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Archived questions from: 2 January, 2011 (see latest in Trust issues category)

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Trust issues: Help and advice

How come being a devoted girlfriend is not enough?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5075 days ago

2 January 2011 (F) - Trying to make the decision either to ignore statements or end it w boyfriend. Been together 8 years. Tired of his comments that he would like to see me w another man or women. I understand more of him wanting to see me w another women, most men...

I'm trying to interpret what these words imply and mean to our relationship?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5076 days ago

2 January 2011 (F) - I'm Asian and my boyfriend (in his mid 30s) is American, I have a few questions here regarding endearment in English as I don't speak English as my first language. 1) we call eachother babe/baby, is that the title people only use on their spec...

Guys want girls to be exclusive but don't want to be exclusive themselves

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5075 days ago

2 January 2011 (F) - Why do guys always feel like they can make a girl commit to him exclusively and not the other way around?Meaning the girl cannot have her say, like express her feelings of commitment (ask him to be her boyfriend), or something like that, whatever it ...

I'm scared he likes her more than me. He's dumped me and hurt me before. What are my options?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5069 days ago

2 January 2011 (F) - My boyfriend broke up with me about a month ago. He then asked for me back, telling me all he could think about was me and that he just wanted to be with me. He and I then went to hang out, and he wanted me to have sex with him. I kept telling him ...

I doubt she will ever leave her boyfriend for me, another girl

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5070 days ago

2 January 2011 (F) - i'm bi, and so is my best friend. we both have boyfriends. the thing is, im in love with her...every day i enjoy seeing her. we hug and constantly flirt (sometimes people think we're lesbians, but we dont care...we tell eachother we love eachother ...

In a LDR and I don't like how I'm getting sexual relief and don't want to tell him either. But I do want to stop. But how?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4771 days ago

2 January 2011 (F) - My boyfriend is abroad..and would remain so for another year. We have made out 3-4 times in person. And now we maintain touch through video chats, emails, sms etc. We continue our physical bonding also by doing it together either on voice or cam. ...

My best friend and I haven't talked for 2 months. She refuses my apologies. What can I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5076 days ago

2 January 2011 (F) - Well my bestfriend and i haven't talked for 2 months, we got into a huge argument and we decided to just stop talking. Its killing me inside, we used to do everything together, sports, mall, family events, etc. Now that she's gone i feel empty and ...

My husband's GF is harrassing me. My husband's screaming at me. We are in debt. What can I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5075 days ago

2 January 2011 (F) - Help, i'm 29 and was happily married for five years with three children when my husband told me he had an affair, the reason he told me was she was blackmailing him. I was wrong she is pestering me by phone, text, E-mail, facebook, in person. i have ...

My girlfriend is doing things she would not let me do. What's going on?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5076 days ago

2 January 2011 (M) - my gilfriend met my mate off facebook and met him in town, and i think a bit of flirting - because i went with them, and she is going to town with him tomorrow as well. i wont to meet my friend which is a girl, with her friends. And my girlfriend ...

Whats wrong with me? I push people I love away!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5076 days ago

2 January 2011 (F) - FYI, I'm a 15 year old girl who's never dated and I really wanna this year.Purely my decision. Theres a guy that i really care about, we fell for eachother but once it got to making our relationship official, I started treating him bad (like ig...

I want to initiate an affair with a married friend of my wife and mine

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 5073 days ago

2 January 2011 (M) - I am a married man,38. I have strong feelings for an older woman who is also married and is a friend of us. I can tell from her looks that she has the same feeling. Nothing has happened up to this moment, not a word expressed, nothing at all. Ca...

I don't know what to think!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5075 days ago

2 January 2011 (M) - I'm not sure what to believe. I need help, my wife of 30 years told me in her words she had an encounter with a friend a little over a year ago. She said they took off their clothes and kissed and she gave him a handjob but he never touched her at ...

My wife doesn't want sex and I don't want an affair

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 5048 days ago

2 January 2011 (F) - My wife has not wanted sex for over 2 years. Should i consider a prostitute. I do not want an affair....

What happened to just falling in love?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5048 days ago

2 January 2011 (F) - it used to be about finding your soulmate, whoever they might be, whatever they might be like - blonde, redhead, blue eyed, mixed race, it didnt matter if you loved them. Now days people care more about looks than personality and it bothers me, why ...

I've tried to be a friend, but I have been played for a fool

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5076 days ago

2 January 2011 (F) - sorry for the length but please guys can anyone advise. ive known a guy for over a year. I thought we were good friends hes had a lot of personal issues and trauma which ive been there for him, hes borrowed a fairly large amount £400 ? in bits over ...

