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writes:I have a male friend who's 16 and I am 15. He loves me and i love him too, but am not yet ready for a relationship. Sometimes when we talk he's rude, sometimes he's caring. Anytime i tell him he's rude, he says, 'dats d way he is'. I hate rude people and i plan on breaking up my friendship wit him based on this but i dont think am strong enough to do it... Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 February 2011): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks for helping
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reader, Denise32  +, writes (2 February 2011):
 In that case you REALLY ARE better off without him! If he cannot accept that you're not ready for a relationship without getting rude and nasty, then that's HIS problem, not yours!
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 January 2011): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionHe's rude to me only probably because I told him I wasn't ready for a relationship.
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 January 2011): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks. But what if he's willing to change?
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reader, Denise32 +, writes (30 January 2011):
All you have to do is tell him you find his rudeness to be something you're not willing to put up with any longer, and that he is not to contact you again, ever.
Then: block him from sending you emails or texts, don't pick up the phone if he calls you. If he should come to your home, don't answer the door. Find another way to go home from work - or have a trusted friend go with you if you think he might try to wait for you after your workday is finished.
Rudeness is intolerable......good luck!
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