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writes:I am engaged to a guy that I have been with for four years now. We have always got along, but I am scared that we aren't asking all the questions we need to ask before marriage because we are afraid our answers wont match up. The situation is we dont have the same religious views and his response is that we can attend seperate churches and when we have children they can just choose which church they want to go to. Another issue is his parents and I get along, but that is just because we have to. At Thanksgiving this year they didn't say anything to me until I was leaving and said goodbye. I just am a person that typically gets along with everything so it is hard for me to deal with this. I want a mother-in-law that I can do things with. Another thing that bothers me is I am in college and like to party and have a good time, I am really social and he has no desire to do any of this. So soometimes he considers me a drunk because I go out on the weekends. Also, I can tell my parents hold back, but they told me that they love him just dont think he is the best fit for me. I just dont know what to do. Will this really work or are we just kidding ourselves?
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reader, mizz.butterflies +, writes (6 February 2010):
 Sorry sweety,it won't work.You guys have too many differences to work on.He sounds like my ex.My parents loved him but yeah,he wasn't the best match for me. I think you are used to the whole thing because you've spent 4 years with this guy and of course you're going to miss him if this is over.You're comfortable with him.However,I feel that you can do much better.You being social and him not having any desire for that...this shows me you guys are too different to be together.
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