I don't think he is cheating but somethings not quite right

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5076 days ago

2 January 2011 (F) - I started to date my best friend more than a year ago. Everything has been great except that right before our vacations get gets a sharp pain on his back, and it ended up being his kidney being almost useless and dead so they ended up removing it. ...

My husband wants me to abort our baby because his parents will otracise us

This question has 22 answers - newest was posted 5068 days ago

2 January 2011 (F) - I have been married for 1 year and have been with my husband for two (2) years. We have a 13 month old daughter together and he has a three (3) year old boy from a previous relationship, whom we have part-time custody of. My husbands parents were ...

I want to know if I am in the green zone

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5076 days ago

2 January 2011 (M) - i am in love with a colleague from work who is going away to europe to meet a guy who i guess wants to marry her shes not sure hell be there or have a ring hes her age and has no job while she has expensive taste whereas i will soon be ...

I sent a boy embarassing pictures of myself

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5073 days ago

2 January 2011 (F) - Hello I'm seeking good advice these are the details to my DilEmma I'm an 18 tease old female soon to be 19 in a few months,I'm not a virgin but in FebuAry it will be a year since I decided sex is for marrige,the begginibg of my abstinence. Six mont...

I just want him to kiss me ...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5071 days ago

2 January 2011 (F) - I've written here before about this guy. We've been seeing each other for about 3 months. During that time he's been recovering from a surgery. We talk 24/7 via phone calls, text, and get together about once a week. Last night, New Year's Eve, we ...

My friends hate my boyfriend!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5050 days ago

2 January 2011 (F) - i am in a relationship with a guy and my friends hate him so we have to sneak everything we do but i hate doing it cuz we are madly in love what should i do?...

I am depressed and confused and don't know what to do

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5075 days ago

2 January 2011 (F) - I'm so depressed. i cannot get over my ex who dumped me. my aunt told me that i have unresolved issues that i have to resolve b4 i can move on. the problem is i don't know what it is or how i may go about resolving. help...

I like to cuddle my best friend

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4312 days ago

2 January 2011 (F) - My friend, who is a girl, and I are best friends. We are really close and I trust her with almost everything. We have sleepovers a lot and always sleep in same bed and cuddle. Is that wrong? sometimes we stay up all night just hugging or rubbing ...

Not sure what to do. Fiance threw her ring at me after a huge fight. I think I've had enough.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5076 days ago

2 January 2011 (M) - Not quite sure what to do here. My fiance of 3 months (dated a total of 2 years 5 months.. lived together for a year and a half) and I got into a big blowout over how I "never listen" and take friends opinions more seriously and how I "lie" about ...

How can I turn my life around so I don't feel the way I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5076 days ago

2 January 2011 (F) - I go to an all guy school.... There's only 2 other girls and I'm not Friends with anyone there... It's a school for bad behavior and learning dissabilitys... I have troubles around males... And bad trusting issues... My biological dad abused me and ...

I'm so attached to him, but was he trying to break communication? But then implied 'friends' only ?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5053 days ago

2 January 2011 (F) - A guy and I were communicating on Skype as friends b/c we are Long distance. We've known each other for 5 years now since we met in person. We used to email before then we turned to Skype and he erased me from his contacts so I thought he cut-ted me ...

I can't tell him what happened. And I can't face him. What should I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5076 days ago

2 January 2011 (F) - Long story short I had sex with my friend last night and he came in me.. It's 9 days after my period so I'm assuming I'm pregnant.. He bought me the morning after pill and I took it asap.. I guess about 18 hours after we had sex.. How do I even look ...

I am a closeted male. How can I deal with my crush?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5076 days ago

2 January 2011 (M) - Hello Everyone! Thank-you for taking your time to read this. I am a closeted male who feels that he has issues when it comes to liking someone. I notice that when I like someone I fall extremely quickly. Right now I have a crush on someone who I ha...

Am I too close to my best friend?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5077 days ago

Will she think I'm only rekindling the relationship because I'm ill?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5075 days ago

2 January 2011 (M) - To make a long story short, years ago I had an affair with a woman I fell passionately in love with, and it lasted over 5 years. My wife found out about the affair, and of course the usual problems were a part of this situation, however I did no...

So confused, I do still love him, but I love myself too!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5077 days ago

2 January 2011 (F) - To be honest, I do not know what is going on but I will try to explain it. Five years ago, I met this guy and we started dating. This was around 2006. We ended up talking until 2008. At that point we went to different colleges and distance was...