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writes: i absolutely love my gf but lately she's been acting odd, she gets annoyed when i kiss her once and is always on edge thinking that the teachers and security guards at our school are waiting and watching us thinking that once we kiss or hug we'll go to boot camp. i'm not sure whats happening she didn't even act like this when on her monthly but every time we get cuddly and kiss she gets mad at me and then says i act like a baby because i'm overly sensitive. yes i am sensitive and emotional but could there be a reason why she is acting like this? oh and another thing she wants me to get phone records from my house phone because she thinks one of my past friends (female whom i don't talk to no more) is calling and my gf thinks i'm cheating on her with that other girl which i cut off communication with her a long time ago so what can i do to help both situations Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 November 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks for your insight but recently I talked to her and she told me she wants a mature relationship and she says that one or maybe two kisses is enough for the day and I know she is close to her period but I'm not sure that may be the reason I know she gets easily annoyed but its usually about what I do I hug her or hold her and she says no cuz she's annoyed and because I tend to cry a lot because I'm sensitive and she thinks I am a baby I will admit sometimes I cry and become irrational but once I realize that I get over it and admit to acting that why and apologizing. Also I think its not so easy getting phone records anyways I'm not sure because I have at&t I know it is true but its the only why I can prove to her I am not lying
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reader, LaDiabla13  +, writes (2 November 2010):
Whoa sit down for this one. She may be cheating on you. For girls, it doesn't matter where we kiss you. Ive kissed in front of my parents and I knew a couple that got demerits for PDA (went to catholic school)What concerns me is her pulling away from you....plus she's also accusing you of cheating, a behavior set to mask their own infidelity. I don't want to bring your age into this, but she has no business looking through your phone records. You guys aren't an old married couple yet, tell her to slow her role.
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