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Archived questions from: April, 2015 (see latest in Trust issues category)

Trust issues: Help and advice

Would it be cruel to leave him. Or could it do him some good? I'm terrified of what'll happen if he continues like this.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3297 days ago

30 April 2015 (F) - I'm between a rock and a hard place and I really need some advice. My boyfriend has always smoked weed. At first it was just once or twice a month when he would hang out with a particular friend. I didn't like it but he never did it in front of m...

We had a casual thing between us about 4 years ago. Why would she ignore me now?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3303 days ago

30 April 2015 (M) - Ok, so me and this girl used to have a casual thing going about 4 years ago. We were both single then. Since then i've married someone else. We've stayed in touch and met up a few times. On a couple of occasions we have slept together which s...

What do I need to say to my boyfriend? Because I really had never had sexual relations before I had sex for the first time, recently, with him.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3304 days ago

30 April 2015 (F) - I had sex for the first time, but my boyfriend thinks now thar I was not virgin since I was loose and didn't have pain and he saw no blood .? but I really didn't have sex before please help ...

How do I tell my boss that I can't come to work as I'm already booked to attend a convention? Not sure how to break the news.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3286 days ago

30 April 2015 (F) - Modnote: poster clarified that she holds 2 jobs. One weekdays Mon-Fri and one part time at weekends. .............................................................. I work as a Nanny full-time 9-5 Monday through Friday. A week or so ago, she told me ...

My concern is that he's rather stingy and that after almost 2 years he's not ready for being together in person. Advice?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3300 days ago

30 April 2015 (F) - I've been in a Long Distance Relationship for almost two years. My boyfriend is a six hour flight away and I fly to see him once a month, duration of stay is 4-7 days each visit. During the time that we've been together, he has only visited three ...

Why does every girl just want to be friends? I don't get past date three. And now this girl'stopped texting me !

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3305 days ago

30 April 2015 (M) - so this girl was a regular customer at my store, and we had so much in common. (How many girls love giant monster and horror movies lol) and we started hanging out, nothing serious at all. We would watch cartoons together over Skype and text all the ...

Should a shy geeky guy visit a prostitute to gain some experience before I Try to find GF

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 3281 days ago

30 April 2015 (M) - I'm a 24 year old male virgin who has never kissed a girl nor have I ever been on a date. I'm not particularly good looking and I don't have six pack abs. Not to mention I'm a giant film/video game/comic book geek as well. I research this to...

What are your opinions and reasonings on when sex should occur?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3303 days ago

30 April 2015 (F) - After a while of not having sex, I recently did, with a guy who I met a couple of hours earlier. It's not something I do often, it actually takes me a while to start liking a guy enough to want to hook up, but on my opinion if I find someone I like ...

Is my Bf telling me about a crush he once had on a pretty girl, only to make me jealous?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3305 days ago

30 April 2015 (F) - my bf recently told me about a childhood crush of his and how pretty she is and how beautiful her smile is.I m feeling insecure becausezp if she loves him too he might leave me. At times i feel my bf really loves me and is doing this just to make ...

He has the stamina. But why can't I achieve an orgasm with my Bf? Do I need to see a Doctor?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3306 days ago

29 April 2015 (F) - I have been dating my boyfriend for 3 years, we are very close and he knows me well. However, during sex I just don't seem to get an orgasm. He'll thrust and continue until he ejaculates and then bam, he's done. He can last for over an hour befo...

Pregnant after four months dating. How have others coped in a similar situation?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3306 days ago

29 April 2015 (F) - I've been dating my boyfriend for four months now. We have known each other for about five years as we work together. We have liked each for a couple of years but we were in relationships and had to deal with those first. I ended up splittin...

How can I calm my anxiety at the thought of losing him? Plus I need a guide on dating an introvert, please?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3305 days ago

29 April 2015 (?) - I think i need a guide for dating an introvert... I am a very social, loving and very caring person. When in a relationship i always put the other person first, and always like to keep in contact, and do lots of thinga with them. Yet my boyfr...

