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*eeraj
writes:my brothers wife had a affairs with me,i have to come out of that, plzzz advice.we love each other, its not an affair, my brother is always busy, he was not attention to family, not spending time to wife, she has a 2 kid, she got married past 6 years, but she was not getting love from her husband, so she felt in my love, i am younger to her, but we love each other, we had affair only for less than year, now i am feeling guilty, even she feel guilty, it is an accident, now i want to come out of it, i want them to be happy, but i cannot be without thinking about her, plz advice
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reader, Wifeyindistress  +, writes (2 November 2010):
 First things first SHE IS YOUR BROTHER'S WIFE. Put yourself in his shoes? would you want your'e wife to do that to you? I know you say she wasn't getting the love from him I know that all to well but, you could have been there for her emotionally and could've drawn the line at physical. Since you are in love with her, you need to talk to her and ask her seriously if she is IN LOVE with your brother? and if so YOU as a brother need to just cut it off with her and tell her that this is it! Think of your brother and his family, his wife is to blame as well. You are going to feel pain but it is bitter sweet with your pain your brother will have his family back. If their marriage is not going to work then let it be because of their problems not because of YOU. Hope that helps.
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