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Archived questions from: 19 January, 2011 (see latest in Trust issues category)

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Trust issues: Help and advice

I'm married and have a strong emotional attachment to a co-worker. How do I get out of this mess?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 3755 days ago

19 January 2011 (F) - I apologize in advance for the length and breadth of this posting, as it's going to be quite a novel. I've been going through a self-inflicted emotional turmoil for about two years or so now and I've not shared it with anyone close to me because I'm ...

His brother tried it on with me and I also think my bf is cheating on me. How do I handle this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5059 days ago

19 January 2011 (F) - My boyfriend and I been going out for almost a year....The thing is he used to be a player and so did i so we both have trust issues...Anyway The other day we got into a argument and he left me at his house with his brother. I was pissed and ...

I'm ashamed of what people would think if they knew I've never had a relationship. How can I interact more successfully with guys?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5058 days ago

19 January 2011 (F) - I'm 17 years old, turning 18 and i never had a boyfriend. I never even went out on a date or kissed a guy. A lot of guys have asked me out especially these last few months, but i always said no beacause they're just not my type, apart from one guy. ...

Is he still faking or is he desperate? Or do you think I've surmised his real reasons?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5059 days ago

19 January 2011 (M) - Well, I'm 15 and gay, and probably full of overused cliché, but I was with a guy for 9ish months, then he broke it with me. Obviously I was distraught, considering he was the first person I'd had feelings for, first person I'd ever been with, and a ...

Am I asking too much? Relationship feels like it's falling apart.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5059 days ago

19 January 2011 (F) - Is this asking too much?(this is long, sorry) I am in a fairly recent relationship with a guy I really like. He initiated it, and I originally skirted around the idea of a relationship altogether because life is very busy and stressful right...

I am not an ogler. I am a red blooded man who appreciates beauty, but only wants my partner!

This question has 26 answers - newest was posted 5020 days ago

19 January 2011 (M) - I am totally in love with my girlfriend of two years and we are both 35. The only problem is that when we go out she watches me like a hawk and if she sees me looking an attractive woman then she has a go at me. If a scantily dressed attractive ...

How can I stop myself from feeling like I want to punch my partner in the face?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5059 days ago

19 January 2011 (F) - So here is my story..... I have been with my partner for 5 years, the first few were rocky as we were both young and didn't know what we wanted, but after all that we moved in together and got on great. He would still often act like a young boy...

I hate the mind games!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5059 days ago

19 January 2011 (?) - Aah this is a typical teenage question, but there is this guy and everyone says they can see something between me and him he texts me every night without fail since christmas when we first started talking, he makes an effort with my friends and ...

Might be over thinking this, but do I have a right to be angry?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5059 days ago

19 January 2011 (M) - Might be some overthinking on my part, but do I have a right to be angry here? My gfs exams just finished so I thought, finally some time for the two of us, but as it turns out she made plans with a (male) friend of hers, whom I don't know. This...

I feel like I was played in the worst possible way!

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 5058 days ago

19 January 2011 (F) - Hey aunts. Little help will be appreciated. I've been going through a rough patch lately. So there is this guy, used to be my closest friend for a long time then, over a year ago his behavior started to change. To cut a long sory short he spent an ...

To trust or not to trust, that is the question. . .

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5058 days ago

19 January 2011 (M) - Well hello! I've been with the love of my life for 9 months roughly 10. Our jobs are weird for the schedules are as abstract as our relationship. I see her only on Saturday's and Sunday's sometimes Friday nights. The issue is not that I don't ge...

Skeptical about my boyfriend's faithfulness after finding him talking to another girl behind my back......

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5057 days ago

19 January 2011 (?) - j, 26, and i, 21, have been dating for over a year (off and on). what has caused us issues are the following: working together, his chemical dependencies, the lying and possibly cheating, my jealousy issues and lack of self esteem/trust, the fact ...

Responsibly Dating/Committing After Enduring Emotional Trauma. Rebound Unacceptable.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5059 days ago

19 January 2011 (F) - My best friend is deeply in love with me and recently asked me to marry him. The thing is I also love him but I'm uncertain if I am in love with him. He knows I love him platonically but when he asks if deeper more I shut completely down ...

Now I've got doubts about moving in with him. Can I trust him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5059 days ago

19 January 2011 (F) - My boyfriend has just been telling me about some of his usual behavior in relationships, and I'm not sure what to make of it. He said he's had one relationship that lasted over 3 months and all the rest he gets bored with and wants change, so sudd...

Who is the best choice for me out of my two suitors?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5060 days ago

19 January 2011 (F) - i have two suitors. one is a doctor the other suitor is a successful chinese businessman. the doctor is nice, sweet and passionate.but he has bad breath. While the chinese is caring and sweet. He has no bad breath and the chinese is very hygi...

What's a cool way to tell her I like her and I miss her?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5060 days ago

19 January 2011 (M) - I started speaking to a girl and after some time i started liking her. We used to talk daily on phone until recently, when she got busy with her college work. Yesterday i cracked a light joke on her saying, 'she doesn't pick the call anytime ...

Does my driving instructor like me? we're both single. He's 40, I'm 26

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5060 days ago

19 January 2011 (?) - So I'm having driving lessons at the minute. and i have feelings for my instructor he's a really nice guy in his 40's single tall dark, yada yada, anyway he's helped me out so much he's even got me a new job working for his brother at a local pub, ...

I'm bi. My loving man accepts my needs. But now I'm in love with a woman. Out of my mind with guilt. What can I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5060 days ago

19 January 2011 (F) - Hi Aunties I came her for some advice about guilt and love. I'm married to a good man for 22 years. we have 5 children and all but 2 of them are off to college. My husband treats us good. He's a good father and husband. He's always put us before ...

Why does he want to pick up women when he has me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4963 days ago

19 January 2011 (F) - A friend told me to look at some online forum for guys who feel like they need a little help with picking up women. It was filled with silly pick up lines and ridiculous little mind games. My friend thought it was hilarious but I found it a littl...

Can I trust my new Gf? Doubts keep creeping into my mind due to my previous gf.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5058 days ago

19 January 2011 (M) - I've recently started a relationship with a girl I met online. We met up, after talking online a while and things went great. I was nervous upon the first meeting. My main concern was about our attraction to each other. But as I mentioned, things ...

I like him, but I'm worried about his ex gf. Should I back away or try to go exclusively with him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5060 days ago

19 January 2011 (F) - I am seeing this guy I really like. But his ex gf used to be one of my best friends a until a few years ago. They broke up around 2 months ago. She put him through hell. She'd become very paranoid and jealous. She once snogged a guy who had eyes for ...

Best friend of my Ex seems interested. How should I handle this? I'm not over my ex yet.

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19 January 2011 (F) - So, my ex whom I lived with for two years (and still secretly have unresolved feelings for).. he left me 9 months ago and now has another girlfriend who is long distance.. Anyway, we always hung out with his one and only best friend.. I tried to d...