He's been selective, about what he says, when he's communicates with me. Should I just end my relationship with him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3306 days ago

29 April 2015 (F) - I have been seeing my boyfriend for 2 1/2 years. We met on a dating website and chatted online for about 4 months before meeting. We then, or so I thought, had a good relationship seeing each other every weekend, chatting during the week. In ot...

Who should I choose? My ex, who called my reaction too jealous? Or this new guy I've just met?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3304 days ago

29 April 2015 (F) - My older, once divorced boyfriend of two years recently told me that he wanted some space. He stated that I showed red flags of violent jealousy, during an encounter with his female friend at a local sports bar one Friday evening. He asked her ...

She calls me her daughter but charges me $US 500 per month to live with her. Is that too much?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3306 days ago

28 April 2015 (F) - Im 19 year old, I live with my ex guardian. I have been living with Her since I was 16 year old when I dad passed. She increased my monthly payment to $500 a month for staying there. I used to pay $300 before. She calls me her daughter but why do I...

Is this verbal abuse? Are we just not right for each other?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3306 days ago

28 April 2015 (F) - I am on the fence about the man I have been in a relationship with for 2 years. I don’t know whether I am wanting to get out of the relationship too soon or if am avoiding the warning signs of what could be verbal abuse. Background Sto...

How can I politely deal with people who offer their advice on whether we are having a boy or a girl?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 3307 days ago

28 April 2015 (F) - Ok, so my fiance I have been thrilled to be expecting our first child. We dont want to find out what we are having because I cant wait for that moment when the doc says "its a..." when it is born, but I have had a lot of people who dont seem to get ...

He's told others that I'm ''easy''. But was what I did wrong to him, by blocking him and ostracizing him?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3307 days ago

28 April 2015 (F) - Where do I even start? It all began when I started dating this guy for almost a year and then he dumped me. He started dating his ex girlfriend and I knew right there what a complete jerk he was. But, when he and his "new ex girlfriend thing" b...

He hasn't kissed me in a year. But he finds time to watch porn. what should I do?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3307 days ago

28 April 2015 (F) - My boyfriend hasn't kissed me romantically in years. We barely have sex, and it is boring, always the same position. He watches very x rated lesbian porn and knows it bothers me and he obviously doesn't care. He is obsessed with woman and is c...

I found out about his daughter a year into our relationship, and he didn't lend me money for my school fees because he puts her first!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3306 days ago

27 April 2015 (F) - I'm 24yrs and my guy is 29yrs too we have been friends since childhood but he asked me for a relationship as at last year so after one year he told me he had a 10yrs daughter out of wedlock and he said the reason why he refused to tell me such at ...

He's ''not sure about our relationship''?? Is this a temporary natural phase in a relationship? Or is it likely to be permanent?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3307 days ago

27 April 2015 (F) - I've been in a wonderful relationship for over two and a half years now, and I thought everything was alright until last year. My partner said he wasn't sure about this relationship, so I gave him some space, and he eventually decided that he want...

What can I do about about my partner's willingness to be too kind for his own good?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3307 days ago

27 April 2015 (F) - Situation is this.... My partner and I have been together for a year and a half and we live together. My partner has an ex wife with whom he is still going through separation issues and settlements. The separation was nasty so he has left it al...

Should I walk away? Should I send the note?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3305 days ago

27 April 2015 (M) - After 4.5 years of friendship, J and I began a relationship over Xmas which has largely been conducted online, because of her employment. I'm 32 and am plenty experienced, but this is the first time I feel I could be falling in love. Just recen...

I'm having sexual feelings for him but I'm not yet ready to have sex. What can I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3308 days ago

27 April 2015 (F) - I'm 24plus and my guy is 29plus. He has been my childhood friend but as of last year he asked me out. We both love each other and as of this having been having sexual dreams which both of are involved. Now have been having sexual feeling towards ...

Yes, there's depression (being medicated). And the desire to be more positive. So how do I get a more positive outlook?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3307 days ago

27 April 2015 (F) - How do I get a more positive outlook on life? I am twenty years old and I am struggling with severe depression. I currently work in administration with no hopes of furthering my career as my job contract ends here soon, and before that I have alw...

