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writes:Hi, I am a student at an American college, coming from Britain. I am really new to the romantic scene, and having a few problems. There is one girl I really like, but I don't know how to ask her out, and I'm not even sure if she likes me at all, though we are friends. I don't know whether to ask unless I feel good about her chances of saying yes. So to sum up this side of the question: I really like this girl, but don't know how to proceed, whether to, or whether she'll want to proceed.On the other side: there is a girl, a friend, who I think might like me. She tends to seek me out before and after class, and she asks me out to coffee quite a bit. However, I don't like her that way, and don't, as far as I know, act that way. This seems to be a pattern with me - the girls I like don't show interest, but girls I don't like do.Could this be to do with the way I act towards girls I like and girls I don't? Any ideas would be so helpful - I'm at a loss. Reply to this Question
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reader, BrownWolf  +, writes (2 November 2010):
That’s because you are looking at girls from a physical point of view, from the outside. A beautiful woman comes from the inside. Yeah, this may all sound cheesy, but true.
Life is just trying to get you to see that, and teach you a lesson.
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reader, Nice_Guy_451 +, writes (2 November 2010):
I really agree with blonde30. Take it slow with the one you like, but try to move forward. And the girls you don't like, try to get to know them. They may be a friend or turn out to be more.
So with the girl you like, try to move on with her. If she feels the same, then I hope she gives you some hints.
Good luck with all this. Hope you get to be with someone you like.
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