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writes:Hi, last night my 3 friends and I decided we were all gonna get dressed and ready for winterball together. But at the last minute one of them bailed and went with other girls, even though we had been planing for weeks. So my other friend and I get to the dance and think its sooo boring and want to leave so we call her 18 year old boyfriend (we are 15) to come get us. My friend who bails makes a scene infront of her friends how we are idoits to trust this guy. But we both really really trust him. She tells us "do what you want!" and stormed off. We went with him and he was a complete gentle man to us we all just sat at starbucks and talked and then he took us back. I knew we could trust him but now can we trust our friend who bailed? Reply to this Question
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reader, LadyIris +, writes (31 January 2011):
LadyIris is verified as being by the original poster of the question Um no ok im gonna put it this way A (is my friend who bailed) B (is my friend who came with me) we left with B's bf not A's because the dance was super boring
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reader, ShiShisAdvice +, writes (30 January 2011):
 Hmm...you all are cut from the same cloth.You're "friend" who went out with the other girls, is of course not your friend. You were not good enough for her, she thought she'd have more fun with the other girls. And you should NEVER have called her man. Two sides of the same mirror.
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reader, Cherrie_StPierre  +, writes (30 January 2011):
 This friend doesn't sound like a very good friend at all. And she sounds a bit jealous too. I wouldn't take any notice of how she is reacting and I would slowly disconnect yourself from her. If you can't trust your friends, they shouldn't be your friends. xoxoxox
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