What can I do about my suspicions that my husband is having an affair? He's not reacted well when I asked.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3306 days ago

27 April 2015 (F) - I have been married for 11 years and we have a 9 yr old child. Recently I feel that my hubby is not being truthful to me..... I feel he is having a extra marital.....if not an affair......maybe a friendship......stage of relationship with his sch...

Why is it that everything in my life seems to become complicated?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3308 days ago

27 April 2015 (F) - Is it in My life that everything seems to be complicated? I either i have bad luck or i am doing something is wrong some where. Ever since my mother passed away when i was 16 years old..it has been a bumpy ride. Okay i have good intentions fo...

Don't want to lose him. But how can I make this work? I'd like to feel that I'm....wanted.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3308 days ago

27 April 2015 (?) - OK so right now i've been dating this lovely guy for around 5 months. And i dont want to lose him, but my issue is he is a very distant person. He is an introvert (and he admits this often) and well...im a very social and openly affectio...

How to juggle the needs of my father and my desire to study and create a better future for me. Any ideas on how, please?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3308 days ago

27 April 2015 (M) - My situation is unique. When I was 17 my father who is my single parent became very sick and now is considered disabled and barely makes any money anymore so when I finished high school I got a job instead of heading off to college so I could help ...

!When I ask him why he doesn't give me any sex he answers that he just got lazy...Does that make any sense to anybody?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3308 days ago

27 April 2015 (F) - Ive got a confusing situation that boggles my mind. But maybe there is someone out there with answers to help me understand things. Ive been with my guy for about a year now. I take our relationship VERY serious. Even when I have outside temptati...

Is it normal to distance yourself from somebody who is causing you pain?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3307 days ago

26 April 2015 (F) - I am wondering. Is it normal to distance yourself from a person who is hurting you too much? Causing you pain or stress? Almost like you need the pain and stress to stop so you emotionally withdraw from them? Does this happen all of a sudden or o...

I got sick and missed the calls, now he wont talk.......

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3308 days ago

26 April 2015 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together two months and we talk everyday. We work similar jobs and sometimes, overnight so we try to keep each other up. Friday I told him I had plans to go out but I ended up getting sick and fell into deep sleep, I ...

I don't want this to happen in real life. But am I normal to have these secret fantasies about my wife?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3308 days ago

26 April 2015 (M) - I have a wife and am happily married but during my own time I'm constantly fantasizing about her having sex with other men, particularly big black men. It turns me on thinking that she is enjoying/ pleased more especially as they have a bigger p...

Are my large breasts an impediment to finding and dating a guy? I feel my breasts are a turn-off.

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 3257 days ago

26 April 2015 (F) - I have large breasts ,( an e cup )and have been single a while now . It seems to me that men don't like big breasts and actually find them a turn off. I am beginning to feel insecure and think no man will ever want me as every guy I talk to or re...

Any advice for me regarding my Girlfriend's actions during her previous relationship re nude photos sent to her now ex?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3309 days ago

26 April 2015 (M) - My girlfriend has sent her nude photos to her ex about 2 years ago and that is over now. she said there was nothing more to that (like sex). She and I are together about a month and I really care for her and she does the same. She told me this bec...

Would it be wrong make up an alternative story for officials about how we met? She is my fiancée and we met via webcam. She was a webcam model.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3308 days ago

25 April 2015 (M) - I met a woman. She was a webcam model. We fell in love, got engaged, and now are planning weddings. She is from Russia, me USA. We applied for fiancé visa and have the interview next week in Moscow. They will also ask us how we met, but we ar...

Should his voyeurism concern me? How can I believe that I am the woman for him when all his thousands of saved images of women all look nothing like me?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 3308 days ago

25 April 2015 (F) - i am currently engaged to my partner of just over 2years. I have since constantly found images he has taken of women in public, on screens or saved of women. Also the usual porn etc... On his phone, email, playstation, in our new home (dvd's, ...

