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Archived questions from: 22 January, 2011 (see latest in Trust issues category)

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Trust issues: Help and advice

My boss wants to meet up with me on the weekend!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5055 days ago

22 January 2011 (F) - My Boss has asked if he can join me on a night out!He asked what I was upto at the weekend, I told him I was going to watch a local band play at my local and he said "i'd like to join you sometime for a drink", he then said "sorry there's me ...

What if I never meet anyone?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5055 days ago

22 January 2011 (?) - heyy well my other problem is i know im only young but im scared of never meeting someone as there are no bisexuals or lesbians in my year and im scared that the next 4 years or whatever of my life im gunna be alone and not be able to experiment and ...

He is my best friend and my worst nightmare!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5056 days ago

22 January 2011 (F) - Ive been dating a guy for almost three years and I still feel hot for him one week and cold for him the next. He makes me feel loved and needed and we can be the best of friends like it comes naturally. Then he will show his irritated and angry ...

I don't know what to do and I feel helpless.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5055 days ago

22 January 2011 (M) - Ok where do I start. Well first off me and my girlfriend have been together for five years. We loved each other very much and helped each other get through very tough times in our life. She has always dealt with bouts depression and I have helped ...

I'm nervous and don't know what move to make next!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5055 days ago

22 January 2011 (F) - Ok so i recently met this guy at a bar. He immediately came up to me and asked me if i would like a drink. So we ended up chatting for the rest of the night, and he walked me home. We then spent the rest of the night talking. Finally, I started ...

I might be being taken for a ride ...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5056 days ago

22 January 2011 (M) - I was broken up with!!! The girl I was involved with is 25 and is trying to finish her degree. She called me almost a month after we broke up and started to tell me of her financial problems; and was thinking of working at a strip club to pay for ...

Everytime we make plans to hang out something comes up!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5056 days ago

22 January 2011 (M) - She says that she wants to go out with me and that she likes me, and i like here back, but every time we try to go out something always happens and we never do go out...this is like the 4th time its happened...what should i do...i already talked to ...

I am pregnant, we broke up, now what?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5055 days ago

22 January 2011 (F) - my boyfriend and i broke up like 3 days ago. and i was panning to move on so i asked him if that was okay since i am having his kid. he said that he didnt wont me to move on because i have his kid. he said he didnt wont me to give his kid a ste...

I don't understand why guys are so confusing!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5055 days ago

22 January 2011 (F) - The other day i was walking in the hall and my crush was there and i think he touched my waist but im not sure if it was an accident or not. He was walking the other way and i think he saw me but he kept walking toward me and his friend was kinda ...

My boyfriend doesn't treat me the same anymore.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5056 days ago

22 January 2011 (F) - My boyfriend doesn't treat me the same anymore. What can I do? he used to text me all the time, but I'm lucky if i get one without asking a question what I need the answer to.. and most of the time one worded. He never makes the effort to come s...

I feel stuck and unsure what to do

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5054 days ago

22 January 2011 (F) - I was wondering if anyone one has gone through a similar situation and how you dealt with it. (And thanks for reading this) My boyfriend and I have been together a little over 3years, me 22 and him 24. We have been in a long distance relatio...

My boyfriend is in a band that has two attractive girls. How can I stop feeling insecure?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5056 days ago

22 January 2011 (F) - I have a boyfriend of 4 months. I am 15 going on 16. I absolutely love him to bits, he is everything to me and I never, ever, ever want to lose him! Everything has been going perfectly, he treats me like his only girl and we spend as much time as ...

Is it unreasonable for me to expect my boyfriend to be over it by now?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5055 days ago

22 January 2011 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend for 3 years now and he is very lovely and we are happy together. in the first stages of our relationship i "cheated" on him with this guy we'll call Harry. By "cheated" i mean we used to email eachother all the time, ...

Should I say that I'm in love with him? Even though he's a player?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5056 days ago

22 January 2011 (F) - Hey everyone! It's been a long time since i didn't post any questions in here.. fortunately ;) haha... Well, i have a new "problem". ( This is going 2 be a long text! lol ) I fell in love with a guy who's a player.. i guess.. we met each other on my ...

