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writes:Hi everyone. Thank you for checking out my question. I really appreciate that.My girlfriend and I just broke up 1 week ago because of some stupid jealousy question she asked. Now she's giving hints to get back together. One of it is when I said I wanted to see her, she replied 'Come and see me.'One problem. I'm going to study overseas early January next year. I think she can't handle L.D.R(long distance relationship). I love her so much more than anything else. I really wanna be with her but I just think it'll be bad in the long run. One step I take to go overseas is a step away from her. I'm really devastated thinking about this.What should I do? I'm nailed on my seat thinking about this. Please help. I need you guys since I can't fully trust anyone around me to talk to about this.Thank you for your time guys.
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reader, Denise32 +, writes (2 November 2010):
 Good advice from both spiderpig and Mr. Nice Guy 451.
I would add that if you decide you want to stay in touch with her, then get a laptop - even a netbook such as Toshiba (which you can buy for less than $500) with wi-fi so you can "visit" via Skype. I think Skype is great for connecting with anyone long-distance......maybe stay as friends right now, because you can't really make plans for the future until you've completed your studies.
Good luck!
P.S. I'm thinking of getting a Toshiba netbook so I can check email, etc. when in London (which I visit frequently). It WILL work overseas.......
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reader, Nice_Guy_451 +, writes (2 November 2010):
I had an experience like this. My ex went to school miles away from me and we were still together. But we broke up after some time. And we did talk about getting back together, which we both wanted.
I would say the best thing to do is talk to her. See what she thinks about the situation. If you love her and she loves you back, if its strong enough, then it can last through it. And maybe the time you get before you leave will be incredible, worth the bad end.
Good luck with your situation and I hope it works out for the best.
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