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male
age
36-40,
*arx
writes:Hey,I Would like to ask you a question or post my " problem ".There is this girl i'm attracted,to her,to her personality ....I got to know her on New Year's eve, got her number.My cousin speaks with her sister , they have a serious relationship.We've gone out the four of us, 2 times , after the New year's eve,and i got to know her much better.She told my cousin that " your cousin is a wonderful person , i never met a guy so cute ,so easy going and calm ".Plus, he intrigued her more so she told him " that i'm a gentleman , serious person, educated, honest..."He told me she seemed to like me. I felt there is a mutual " interest ".Main idea : i sent her an sms past week, on wednesday, inviting her out to a cup of coffee ,but i didn't expect much.But she replied , not with uncertainty, but with " confirmation " that she wants to go out , but , not this week ( past week ).So she suggested we leave it to the next week ( this week, yesterday on friday ).Excited i were.I picked up the phone ,and called her this past tuesday.She answered with excitement, didn't let me speak , she kept on asking me how am i doing my exams and when will i finish etc...Arriving to the bottom line, i asked her about friday, she confirmed that we are going out on friday and we agreed that SHE would sms me ,on friday ,and tell me at what time ,since she's working.Friday came (yesterday ), and i haven't received anthg from her.I was frustrated ! so i called her at 19.30 , she was asleep , as my cousin told me, and she really was.He told me that she was expecting me to call her or sms her.I called her back yesterday , i felt she was a little embarrassed ... she told me " you're right, i should have texted you "In resume, I told her in the end , when you are feeling free and wanna go out , sms me .I'm really interested in this girl.She has a strong personality, so (1)[ if she doesn't wanna go out , she would have told me.She feels no shame about it] . In fact when i called her yesterday , i pointed out to this issue , and she replied as i stated early -- (1).My question : What to expect from her ? will she sms me ? should i take the initiative and call her or sms her for reminding her ? i don't wanna sound like m dying for her or sound too needy.Any advice ?Thank you
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 January 2011): I would leave it for a while so you don't seem too pushy then text a casual invitation to go out. If you get knocked back again I would forget it.
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