Is it too risky to spend time with this very sexually experienced guy considering that I want to remain celibate until I marry?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3310 days ago

25 April 2015 (F) - Hi, About 3 months ago I met this guy and we started talking! he told me that when he was in high school and university so let's say a time frame from 18-24 he lived a pretty risqué lifestyle..and has been with a lot of women! he was in serious r...

Was my friend right to assume that I wasn't invited to a mutual friend's party?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3309 days ago

25 April 2015 (F) - Shouldn't my friend have invited me to a mutual friend's party? Our mutual friend and I had some misunderstandings about a party she was holding, she asked me and my boyfriend to come over to what I thought was a couples date, and my boyfriend was...

How can I determine if he still loves me? Or confirm it's over?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3305 days ago

25 April 2015 (M) - My boyfriend is not talking to me any more ! we started this relationship 2 months ago, we loved each other ! i am sure about my feelings and i was sure about his feelings , but since last week everything has changed ! i don't know why, for no r...

My daughter is being so excluded in her class by her classmates. How can this ostracism be dealt with?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3310 days ago

25 April 2015 (F) - Hi, My daughter is being so excluded in her class. And the girls ignore her and don't really want to hangout with her. This of course has affected her and of course concerns me. She is almost 11, beautifull both inside and out., sweet but on the...

How mean is too mean? Who should pay for what in our relationship?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3305 days ago

25 April 2015 (F) - Who pays for what in our two year relationship? Ok here is my dilemma and one that has really upset me to the point I am considering walking away because it has affected my respects for him. I am sure there will be many comments as I have googl...

It's been a week and I am just want to stop crying. What's my next move to get over this breakup and all the hurt?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3309 days ago

25 April 2015 (F) - Hi, I have recently got out a 3+ year affair with a married man I work with. We met when we both started at this company. We were both new to this city and with his family still based in his hometown, started hanging out a lot. He was the init...

When I mentioned I'd had a bad day he changed the subject. Is this lack of empathy an indication that he doesn't care as much as I thought he did?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3310 days ago

25 April 2015 (F) - i'm not sure if i am over reacting or this is the sign for me to say bye to this guy. Hes 28, i'm 25, both from same country and same religion. we met of a matrimonial website. Cutting it short, we've been speaking for a short period of t...

What can I say or do? My libido is irksome for my Bf. Recently his persistence has led to doing things that made me uncomfortable.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3310 days ago

25 April 2015 (F) - Ive been in a relationship for almost 4 years now and for the most part everything is great. However, when I started on birth control my sex drive decreased dramatically and when I switched from the pill to the implant it didn't get much better....

I feel stuck. Is it reasonable that I feel so hurt at his lack of priority for me in his life?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3309 days ago

25 April 2015 (F) - I have just ended a relationship with my boyfriend due to his lack of time for me. He says he will come over and talk but says he is busy and has a lot on with work. He is self employed but spends a lot of time procrastinating and chatting to custo...

Should just leave it or ask my mother why she felt the need to say such a thing?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3306 days ago

25 April 2015 (F) - I had my first child when I was 17 with my now ex boyfriend. Due to ill health my mother spent a lot of time looking after my child as I have epilepsy and found it hard to handle both at the time. As my mother couldn't take my epilepsy away bu...

Three months. What can I do to forget him? why did he cheat?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3310 days ago

25 April 2015 (F) - How do I let go? Its been three months.. I still miss him. I mean he left, he cheated, and we go to the same college and live like across the road I can see when I am walking to school or leaving my apt if he's there. I get a sense of happine...

I love him so much. But when he's been drinking he says nasty things and is argumentative. Why is trying to ruin our relationship?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3308 days ago

25 April 2015 (F) - My partner is for the most part a very loving kind man who says he adores me and I am his world. However he likes to drink on his nights off work (he works nights) and when he has had too much to drink sometimes he can lose his temper big time. I...

Will my fiance from another country be able to accept my culture? I think he's jealous

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3310 days ago

24 April 2015 (F) - Will my overseas born fiance be able to accept my American culture? He is so very loyal and romantic and attentive to me. I'm really in love with him. I think it's a miracle to find love halfway across the planet. I'm in the u.s. and he's from an...