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Archived questions from: 21 January, 2011 (see latest in Trust issues category)

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Trust issues: Help and advice

My boyfriend of Three years cheated then left. Why am I being treated like this? It feels punishing.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5057 days ago

21 January 2011 (F) - my boyfriend of 3 years cheated on me and then left me for his 1 month affair girl. He was perfect to me and i honestly don't know why he has changed this dramatically. I was never formally introduced but i heard that the mistres is 7 years younger ...

We text, and I've told her I love her. But how do I escalate it to a face to face relationship? What do I say to her?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5057 days ago

21 January 2011 (M) - I have fallen in love with a girl, I'm always sending her text messages telling her that I love her, but I don't have the courage to tell her face to face. how can I tell her and what should I say? ...

Situation with texting, FB and the guy I used to sleep with

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5057 days ago

21 January 2011 (F) - I'm just looking for a second opinion. A couple of months ago, I slept with this guy a few times. We texted, then i made the tremendous mistake of asking his friend about one of his ex girlfriends. So he stopped texting me. However, each time I b...

He started texting me after we broke up. Then just as suddenly he stopped. Why would he do that?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5057 days ago

Should I stay or move on? I can't seem to convince my gf that we could be good together

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4680 days ago

21 January 2011 (M) - It's been 3 weeks since my girlfriend and I broke up. The reason we broke up was because we fought too much, and our intimacy reduced, but we did have a great friendship (she was my best friend as I was to her). We did have trust and loyalty, befo...

My husband's ex is driving me crazy. Please, any tips on how I can handle this situation better?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5056 days ago

21 January 2011 (F) - My husband's ex in 2006 took their daughter to Indiana, to live closer to her boyfriend (who was in prison for child molesting)... When she came back a year and a half later she sued my husband for child support. DHR agreed with her. She should have ...

My girl seems to be playing games with me. Why text me when she was with another guy? What should I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5056 days ago

21 January 2011 (M) - I saw my girl with another guy. She saw me and said, ''hi'' to me. I ignored her. After that she sent me a text saying,''You seem cold today. Why are you so down, or is it me?'' What was the purpose of this sms? She knows I saw she was with ano...

I often get in a panic and gag at the thought of a bj. Why does this happen and how can I address this problem?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5053 days ago

21 January 2011 (F) - I have this fear of giving a blow job to my boyfriend of 6 years. I don't mind giving oral sex, but as soon as he puts it in my mouth I feel the need to gag. He has a very large penis and if he has just had a shower I don't mind as much. he does...

I want to attract and interest a certain guy, but in a subtle way. Any ideas please?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5027 days ago

21 January 2011 (F) - What do boys look for in a girl? Please help I need a boyfriend but I want a certain guy, but I don't think that guy likes me! How do I get him to notice me without talking to him, I want him to come to me!...

Does being really good in bed make you a hoe?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5057 days ago

21 January 2011 (F) - The man that I am seeing has constantly accused me of cheating when my loyalty towards him has only been solid and faithful. I believe it is his own insecurities that make him act the way he does at times. Whenever he goes out drinking he tell...

He could not trust me so I have changed and tried my best to show him this, but now I am the one struggling to trust him!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5057 days ago

21 January 2011 (F) - Hi, First off many thanks to all of you that take the time and offer me your advice, I cannot thank you enough. I am having a lot of problems with my 9 mo. boyfriend, there are a lot of issues involved but I have never been more confused in...