I'm feeling uneasy about her close friendship with this guy!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5054 days ago

22 January 2011 (M) - I have been dating my girlfriend for a year and a half now, and just recently have been realizing the magnitude of her relationship with her male friend. He is living in North Carolina and we are in Arizona. They have been friends longer than we ...

Am I just being used here or is he really in love with me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5056 days ago

22 January 2011 (F) - ok heres my question. ive had a bf for almost a year last week we were hanging out together went clubbing and i asked him how come he decided to come over to me the day we met? he told me that it was because he just had to have me and then he said...

Should I forgive and forget if she still insists on seeing this group at her college?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5055 days ago

22 January 2011 (M) - My girlfriend and I have been dating for about 7 months, and love eachother very much. We go to different colleges, and she has a lot of guy friends that she hangs out with on the weekends. She always tells me that they respect our relationship and ...

How can I make my boyfriend feel better about my past?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5040 days ago

22 January 2011 (F) - I am a 17 year old girl, and my boyfriend is 19. We've only been dating for about 2 months, and I just recently got out of an abusive relationship of a year. He knows this, of course. He can't seem to get over the fact that we messed around, even ...

All of a sudden he doesn't trust me and thinks I'm lying

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5056 days ago

22 January 2011 (F) - Dear Cupid me and my boyfriend clicked right away and we moved in together the same night as our first date we've been together Every day since that day for the past 2months now all of a sudden there's a matter of him thinking I'm lieng and the ...

Big crush, like very much, or love, or lust? How do I tell which feelings are love?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5056 days ago

22 January 2011 (F) - Hey, so I need some advice. How do you know love when you, well, know it? I know it's silly since I'm only 13. Yeah, I've gone through a few crushes, like, 'oh that new kid is hot', yada yada. In 3 grade, I even 'dated' a guy.. For one recess. B...

My scrooge husband does not care about my financial problems. Is this normal in a marriage?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5057 days ago

22 January 2011 (F) - My husband doesn't care that I have financial problems. I was adjusting for green card last year. During that time my working permit expired and lost my full time job. But he still wants me to pay my share of the rent. He doesn't care my account is ...

Facebook use by my husband is destroying our marriage. What can I do to fix this problem?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5054 days ago

22 January 2011 (F) - I found out a week ago that my husband of 16 years has been comunicating with Facebook Poker young women, that look, well..."slutty", he doesn't know them, in fact, some are not even American. Some of the things that I saw that he wrote to these ...

Last year I slept with a co-worker. Now she will not let me forget it. How do I handle the problems she's causing me?

This question has 20 answers - newest was posted 5054 days ago

22 January 2011 (M) - In November, I slept with a co-worker. I'm married and I know I screwed up. Right after it happened, I felt guilty and told her that it would never happen again.Well, my wife works with us, and the co-worker has been dropping hints left and righ...

If he will not use this separation to work on our marriage then why should I hold out hope that we'll ever get back together?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5056 days ago

22 January 2011 (F) - My husband and I have been separated a couple weeks now. We decided we needed to separate when it didn't seem like things were getting better at home. He is not sure what he wants and I have been willing and ready to work through our problems. He ...

Am I just nothing to him now? Does he just forget me, completely, after years of marriage?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5051 days ago

22 January 2011 (?) - Does a man just forget his wife after he finds a new woman, even when he knows he was at fault for cheating does he just forget his wife, after 18 years, I was good to him... Can he just forget me just like that... i fought for him back begged h...

If guys know they love a girl, then do they still want to party and see girls, instead of settling down now?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5057 days ago

22 January 2011 (F) - I met a guy, dated for a month, broke up and didn't speak for a month and a half. Then started talking again and became best friends. It's been six months since we've become best friends, we're each others only best friends, and we recently admi...

How do I stop being so accomodating to guys? I want a long term meaningful relationship

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5057 days ago

22 January 2011 (F) - I have always made bad choices in guys, form high school until now...I've had long term relationships but never meaningful one I was always quick to make them happy doing everything I thought they wanted me to do (pushover). Most of the time I had se...

Do I end it with my gf and also hurt my two children? or end it with the girl I feel is my soul mate?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 5053 days ago

22 January 2011 (M) - Hello wise people, I did something I thought I would never do. I had an affair. Now before anyone goes tut, that was me, before it happened. I met this amazing girl at my girlfriend's work. We clicked from day one and it was at first, just the ...