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*mylee16610
writes:Hey,Im really confused about what i should do about my boyfriend. I love him so much, and i've waited two years for him, so it hurts to think of letting him go, but he sometimes says stuff that makes me think i can do better...he lives where i go on holiday (i go about 10 times a year so i see him all the time), but i took my friend on the most recent holiday and she is also 16. I was thinking sbout setting her up with someone there so she didn't feel like a third wheel so i mentioned about my boyfriends brother who is 29. I got them talking and when i went on holiday, they hit it off. Thinking back i shouldnt have introduced them as the age thing is SO bad i know. But my boyfriend thought this was really dodgy, as the age gap and also his brother ditched him to see my friend all the time. One night i was at his, and he went off in a strop cause 'he didn't want my friend and his brother' kissing exc in his house cause it was wrong'. That night he ditched me and i was up till 1 looking for him to talk to him. I was crying really bad and he blamed me for everything, and said that it's my fault cause i brought my friend down. I just felt like i couldnt control what she decided to do, and it was only supposed to be for the week i was down. We sorted out that problem ... but then, the last night i was there, i dressed up for halloween, nothing slutty just a dress and heels. Ok my cleavage was showing a little, but not loads my mum didnt say anything. ... but when i saw him he said ' oh your dressed like a slut again' with a grin. That hurt, and he was kicking off saing like he doesnt like it cause when he comes out with me he hates seeing all the lads look at me all the time, and i told him to stop being so insecure and he turned it round and said i basicly meant he's not alllowed to have feelings. I let that slip, but i dont' understand him. Is he just insecure? Thanks. x
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reader, Amylee16610 +, writes (2 November 2010):
Amylee16610 is verified as being by the original poster of the question Yeah i knoww it was stupid, to be honest i didnt actually believe anything would come of it, :\
But it did, i dont' know why he's interested either ... it is worrying itsnt it.
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reader, Miss Taterbutt  +, writes (2 November 2010):
 I am more concerned about why you would set-up a 16-year-old, with a 29-year-old man. The fact that his brother even went for that screams volumes of pedophilia.
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