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Broke up with ex, and now we talk on the phone a lot, but what does this mean?

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Question - (4 January 2010) 1 Answers - (Newest, 4 January 2010)
A female United States age 41-50, anonymous writes:

Hey Everyone,

My relationship with my ex ultimately fizzled and we've had this weird phone relationship since we broke up. We still talk regularly and the conversations stayed platonic until one night we were sharing our past Christmas memories, and it got late and he had to end the conversation and I apologized for keeping on the phone so late... and he said no, he really enjoyed talking to me in a voice you would use with a girlfriend. He later said he wanted to talk later in the week. So we did, and from there we had a normal conversation, and he turned it sexual asking me risque things. I later called him on it and he said he was dating someone and had no romantic/sexual interest in me at all. He said he was just joking around with me and apologized. So I was wondering if anyone could give me insight as to what his motives are if he is just trying to string me along or something else? If he is just a player?

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A female reader, stella-confused/angry United Kingdom +, writes (4 January 2010):

that boy is trouble he is a total player and he was trying to play you just like that some men i do not understand at all hew was trying to get you back but keep his other relationship a secret you caught him red handed than he lies at you i say stop calling him show him you do not need him anymore . xxx stella-confused/angry

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