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Archived questions from: 17 January, 2011 (see latest in Trust issues category)

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Trust issues: Help and advice

My lies are compounding her trust issues

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5094 days ago

17 January 2011 (M) - Hey, I'm having problems with my girlfriend and due to these problems I've had to turn to you and no one else. So thank you in advance for offering the service. I've been with my girlfriend for over a year now and it's kind of serious, but I l...

I catch my friend in lies and it hurts me

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5093 days ago

17 January 2011 (F) - i have a good male friend who i care for very much and we get on really well. heres the problem-he lies and im hurt at why he does it to me when he says he trusts me and im a good friend to him. for example he said in his previous job he was a ...

We have a 6 month old child but I keep looking at other men. Am I a bad girlfriend?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5077 days ago

17 January 2011 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend for 6 years, we have a 6 month old son. And recently i've found myself looking at other men and really really wanting them? i've told my boyfriend and he said hes hurt by it but wont talk about it. He works nights and ...

Do I trust him? Or be worried?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5093 days ago

17 January 2011 (?) - My boyfriend of a year and a half has never really gave me a reason to not trust him. i mean we have had arguments about other girls and things. the main thing that is a problem is he is a dj and does lighting for different clubs so there is always ...

Suspicious texts, tights in the bed and a drinking problem....

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5094 days ago

17 January 2011 (F) - I am very happy and have a boyfriend who I'm engaged to we are very happy together although lately he has been spending longer and longer at work, he also has sone very suspicious texts on hid phone and flirty messages such as 'I'll splash you' I ...

Should I feel guilty? What do you think?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5092 days ago

17 January 2011 (F) - I seem to worry about everything that would make my boyfriend angry, you could say im walking on egg shells. Tonight we finished , i made the decision, im not sure whether it was the right thing but soo after id text my ex just to literally see how ...

Once we graduate will our relationship survive in the real world?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5094 days ago

17 January 2011 (F) - Hello guys, My brother told me that guys will change once they step into the society to work. Is it really true that there is a high chance that my boyfriend, who is graduating this year together with me. My brother shared with me some stor...

Should I trust what he says?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5094 days ago

17 January 2011 (F) - I'm not exactly sure what to do in this situation. Around this time last year I met this guy and we began a little "thing" and we hung out on a weekly basis. One night we ended up having sex and then the day after he completely ditched me and I was ...

No sex, arguments and I think he is planning to leave.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5056 days ago

17 January 2011 (F) - Ok, this may be long but I'm desperate for help. Me and my husband have been together for nearly five years and have two children together. Ever since I had found out I was pregnant with out now 7 month old son he seemed to change a bit. We went ...

Dating a month and he doesn't call me every day. Is this going nowhere?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5094 days ago

17 January 2011 (F) - Help! I have been seeing this guy a little over a month and it is really going nowwhere. He dosent call me everyday and when he does the conversation is short. I tried to break up with him last week but he called and said he wanted to be with me. He ...

Torn between my childhood sweetheart and a lovely guy

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5093 days ago

17 January 2011 (F) - Okay, so i have gotten myself into a huge dilema. Seven months ago me and my childhood sweetheart met up and within a few weeks we were an item. I really loved him. He has been in foster care his whole life so i was always weary. Four months into ...

Confusion between my heart and my head...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5093 days ago

17 January 2011 (F) - I am 24 years old, and have been dating a 44 y.o man for a year and two months. We have been in a long distance relationship since we met, with a four hour distance between us but we still managed to see each other nearly every week due to our work ...

Meeting his parents is a big issue for me but he won't allow it

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5094 days ago

17 January 2011 (F) - Hi, I have been dating my boyfriend for one year and three months now, i have been asking him to meet his parents since but he wont allow me to; he was married and is older than i am, he says he told them about me, i am not making any excuses ...

If I do all he wants even if I'm not in the mood will this make things any better?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5092 days ago

17 January 2011 (F) - Me and my boyfriend have been going through a load of issues and i dont know what to do anymore. im nervous around him as i dont totally feel 100% safe anymore which sounds horrid i know. He wrestled my phone off me, has chucked me and my stuff ...

Am I an awful person for not wanting him to go on a boys holiday?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5091 days ago

17 January 2011 (F) - My bf broke my heart a year ago by lying and meeting up with his ex/saving half-naked photos of her on his computer. We made up and he's been good since then.My trust is SLOWLY starting to build up, but by no means is it there yet. He suddenly ...

Break up or work it out?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5094 days ago

17 January 2011 (F) - i really like this guy... since i was 5.. we used to go to the same church, but we fought alot. people always said wen we were older, we'd get married. 11 yrs later we got together, an i was really elated.. within those 11 yrs i had been with oth...

I need a good guy to marry. But how can I stop being attracted to loving bad boys?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5094 days ago

17 January 2011 (F) - Recently i hooked up with my friend. I've known him about 8 yrs. I really love him but he can't do anything for me. Love is all he can offer. i'm young, pretty smart and good looking. And i've got a permanent job at a well known orga...

Can I hope for a long term commitment, as no one wants to marry me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5094 days ago

17 January 2011 (F) - I'm getting lonely and old. I've never been married and have only one child. I'm not picky on guys, I just don't like creepies and players. I haven't been with a guy since 2007. I was a late bloomer. Didn't grow an interest in guys until I was 20. I ...

Why does she need this 'space' in our relationship? Is it a test? Or because of the medical news?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5094 days ago

17 January 2011 (M) - i have been dating this girl for 8 months now. Before we started dating we were friends for years.We both came from bad ex's both were abusive. also before we got together we both have said to each other, 'we should be with each other.' We both ...

I'm pregnant but my BF of 9 years has left to live with his new GF. I feel so vulnerable. What can I do to protect my babies and me from being homeless?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5094 days ago

17 January 2011 (F) - I am 5 months pregnant and have two toddler daughters. My boyfriend and I have been together for 9 years and we just bought a house. This is the first year he has made a lot of money since he opened his own business. He recently left the home stat...

She's the partner of my guy's best friend. How do I deal with this bossy woman? I'm all stressed out about it

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5094 days ago

17 January 2011 (F) - Big dilemma! I have been together with my boyfriend for almost 12 months - during this time we discovered that we were pregnant and have decided to go through with the pregnancy. Because of his income, we both decided it would be better if I moved ...

Despite our Stand-off I love him and want to settle down with him. What should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5094 days ago

17 January 2011 (F) - I thought I had met the love of my life. We both have had issues in the past and were badly wounded from other relationships. It was a whirlwind and we quickly moved in together. The pressure really got to us, and i moved out. We agreed to take ...

My wife want's a threesome with a younger woman as her birthday present. Seeking pointers to achieve this aim please

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5084 days ago

17 January 2011 (M) - Hello Dear Cupid, Good afternoon. So glad to have located your website because I need some help/advice from some of your other members. I am writing and submitting this post, mainly on behalf of my wife. I am married to an exceptionally wonderf...

I'm hurt he didn't reveal he had a girlfriend until later. What do you think of my idea to never contact him again?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5095 days ago

17 January 2011 (F) - I have this guy I fell in love with right from the first day I met him. We live in different cities but we talk, even though it's not as often as I want. Nor what am used to. I just take it like that because I think he's the ideal man I want to ...

He read my comment on facebook and totally misunderstood it

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5094 days ago

17 January 2011 (F) - Hi! I really dont know what to do about this guy i like. Ive been meeting him for about 3 months now. Everything has been great, we spend alot of time together, like each other and he recently asked me out, this week.. I said i didnt know what i ...