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Archived questions from: 5 January, 2011 (see latest in Trust issues category)

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Trust issues: Help and advice

My fiance is into sheMale porn and has listed himself as bisexual on a dating site. I want him to be faithful and honest to me

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5063 days ago

5 January 2011 (F) - My fiance is into porn like just about every other normal Joe out there. I have no problem with this. I have no problem with him viewing the occasional she-male porn either. I get that some guys just need to look at different things. However, ...

I want more interaction between my ex wife, the kids and my girlfriend

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5060 days ago

5 January 2011 (M) - Back story: After a really dead marriage, I left the family domicile 2 yrs ago, where my ex and 2 younger children still reside. After a few months of living apart, my ex and I made a casual attempt at getting back together without the knowledge of ...

The sex with my new guy just happened. Now I don't know what he thinks of me. How can we go forward?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5073 days ago

5 January 2011 (F) - So basically I dated my boyfriend since high school and everything seemed great. We were worried about our relationship because we were going to different colleges but after a couple months we knew everything would be okay. As I got into my first ...

I don't know if hes only using me for my body.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5071 days ago

5 January 2011 (F) - I like this guy hes 17 and im 15 he kissed me, and felt me up the other day and wanted to go further, this does not suprise me because we have talked about going further. But i didnt, i just didnt feel as if we were ready to take that step. Later we ...

Can an online romance ever turn from friend to lover?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5073 days ago

5 January 2011 (F) - I recently met someone online who pursued me like crazy for about a month, we had a great mental connection as he could even finish my sentences for me. Well before meeting we ended up having virtual sex online. Just describing what ...

He's been seeing me since October, but he told me not to tell anyone. Why is he doing this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5073 days ago

5 January 2011 (F) - A guy and I have been talking for a while at school, he always sits by me, and smiles when he sees me. but he won't admit to his friends that he likes me. i don't know why, and it's not like i'm just somebody to stay away from, he told me to not tell...

It hurts when he looks at other women

This question has 22 answers - newest was posted 5020 days ago

5 January 2011 (F) - Hi, I need some insights... My bf and I are in a great relationship for over a year and half, we love each other so much and we plan on getting married. But he's a MAN and he can't help looking at other women. I know, they say it's normal, "m...

Is he using some external sexual source?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5072 days ago

5 January 2011 (F) - Here is my situation I have been married for 9 years together for 13 years. We also have 5 children I have anyone else to ask. About a month ago I told my husband to give my daughter her phone back he said he needs to change the number first because ...

How do I force him to seek help?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5073 days ago

5 January 2011 (F) - Hello, and thanks in advance I've been with my bf for 2.5 years and its been a constant battle more so this last 1.5 I'm unable to go anywhere with gf's unless he is present, unable to have my own privacy on Facebook without him having acce...

Which way do I turn?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5073 days ago

5 January 2011 (F) - Not sure which way to turn. There is a lot wrong in my marriage right now and it's not one persons fault more than the other. Granted there are things he has done that i disapprove of and he thinks he did nothing wrong as well as I'm sure there are ...

He's distant after I caught him sexting my friend!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5073 days ago

5 January 2011 (F) - I need help figuring things out. My boyfriend of almost 4 years has always been faithfull and full of love twards me up until two weeks ago. I just returned from a trip to my home town and decided while he was sleeping to look at his phone just ...

Am I a terrible person to behave this way when I should be giving support?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5073 days ago

5 January 2011 (F) - Am i a terrible person to behave this way when i should be giving support? My partner and i have been having this on off relationship for sometime now, he has moved out. The thing is we have 2 kids, my youngest is 2 and when he was a baby, about ...

How do I know there are no other secrets and if I can ever trust him again??

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5073 days ago

5 January 2011 (F) - He doesn't respect me enough to tell me about things when I told him everything about me and has lied to me. He wouldn't talk about his past, only the good things that happened and they were far and few in between. He knows my past, my present, ...

Why is he looking at porn when he has an available, willing wife in his bed??

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5071 days ago

5 January 2011 (F) - My husband and I are both in our twenties and have only been married a few months. We're expecting our first child and ever since we've been together I've always been very sexual with him. Since I've been pregnant, my sex drive has doubled and Ive ...

I really love my girlfriend and our daughter but I love her 18 yo cousin more

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5072 days ago

5 January 2011 (M) - Ok, so here is my situation. My girlfriend and I have been together for 7 years we have a 5 year old daughter. The first couple years were great but the middle was horrible. We got together at 19 and I made some mistakes in the relationship that I ...

He wont tell me how old he is!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5073 days ago

5 January 2011 (F) - Is it weird for a man not to tell you how old he is when you ask? Especially if it's a man you've been out on a few dates with? He refuses to tell me and gets defensive. I didn't think it was a big deal at the time, so I dropped it. But now I'm...

He tells me he misses me and then blows me off!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5073 days ago

5 January 2011 (F) - Not sure what to ask my bf and father of our unborn child is out of state he has been gone for almost a month. it took him 2 weeks to even call me after he reached his destination he called me on christmas crying saying he misses his home town ...

My parents wont let me see my boyfriend

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5074 days ago

5 January 2011 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been dating for at least 2 years and my parents will not let me see him. We go to the same school around the same age, we are even both mixed. He's perfect for me. I know because even though we fight we always talk it out. ...

She has ignored me since I called her out for slapping me!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5073 days ago

5 January 2011 (M) - Should my friend Jill be ignoring me because I called her out for slapping me in the face? It was new years eve, a friends house, according to her It was my "stupid little comments about everything" that gave her the idea to slap me in front of a ...

Why is he making an issue out of nothing?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5074 days ago

5 January 2011 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been dating for 7 years. Today he accused me of hugging my male co-workers on the job. All I said was hi to the guy and my boyfriend defined hi to mean hug. Then he lied and said he didn't know who the co-worker was when we ...

Should I forgive her?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5073 days ago

5 January 2011 (M) - Ok so I'm in love with my girl best friend. Its very complicated so I will start from the beginning. Well I have known this girl from like 3rd grade. So were really good friends till highschool. Since then she had crush on me for like a year but I ...

How can I make him see that I'm sick and tired of being treated this way, and I've had enough?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5074 days ago

5 January 2011 (F) - Hello thanks in advance Well to start this off, I've been with my bf for 2.5 years. He's a contolling person, which I didn't really notice until we moved in together. He has to have his way most of the time. He's taken me out maybe 5 times ...