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writes:Hi. My boyfriend of 1 year avoids me often, and says he is busy at work. He takes extreme measures to help a girl whom he is not close friends with, but when I asked him for a favour (which will not take more than 15 mins for him to do) he said he is busy and never even bothered to ask me how I solved my problem.Do all guys behave this way? Does he like that girl more than me? Most of the time I am the one who calls him first or initiates the chat. Has he lost interest in me? Please help.
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reader, FloridaCatGirl +, writes (28 January 2011):
 I have to admit, I think you have good reason to be concerned. If your boyfriend avoids you often, and does things for other women, but won't do them for you... I would have a serious talk with him.
If he continues to treat you this way... you need to get out of this relationship. It does sound like he may be losing interest. Talk to him... but make sure you stand up for yourself and let him know exactly how you are feeling. This is not the way "all" guys treat women... just the ones who aren't worth dating!
Please keep us updated! Good luck!
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reader, Sensible Sam  +, writes (27 January 2011):
I think the best thing to do is to sit down and have a chat with him....have a set agenda in your head and try not to let emotion be involved....ask him your questions and see what he has to say. One thing i will say is that men do tend to stop trying to please the women they are with because they have got them so they think they dont need to make the effort anymore, it might just simply be a case of this and the reason he is helping other women is either because he is a gentleman or the fact that he is trying to make himself desirable to other women but that doesnt necessarily mean that he is wanting to be in a relationship with them, it could just be that he is feeling the pressure of being in a long term relationship. Try not calling him and see how he reacts, it might seem that you are always initiating it because he knows he doesnt have to ring cos you will do it!!!! And if the worst comes to the worst and you do split up then I believe you obv wasnt right for each other!!! Hope it helps xxxx
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