - I know the guy I am with does not act like this what so ever, but is it just me, or am I getting the feeling that now a days, men expect girls to bend over and give themselves to them? Are guys really loosing respect for females now a days? ...

I feel I have no choice but to leave him and move on

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5100 days ago

9 January 2011 (F) - Hi, I have been thinking for a while now and feel it is time to move on with my life and break up with my boyfriend. i love him a lot but they way we are with each other is very unhealthy. He says he hates me and i tell him he needs to stop bu...

My boyfriend is the worst flirt!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5091 days ago

9 January 2011 (F) - so, my boyfriend is the WORST flirt. He flirts with girls online, so its not like i can exactly ignore it, which ive tried my hardest to do. He calls them, plays xbox with them, and just overall acts likes hes interested in them. and when i get mad ...