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writes:Hi I would just like a bit of advice on how to maybe get over someone you can't have! I know everyone goes through this but I am finding it tough!Ok so you prob don't need the story but met guy got on great with eachother, clear chemistry there but he has a girlfriend so obviously nothing will happen. I like this guy a lot and think about him a lot. I have avoided the places I know he will be, but there is one place I can't avoid that we both go to. Any tips on how to get over this guy? Should when I see him just keep it short and sweet and not get into conversation. I know I should be his friend and show him the fun side of me but I think it may be too hard to be his friend.Thanks in advance
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 November 2010): Hi!
So, to start I would like to recommend you to stop avoiding the places where he might be because that'll make it worse for you. I know it's hard not to avoid it, but by doing so you're making the problem even bigger than it really is. So, gather up your courage and your best smile and go!
About forgetting him, just concentrate your every fiber into thinking about something else! Every time you'll think about him just say No (mentally, of course) and try to concentrate on something else.
I know I might "sound" mean but, believe me I did the same with my ex-boyfriend and the price I paid for it...I don't wish it to anyone.
I wish you the best of lucks!
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